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What is the meaning of marriage?
I just think that when we are sad, there is someone to comfort us; when we are frustrated, there is someone to encourage us; when we are sick, there is someone to take care of us; when we are working hard, there is someone to understand; when we are lonely, there is someone to talk to. In short, it is just for two people to help each other and spend their lives happily.
As the saying goes: "A woman's wrong marriage will ruin her whole life, and a man's wrong marriage will ruin three generations." Therefore, it is very important to find the right person to marry.
I think women are like water. If you do everything around this central idea, you can become a good husband. You see, behind every successful man, there is a wonderful woman. Because only when women give men reassurance from behind and take good care of the family can men go out to work hard and achieve their careers with peace of mind.
So what kind of woman doesn’t want your husband? Generally speaking, most women who are "not in love with their husbands" have these three personalities:
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A woman who does not know how to be self-discipline
When When a woman spends money without restraint, we can say that she is young and does not know how to live. But if she does not know how to be self-disciplined in her own behavior, then this woman will definitely not be conducive to the family, let alone a husband.
A woman who does not know how to self-discipline will always spend money lavishly, and will always squander all the money earned by a man. A man will never earn as much as she spends, and she will have to spend all the money she has. If you lose everything, you won’t be able to save any money at all.
A woman who does not understand self-discipline will definitely have no ambition at work and be unmotivated at work. Therefore, she will not have great development and will not earn much money. Such a woman has no ability to be with a man. If we raise a family together, how can we talk about being a prosperous husband? Therefore, a woman who does not understand self-discipline in her character will not be able to prosper her husband at all.
A flirtatious woman
A woman with a prosperous husband must be a measured woman and a woman who is loyal to marriage and love. After following you, there will never be any second thoughts. I am of the same mind as you, thinking about you wholeheartedly, and working hard to help you in your career.
If a woman is flirtatious. If she doesn't know how to control her emotions, but is very affectionate, then even after she gets married, she will continue to have affairs with other men, have extramarital affairs, and cuckold her husband.
If a man marries such a woman, his marriage will have no sense of security, and his life will be chaotic and restless, so he will have no intention of working hard in his career.
Three good things to eat, lazy to do, and women who are greedy for enjoyment
When men are lazy, the house is just a mess. Once a woman is lazy, the whole family will not be able to function. Women who don’t have a husband are often lazy and don’t even bother to wash their own clothes. Do you still expect her to clean the whole house?
A woman with a prosperous husband must be a hard-working woman. She can not only keep her home in order, but also have a positive attitude towards life, know how to be proactive, and usually pass on such a positive attitude. Give it to men, men are more likely to have the energy to fight.
Some women are greedy for enjoyment and always want to get something for nothing and rely on men to support them. Apart from thinking about dressing up, eating delicious food, and playing fun things, I don’t care about anything else every day. Let me ask, how can such a woman become a prosperous husband?
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In today’s life, marriage requires the cooperation of two people. No matter how hard a man works, if a woman does not strive for advancement and spends extravagantly, then the whole family will not be happy.
Women are the feng shui of a family. Behind a successful man, there must be a capable woman helping him. A good woman can lead a prosperous family.
Therefore, for men, when choosing a partner, the most taboo thing is to choose a woman who "doesn't want a husband".
In life, most women who are "unfavorable to their husbands" have these three personality traits. I hope men will carefully identify them when entering marriage.