What are the signs of the rise and fall of a family or family?

Bernard Shaw once said: "Home is the only place in the world where human shortcomings and failures are hidden, and it is also a place where sweet love is hidden."

Home is the starting point of everyone's life and the place where everyone grows up.

No matter where you travel and how long you are away from home, it will always be the most precious concern in your heart.

A warm home gives you a destination, and a happy home gives you shelter.

Everyone hopes that the family can carry their countless beautiful memories and prosper forever.

However, the inheritance of family business cannot be controlled by individual efforts, and it often requires the concerted efforts of several generations of Qi Xin.

The levee of a thousand miles was destroyed in the ant nest.

It is precisely because many people ignore small details that family fatigue accumulates and eventually collapses.

There are always traces to follow before the family declines. If these three strange things often appear, please be on your guard.

Children and grandchildren can't learn well, and the rise and fall of families with bad habits should have both current management and hope for the future.

No one can live forever. When one generation is dying, a new generation is needed to take over.

After all, relying on the efforts of a generation alone can only maintain a temporary prosperity, and no matter how big the family business is, it can only come to a dead end.

If children and grandchildren can't learn the advantages of their ancestors, but they get into bad habits, then the decline of business has become an established fate.

Throughout the feudal dynasties in China's history, the founding monarchs of past dynasties were not necessarily brilliant, but they must have made outstanding achievements in some aspects.

However, it is often because of the failure of a fatuous master that the great achievements of the past were wiped out in just a few years.

The first unified Qin Dynasty perished in the second year, unified the troubled Sui Dynasty, and only two generations of monarchs collapsed, while in the Western Jin Dynasty, the three clans returned to Jin, only four emperors were passed on, and only one country lasted for more than 50 years.

The downfall of these dynasties is directly related to the clumsiness and incompetence of lay people.

Qin Hu Hai listened to Zhao Gao's slanders and neglected state affairs; Yang Guang, emperor of Yang Di, built a large-scale project, endangering the people. Sima Zhong, the fool emperor of the Western Jin Dynasty, even said such ridiculous words as "Why not eat minced meat" when the people were in famine.

As the saying goes, "you can't be poor for three generations, but you can't be rich for three generations."

The decline of the family began with the misfortune of the descendants. Once the family style is corrupted, it is difficult to turn back. It's not easy to make a fortune because of profligacy, but the waste industry is very simple. Once it begins to decline, it is difficult to stop it.

As the saying goes, "A prosperous family is like a needle picking soil, while a defeated family is like pushing sand with water."

The family wealth accumulated by ancestors, the reputation of several generations of business, the scenery and reputation that once existed, can't stand profligacy.

In the movie "Alive", the protagonist Fu Gui was born in a landlord's family, pampered since childhood and lived a very luxurious life. Eating and drinking all day is just hanging out in casinos, looking like a dude.

He depends on his family's money. Although he is not good at gambling, he is still addicted to food. It is not enough to lose all his money, so he will continue to gamble on credit.

The owner of the casino knew that Fu Gui was addicted to gambling. Even though Fu Gui has lost all his money, he still wants to trick Fu Gui into letting the other party put the deed and property on himself.

Finally, Fu Gui lost his money, even his ancestral home to the owner of the casino. From a rich second generation playboy, he became a sad and hateful person whose family was ruined.

Wealth that has never been lost, only inexhaustible desire.

As soon as many families achieve something, they begin to get carried away, indulge in pleasure and embark on the road of self-destruction.

It happens that it is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality.

Once you get used to the profligate life and want to return to your original heart, you must fight against inner greed.

If you want a prosperous family, you must learn to control your own desires, keep learning and improving, and understand the truth of opening up sources and reducing expenditure.

In this way, the frugal and simple family style can affect everyone in the family and can be better inherited and carried forward.

The family is not harmonious and gradually alienated. The bigger the family, the more difficult it is to manage and operate, and the more it needs to maintain each other with harmony and care.

A family with development potential must have a harmonious and warm living atmosphere, otherwise it will not be able to unite as one.

For every member of the family, if you only consider yourself and ignore the feelings of others, it will inevitably lead to estrangement.

Although selfishness is the nature of human nature, it is human nature to give priority to the feelings of self.

But if you live too selfish, it will never be conducive to the development of family businesses, and even lead to unexpected contradictions.

Mr. Stanley Ho, the gambling king, has married four wives and children 17. Apart from his huge career in Hong Kong and Macao, he also invested in many industries abroad and was once one of the richest people in China.

Such a grand family business has naturally become the coveted object of many of his wives and children.

Later, when Mr. He is old, his career will be taken care of by his children. Because of the uneven distribution of property, several wives took their children to court many times and became incompatible enemies.

After the death of Mr. Stanley Ho, the original huge family business has been divided into 7788, and the relationship between family members is completely tense.

Ironically, Mr. He's wish is "I hope my family can live in harmony."

When people's hearts are scattered, home is just a concept in name only.

When the family is harmonious, everyone can bathe in it and enjoy the joy; Family discord, chicken flying a dog jumping all day, even the best foundation is daunting.

Madame Curie once said, "The only real happiness in the world is that a family can cooperate closely with each other."

Home is like a big ship. Everyone is a crew member. Only when this big ship runs smoothly can everyone get where they want to go.

The rise and fall of a family is determined by each family member. Only with the concerted efforts of Qi Xin can * * * make progress in a better direction.

I hope each of us can have a harmonious and happy family, be a good person and be a blessed person under the nourishment of love.