One of my relatives, who was widowed in his thirties, left two sons, one in his teens and one in his twenties. At the beginning, the rural people wanted nothing, so they wanted to raise their two sons. I worked hard until my youngest son was sent to college. He was over 50 years old and began to feel obvious decline in all aspects of his body. However, the sons have long been separated from each other, one is rooted in a big city and the other is studying in the north, so they can't take care of them at all.
She said she wanted to find a wife. As a result, her two sons disagreed, and relatives advised her that after so many years, she was going to be a grandmother and was still tossing. I have no choice but to give up. Now when we go back to our hometown, sometimes we will see her enjoying the cool in front of the hall, sitting on a bamboo chair, with gray hair and staring at the big tree at the door. Loneliness makes people feel very sad. We call her grandma, and she is very happy. She often brings us candy like our children, so we don't eat it.
We know that she likes to have someone to talk with her at home and likes to be lively. Therefore, people should live for themselves, which does not conflict with fulfilling other responsibilities and obligations. Find a partner and walk together for a while After all, the rest of your life is still very long, and wind, frost and rain are common. No one can accompany you.
Talk about emotional needs. If you are cheerful and have a wide range of interests, you will be lonely. Isn't it three full and one pour every day? Don't worry about others, mind your own eating, drinking and having fun. It's out of reach for children. If you really feel empty at home, it's really hard to feel without company. Then there is a suitable one, and we can talk about it. Let's take one more step. It's not easy anyway. Everything depends on objective conditions and fate. Everything else is secondary.
You said you should get a divorce if necessary, and then find someone who has different aspirations and ways and doesn't know how to care about others, and then you will have a bad heart for the rest of your life. Needless to say, some women are so dependent that they can't live alone and are afraid of not having a companion at home. Therefore, if you remarry and don't remarry, you don't have to be all yourself. You've been here for most of your life, so you can be comfortable, and you can't insist on everything.