When we were young, we had a female colleague. She heard that there was a face-to-face meeting in the street, and she would approve the eight characters, which was especially accurate. At that time, there was no place to meet a person, so I was very novel about fortune telling and wanted to find out what kind of person I could find. During lunch break, we braved the snow to sneak out of the unit to tell our fortune.
Xue's father is the director of a bureau. She is beautiful, elegant and gentle. Although both women like her very much, they also envy her for her good family background, beautiful appearance and easy-going with everyone.
At that time, the fortune teller said that I was young and hardworking, and I was lucky when I was middle-aged. When I met Xue, she was said to be a blessed person from her eight characters to her face. She has money and a vault, which is her wife's life. Without hard work, everything will be there She lived a long life, lived well and married well.
At that time, I thought this fortune teller was too accurate and I had to admire him.
Everyone has his own life, and snow is a princess's life by nature. When I work hard, she always doesn't care. Many times, she pushes the work to others, and she is always cold.
Later, she fell in love. This young man is very handsome and an official's son. In the early 1990s, this was a very rich family. When they got married, the wedding was grand and grand because of their joint efforts. She really looked like a princess that day, and the decoration of the building and home was unmatched by other girls. When I got married, my husband's family only gave me 3000 yuan, so I had to rely on myself.
Later, she was transferred, and her husband and I both went to work in other cities, so we slowly lost touch.
Years later, people who knew her mentioned her by chance, saying that she was not doing well at all. In the second year of marriage, my mother died of a heart attack, and my father married a young woman in less than half a year.
As a result, the birth difference between her son and her half-brother was about one month, which means that her son is one month older than her brother, which shows how injured she was at that time. Perhaps because of this change and taking care of the children, she was very Buddhist at work and took a long vacation. I believe that if her mother were still alive, she would never be asked to take time off to take care of the children at home.
Without her mother, her family can no longer protect her life.
Later, my husband wanted to run a business and hollowed out the original family property. She was a playboy and her career was ruined. Later, although he returned to work in the original unit, he was marginalized.
Her parents-in-law broke their hearts for their son and didn't live long. He died early in his 60 s, and life was even more difficult.
I met her at the wedding of a colleague's child last year. She was haggard and old. That princess's fate was so embarrassing.
My other sister and I are living well now.
In fact, the fate of this world is still in our own hands. If there is such a good resource as snow, independence, self-improvement, hard work and pursuit will not be bullied by fate. Women must take the initiative in life and become lucky in life.
Fate:
The fate of mankind is different. In the vast sea of people, everyone has his own way of life. Rough life, is this fate? No, life in the west is rich and expensive, so you should do nothing. Naturally, you have everything. No, everything is spelled out with the spirit of hard work. Naxi Tianwang has to work when he is old, but the industry is different. In this vast world, there is no wealth and splendor falling from the sky, only starting from bits and pieces. Rivers and seas are made up of dripping water, "splendor is like a child's play."
A person's fate is in your hands, and you can find a way by exercising yourself. If you go to Naxiweizhang, become one of those criminals, pay the money and sentence you to ten years and eight years, then you blame fate, not because you deserve it. A person should be patriotic, aboveboard, do it all his life, find the right direction, be not afraid of hardship and fatigue, and have the ability to work hard, then you will succeed.
I have studied Yi-ology for more than 20 years, and I can't trust fate when giving advice. However, fate also has some truth in it.
Congenital fate and acquired efforts complement each other.
One life, two luck, three geomantic omen, four merits, five studies, six seven aspects, eight respects, nine friends, ten health, eleven career choices, spouse selection and twelve avoidance of evil.
A person's life means a good life. Samsara is beyond human control. A rich family, scholarly family. In other words, it is heredity, and dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes.
Second, take the peach blossom luck, but with the peach blossom luck, who can see clearly the ups and downs of life is the normal state, so the peach blossom luck is like an opportunity. If you catch it, it will be smooth. If you miss it, you will accumulate your ability and get ready.
Three geomantic omen can be understood as environment, which not only refers to residence, family education, family rules and family style, but also is a part of geomantic omen. Feng Shui can be regarded as a simple environmental science. The living environment is clean, well ventilated, sunny and reasonable in layout, which is beneficial to physical and mental health.
Four qualities of merit means always paying attention to doing more good deeds and building good relationships, so there will be more opportunities, giving people roses, leaving incense in their hands and choosing the right path.
Reading, that is, one of the basic elements of learning, is to understand books, to change one's destiny with knowledge, and to become famous successfully.
Sixth, in ancient times, it refers to fame, that is, you must be admitted to the top scholar and be famous on the list. Learning to be excellent is to be an official. Throughout the ages, it is best to explain the name of the new generation of numerology, which is a bit far-fetched and reasonable.
Seven aspects, that is, efforts to seal Hou and worship Xiang, show the heat of today's public examination. The new school of numerology says appearance and face value, but does not evaluate them.
Eight respects to gods, originally refers to ghosts and gods, refers to faith. It is better to respect the so-called ghosts and gods than to respect the elders and parents. It can also be understood as setting ideals and goals.
To make friends with noble people is to make friends with noble people. Your circle determines your social status, and people's circle is very important.
Ten health, is to maintain the body, wealth is not much to say, the body is fundamental, self-cultivation
Choosing a job and choosing a spouse is to choose a spouse carefully and save ten years of hard work. However, in a stable marriage, it is often necessary to talk about the family. Men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong husband, and husband and wife work together to break the gold.
Twelve, avoid disaster, that is, develop in Geely, avoid danger and not die, and distinguish between right and wrong.
The so-called fate is just a stupid sentence.
I tell you, you are doomed to poverty, just accept your fate honestly.
So I lost a few minutes of hard work and was really poor all my life. Sighing at the end of life is life.
From a macro perspective, numerology theory plays a certain role in maintaining social stability.
After all, it would be better if everyone came to talk about princes and princes, and it would be better to have seeds. Everyone wants to worship princes. What should people in high positions think and do?
So the theory of destiny was widely publicized, and the fire of people's struggle and progress was extinguished from the superstitious point of view.
As a result, fate is somewhat similar to India's caste system.
Low caste, natural discrimination, less welfare, low academic qualifications and less right to speak.
People who believe in fate are often people at the bottom of society, and their ability to change their destiny is relatively lacking.
In fact, the TV series "Four Disciplines of the Whole People" is worth watching, which is the story of ordinary people changing their lives.
As fate says, nothing is illusory. Every action you take today will affect a future result.
Poor people are poor, often for poor reasons:
Obstructed, unwilling to go out and see the vast world.
Old-fashioned, unwilling to change, make positive changes.
Cautious, unwilling to take risks, unwilling to invest, and hoping to get something for nothing.
Lazy, unwilling to learn, unwilling to make enough efforts and suffer enough to grow up.
In fact, fate is just everyone's inner choice.
If you don't try to change, you will naturally find an excuse to attribute your failure to fate.
This is the bad habit of people.
One life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four products, five virtues, five studies, six seven phases, eight respects to ghosts and gods, nine friends and ten practices.
A life is a good life, that is, a good inheritance, a rich family, and a good nature; This is particularly important in characteristic economies, which can indeed save 20 years of efforts, but it is not fundamental.
The second luck means good luck, but with wealth, who can see it clearly? This can be solved by working hard and storing more knowledge.
Three geomantic omen, that is, the house should have good geomantic omen. Feng Shui can be regarded as a simple environmental science, with clean living environment, good ventilation, abundant sunshine and reasonable layout.
Four virtues, that is, always pay attention to doing more good deeds and building good relationships, then there will be more opportunities;
Five reading, that is, you must learn, know books and understand, and knowledge is the best channel to change your destiny;
Sixth, it is necessary to be admitted to the top scholar and be famous on the list. Learning to be excellent is to be an official. Throughout the ages, it is better to be;
Seven aspects, that is, efforts to seal Hou and worship Xiang, show the popularity of the public examination now;
Eight respects to the elders is to respect ghosts and gods. It is better to respect the elders and parents than to respect the so-called ghosts and gods.
Making friends with noble people means making friends with noble people, and your circle determines your social status;
Ten health, is to maintain the body, wealth is not much to say, the body is fundamental;
Choosing a spouse means choosing a spouse carefully, and a good spouse saves ten years of hard work. But in a stable marriage, it is often necessary to talk about the family;
Twelve, to avoid misfortune, is to develop auspicious, pay attention to avoid danger, don't die, you won't die, unless you die.
There are a few superstitions in the above twelve points, and I have replaced them with a more reasonable interpretation.
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Let me tell you something about a friend. This man became a civil servant in our county very early, working from nine to five every day. If you follow a normal life and climb up step by step, you can almost see your old day!
I only remember it was a few years ago. My cousin set up a stall in Shenzhen to sell barbecue. It was already past twelve o'clock at night. This man called and said that he had arrived somewhere in Shenzhen and asked my cousin to pick him up. At that time, my husband joked that you should not be a good civil servant and don't joke here! Later, after repeated confirmation, I found that he was not lying, so I went to pick him up to our place. He escaped from pyramid schemes, was cheated by his own brother and resigned at home.
Instead of staying in Shenzhen, he went home with his cousin's money! Including 1, his brother came home and was severely beaten by him. I lost my job and wandered around every day. Occasionally, one day, a friend accompanied him to drink. This friend has been in the garlic business for several years and has some connections. However, at that time, garlic had been falling for three years in a row. In the city, there are five yuan and twenty-five pounds on the street. Our county is a garlic area, and many buyers put garlic into the cold storage, losing all their money. The cold storage urges them to pay storage fees and electricity bills. . . Many people say that I can't afford this money, and I don't want garlic. All you have to do is handle it as appropriate, and then I can't reach anyone by phone. It's spread everywhere. Whoever loses will jump off the building! It was really not sensational at that time!
This year, he followed this friend all the way to the bottom and took out all his savings. Neither of them knows! Because the cost is extremely low, many of them are won at the cost of cold storage. In other words, in which year, garlic never came back, from a few cents a catty to a peak of nearly ten yuan a catty! No one knows how much goods he saved at that time, only that he quickly changed hundreds of thousands of cars and bought two suites! The next year, he contracted 100 mu of garlic in the village. In the harvest season, he went directly to the fields, and 45,000 mu of farmland was directly handed over to farmers. He asked people to dig out garlic on the same day and manage it themselves, from drying to warehousing!
Garlic prices continued to run at a high level this year. His 100 mu of garlic was cheated to Shenzhen for 50 mu. Nevertheless, he made a lot of money that year. Meanwhile, we continue to buy dried garlic and store it. Roughly estimated, in two years, he earned more than10 million. People around him say he is a multimillionaire!
This is the most legendary turning point of fate I have ever seen! When luck comes, even if you don't want to do anything, there will be something shadowless pushing you forward.
If I had seen this question before, I would have answered it and didn't believe in fate. But now, I want to say that I believe in fate.
I was born in a rural family in the 1970s, with a younger brother and a younger sister behind me. I have been quiet since I was a child, and I like studying. Later, I was admitted to a normal school and became a teacher. Later, I was admitted to the civil service. Until now, I am still an ordinary civil servant.
When I was chatting with my son two days ago, I was still saying: I must have done evil in my last life, and I have come to pay my debts in this life. ...
Originally, I was a person with low material requirements. Because my family was poor, and I was the eldest of several younger siblings in my family, from the beginning of my work, I scrimped and saved to help my younger brother go to college. Later, my sister divorced, and I didn't have a regular job. A few years ago, my sister finally found a permanent job and my nephew graduated from college. When I thought I could catch my breath, something so big happened to my brother that I was heavily in debt. ...
In the meantime, I divorced, and I brought my son out of the house clean and raised him alone. Maybe everyone thinks it's strange that a woman takes her child out of the house clean? Yes, that's right, because I believe I can support my children. Now my son has gone to college … but I am in debt because of my brother!
Every time I think I want to relax, something new appears, which makes me fall into a trough again. I thought I could change my destiny as long as I worked hard, but now, after so many times of fate, I doubt, I hesitate, I am afraid ... maybe I am destined to pay my debts!
Anyway, I will try my best to make money and pay off my debts, for the people I love and those who love me!
Fate is the course of a person's life, which goes through adolescence, youth, middle age and old age, just like spring, summer, autumn and winter.
Let's look at spring first. Spring is the season of sowing and germination. Everything should be sown at this time. When the weather is favorable, the land is fertile and the sun is abundant, it will be full of vitality.
If you are born into a rich and poor family, your fate will be very different. If you are born in a rich family, you will have a good life. Born in poverty, lack of food and clothing.
Summer is the season when everything grows. They can grow smoothly if the weather is fine.
When you are young, if you have a good environment and study knowledge, culture and skills well, you can gallop better in society.
As can be seen from spring and summer, the season here is good and the soil is fertile. When the weather is favorable, everything can grow well.
This phenomenon reflects a truth of "harmony between man and nature". People, like everything else, are born in what environment, which means what achievements will naturally be made. However, everything must meet good weather, which embodies the truth of the other half of "harmony between man and nature". That is, from adulthood, a family's wealth and poverty should be maintained and developed through reasonable management, and whether poverty can be changed or ignored depends on people's subjective efforts or inaction.
Man's destiny is born and made. When a person is a teenager, it is very important to have a good environment and a good enlightener. When he was young, his family was successful and he was lucky to meet a good enlightener. That is good luck and good life.
When you are young, you have independent thinking and action, which will play a great role in judgment and choice. Resolving risks is equivalent to reducing and avoiding failures and removing "suffering". Therefore, half of the wisdom gained by hard work and study usually affects the success or failure of a thing or career. Success and failure are a pair, and we can only choose right and wrong at that time. Hard work and diligence can change our destiny, and heaven rewards diligence.
In society, in the unit, between people, helping others, dedication, diligence, generosity and calmness will be accepted and accepted by people, so as to be accepted and accepted by people and better adapt to this society.
This fate exists, but it is not static. We can become better through personal efforts, diligence, study and good deeds. If you haggle over every ounce, be greedy for petty gain, be lazy, don't study, and have a bad temper, it will affect your personal reputation and quality, be alienated, and affect your career and destiny.
Timing, geographical location and human harmony are the keys to a person's career success. Grasping well, choosing well, often reflecting, empathizing, being diligent and kind, adjusting and knowing yourself in time and changing yourself are all possible, that is, reducing your mistakes and winning the favor of fate, that is, changing your life and changing your destiny.
I didn't believe in my life when I was young, but now I do. Let me talk about my colleagues. My colleague graduated from technical secondary school in 1980. He is 1 m 65, 1.70kg, with a juryman face, but he can cook well. His parents' family conditions are average. He squeezed into an old house of more than 30 square meters. After graduating from technical secondary school, he began to look for someone. The first postal savings bank employee had a house, and his parents didn't like to do formal work. Less than one meter eight, several parents can always find fault after chatting intermittently. At the age of 32, my parents were anxious. Someone introduced a boy whose parents divorced in 1982, and both parents remarried, leaving the boy with an old house of 30 square meters without heating. The boy's factory worker earns more than 3000 yuan a month, but my colleague is also married, but after marriage, my colleague's parents dislike and scold his son-in-law every day, and my colleague has been living in his parents' house in winter. Old people have no heating, and it is very cold in winter. A year later, a girl was born, and my colleague's parents scolded her even more. Later, the son-in-law couldn't make money and finally divorced. Colleagues took their children back to their parents' home, but two years after the divorce, the son-in-law received a subsidy of 3 million yuan for house removal. He spent 6.5438+0 million yuan to buy a new house and married a beautiful young wife. Another son was born, and my colleague didn't have that fate. The year before last, my colleague found out that there were multiple fibroids in the uterus, because there were too many fibroids to clean up and it was impossible to cut the uterus. Now I have been living with my parents and daughter. My colleague's parents always want to find a best man for my colleague, but the more they look for it, the more they delay my colleague's life, and sometimes they don't believe in it.
Superstition and Luck —— Enlightenment from Zeng Guofan's Epitaph
Is there a difference between superstition and luck? Everyone has his own opinion, and my opinion is: there is no difference! Superstition is a popular saying of luck; Luck is just a superstitious scientific statement. Zeng Guofan's epitaph has only twelve words: "don't believe in books, believe in luck;" The words of the public will be passed down forever. " Translated into vernacular: don't trust the books you have read, believe in luck. These are the only two sentences that can be passed down from generation to generation.
To tell the truth, when I first saw this epitaph of 12, I felt incredible! Who is Zeng Guofan? Scholars who started out in rural areas have pursued the principle of "studying hard, being honest, doing things in a down-to-earth manner and working hard" all their lives, and have achieved countless great achievements: eliminating the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, eliminating the Nian Army, the governor of Liangjiang, the governor of Zhili, a university student in Wuyingdian, and a very important minister. Such a great man said countless famous words before his death. And his last epitaph actually told future generations not to believe in reading but to believe in luck? Isn't that unkind? But Zeng Guofan is a famous kind man in history. How can he talk like that?
Xiao Yishan, a famous historian in the Republic of China, once said: "Zeng Guofan's achievements in his life come from his knowledge." It can be seen that learning is the fundamental foundation of Zeng Guofan's great achievements in his life, and a large part of learning comes from reading! Zeng Guofan, who has read countless people all his life, actually pointed out another way to future generations at the last moment of his life: "Don't trust books, believe in luck." This is incredible!
For a long time, I didn't understand: what was the intention of doing this? It was not until I listened to a program called "Luo Ji Thinking" the other morning that this mystery was awakened: in fact, what I said was very meaningful and kind!
His last words can be understood from two levels, or: this sentence is addressed to two kinds of people. The first kind of people are those who have a successful career. Zeng Guofan used this sentence to warn them that your success is not entirely the result of your personal efforts, but also the factors of fate and luck. Even if it has achieved great success, it should be somewhat "blessed" and always remain in awe of the fate factors containing uncertainty. God can care for you or abandon you, so don't be too conceited in life!
The second meaning is aimed at the second kind of people, but also at the vast majority of people. Zeng Zheng Wen encouraged them to say: The reason why you didn't succeed is that your luck hasn't arrived yet. Don't be discouraged, don't be discouraged, and don't regret reading too little. Luck is coming, the door panel can't stop it! We must always hold a hope for the uncertain God of Destiny. With hope, life can be healthy and meaningful! Don't feel too inferior in life.
The epitaph of just twelve words tells how many kinds of philosophy there are in the world. Zeng Guofan and Zeng Zhengwen are honest and kind people!