Therefore, they can't tolerate those who follow Nuo Nuo's lead and are content with mediocrity. For those who don't have their own thoughts and opinions, they are dismissive. They will think that these people are weak and incompetent, and they will look down on them from the bottom of their hearts. They are also confident, even arrogant.
Strong and selfish women have the following performances: controlling men's wallets, making their own decisions, cultivating men as children, and not respecting each other's families.
1, control a man's wallet:
If a man loves you and thinks you have the ability to keep the house, he will give you the money willingly. You don't have to force him. Controlling a man financially and making him reach out for money from you actually hurts his self-esteem. After a long time, men will resist, so it is natural to hide private money.
2. Everything depends on you:
The harmony and stability of a family can not be separated from the mutual respect and love between husband and wife. Mutual respect means mutual respect. In marriage, some women are too strong and feel that their husbands are incompetent. At home, they never discuss big or small issues with their husbands. They do whatever they want, completely ignoring their husbands' existence. Doing so is not only disrespectful to the husband, but also reduces the prestige of the man in front of the child, which is also unfavorable to the healthy growth of the child's body and mind.
3. Train men like children:
Some women don't simply nag when their husbands do something wrong, but reprimand them. Regardless of her husband's face, training her husband at home or in front of outsiders is like training a child. Women feel that they have a lot of face, but they don't know that they hurt men's self-esteem. It is easy for men to quarrel if they don't express their dissatisfaction.
Extended data:
A woman who is too strong will threaten a man's dignity. After all, what men care about most is dignity and face. If the wife always presses herself everywhere, it will make him look down upon in front of relatives and friends. Especially in public, if women bosse around men regardless of place and time, men will naturally feel humiliated.
In the family, if women are too strong, it may also affect the formation and development of children's personality. Especially for some typical "strong women and weak men" families, the wife is uncompromising and takes the lead, while the husband always takes orders from Nuo Nuo and has no right to speak. Children who get married in this family atmosphere often learn the way to get along with their parents.
In old age, the greatest happiness is the conjugal love of husband and wife, full house of children and grandchildren, and family happiness. But if you are too strong, it will only make your old age even more bleak. Not only is your child unfilial, but even the other half will be indifferent. When I was young, it was too strong for anyone to care about, but Feng Shui will turn, and it will be the same when I am old.