What are the taboos and stresses when you come back from the funeral? These are superstitious practices. If you believe it, pat your clothes before entering the room, or shake your shoulders and beat your trouser legs. When you go out at night within seven days, you must light a cigarette and put it out after entering the house! Nothing else! Finally, advise friends to believe in science and materialism! Good luck!
What are the taboos for attending a funeral? The customs and habits of different nationalities and regions vary greatly. The so-called "different customs in ten miles" means that the old tradition of funeral of Han people pays attention to heavy burial, which is mixed with many superstitious customs. Coffin burial has been popular in Han nationality since ancient times, and the funeral is grand and divided into three stages: burial, burial and burial. The funeral is to dress the body and put it under the coffin. Before a person dies, he should summon the soul and bathe the dead. Funeral is divided into two steps: small funeral and large funeral. A small undertaker is a cloth used to wrap his body, silk is for the rich and jade is for the royal family. Great-coat is to put the body in the coffin. Coffins are called "longevity materials", male coffins are engraved with the word "longevity", female coffins are engraved with the word "blessing", and some coffins are engraved with the combination of the words "Fu Lushou". When he was dying, he put rice in the mouth of the dead man. This rich family owns jade, pearls, etc. , the royal family contains jade, modern silver, are called "rice". When you die, there are often some things buried with you. Generally, people have clothes, quilts and daily necessities, and wealthy families and royalty will have many valuable items buried with them. A funeral is to stay in the funeral palace after the funeral. The mourning period varies from 3 days to 30 days, mainly depending on the mourners. In ancient times, coffins were buried for three months, up to seven months. According to the traditional customs of the Han nationality, children should mourn when their parents die, otherwise it is unfilial. Relatives and friends will mourn and pay homage to the deceased in the future, which is called "mourning" or "condolence". All mourners should mourn. In ancient times, the mourning clothes of Han nationality were divided into five types: Wei, Cui Zi, Dagong, Hong Xiao and Zhima, which were called "five clothes". They are made of coarse linen and fine linen, and wear different mourning clothes according to the relationship between relatives and friends, which is called "Pima Dai Xiao". In modern times, white cloth is often used for mourning. Modern cities generally wear white flowers on their chests and black gauze on their arms. Burying is burying the body of the dead, that is, burying the coffin. Before burial, the old custom often depends on geomantic omen and chooses a cemetery, which is called "choosing good luck". Funeral is also called funeral. At the funeral, the ancient Han people were generally "dutiful sons", and undertaker sang an elegy. Elegy has evolved into elegy in modern times. Relatives and friends wrote elegiac couplets or funeral elegiac couplets, which evolved into wreaths of elegiac couplets in modern times. In ancient times, the custom of offering sacrifices to people (mainly close relatives, near ministers and near servants, which remained until the Qing Dynasty) was gradually replaced by pottery figurines, and in modern times, paper figures were buried with them. After the funeral, there are memorial ceremonies for the seventh, seventh, centenary and anniversary, and the memorial tablet belongs to the ancestral hall, which has changed from a ceremony for people at the funeral to a ceremony for "ghosts" and "ancestors". In addition, the Han nationality also has the custom of "returning to burial", that is, transporting the bodies that died in other places back to their original places. During the funeral, the relatives of the deceased should wear mourning clothes and wake in the mourning hall. In the ancient etiquette system of China, filial piety was divided into five grades according to the kinship with the deceased. There is also a word "five clothes" in modern Chinese to express the distance of blood relationship. Filial piety is made of white cloth, which is quite different from the custom of westerners wearing white clothes to make dresses. In the Qing Dynasty, an Englishman came to China for the first time. When he met the funeral procession, everyone was dressed in white, but his expression was painful, sad and strange. In ancient times, people sang elegies at funerals, and Tao Yuanming, a great poet in Jin Dynasty, wrote three elegies for himself before his death. The elegy of later generations evolved from the elegy of ancient times. The scale of the funeral ceremony is closely related to the status of the deceased. In feudal society, there were strict regulations on funeral ceremonies for people with different identities and status. Princes, nobles and rich people often show off their power with large-scale funerals. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Qin Keqing died in Ningguo Mansion with a coffin worth several thousand taels of silver. Two or three hundred monks chanted, and the procession at the funeral was "mighty and unstoppable". The poor don't even have enough food and clothing, so naturally there is no "reburial". Sometimes you can only wrap the body with a mat and bury it hastily. After the death of the elder, children and grandchildren should stay at home for 27 months, during which time they should stop socializing and entertaining. Officials must also leave their jobs and go home to mourn their relatives. It is said that the example of "observing the system" funeral procedure is that someone died, aged 8 1, male, military background, full of children and grandchildren. Change clothes, wear military uniforms and long-lived shoes. Covered with yellow silk and white silk towel. All the buttons on the clothes should be cut off, and the clothes should be tied tightly with cloth belts, but the "dead knot" of preliminary cosmetic surgery should not be done: the five senses should be reset, and a gold ingot or a coin should be stuffed in the mouth. Gold ingot in the left hand (all imitations) and dog stick (convenient chopsticks) in the right hand. The body is tied with a red line, mainly hands and feet. If there are cats and dogs to take care of at home, you can't go near the body. (to prevent the soul of the deceased from attaching to animals) transported to the funeral home. The portrait of a simple mourning hall at home: I prepared enlarged photos in advance and bought a special photo frame. Set the black ribbon. Provide a table for worship ... >>
What are the taboos at the funeral? Avoid people attending the funeral and agree to the birthday of the deceased. Because of the principle of "meridian meets Jin Mu", if the deceased was born in the following year, no matter the relatives or friends of the deceased, anyone born in the afternoon can't attend the funeral ceremony. In addition, pregnant women and babies are also forbidden to send funerals, for fear of being infected with ominous gas. Don't attend funerals, and the zodiac signs of the deceased: At funerals, there is usually a notice board explaining which zodiac signs conflict with the zodiac signs of the deceased and must be avoided. Some will put a basin of water in the mourning hall to bathe the guests who come to attend the funeral to dispel the ominous atmosphere. Don't cry at the funeral, shed tears for the dead: relatives and friends of the dead should keep calm when holding the funeral ceremony. No one is allowed to cry at this time, otherwise the dead can't leave, and their souls can't ascend to heaven, so they can only stay in the funeral home. If you accidentally drop your tears on the deceased because you cry, it will make the deceased wander around the world and cannot be reincarnated. No burial in July: July is regarded as a ghost month by ordinary people. At this time, the gates of hell in the underworld opened wide and many ghosts were exiled to the underworld. If you are buried in July, it may attract more ghosts, which is even worse for your family. Don't cut your hair or shave during the mourning period: according to folk custom, relatives can't cut your hair or shave you during the mourning period at home. It is generally believed that this is to express extreme grief, so that it is impossible to take care of pruning. And its other purpose is to ward off evil spirits, to make yourself look different in peacetime through unkempt appearance, so that the dead can't recognize it and avoid being disturbed. Don't say "heavy" when going out for a funeral: when going out for a funeral, the coffin bearer should keep quiet and don't say "heavy". If you accidentally blurt it out, it may lead to accidents, such as the coffin being heavier and harder to lift, or the coffin falling to the ground when moving. Don't go to see the temple building, get married and get in touch with pregnant women and babies with filial piety: because it is generally believed that filial piety has an ominous smell, and all occasions related to sacred events and celebrations, such as building temples, setting stoves, or weddings and wedding banquets, should be avoided. Otherwise, under the fierce infection of filial piety, the temple building is ineffective, or the relationship between newlyweds is not good. If undertaker comes into contact with the mother or baby, it will lead to dystocia of the mother and premature death of the baby.
What are the taboos for attending a funeral? These days, it is monkeys who commit tai sui, tigers who rush tai sui, snakes who punish tai sui and pigs who harm tai sui. All four are in the Year of the Monkey, which is quite scary. Pregnant women can't be afraid of hurting {the baby's fetus}, women can't have their period, and the dead are afraid of rushing. Attend the funeral normally, cut the table tennis into a big circle with red cloth and stick it on the navel with tape to avoid evil spirits. Now it is best to wear clothes that represent the essential colors, respect etiquette, wear mourning clothes for relatives, or wear hemp to represent filial piety. When you get off the bus, you should use wreath paper and incense to help the bereaved, and bow. You should not play cheerful music while driving.
Funeral taboo
1, attend the funeral, be careful, don't talk nonsense, look around, for example, it's a pity to say that the girl is so beautiful in the photo of the deceased. ...
2, the deceased is big, do not speak during the ceremony, the performance is not solemn.
3, in the funeral home, don't look at other mourning halls.
4, pay attention to wear, * * * colorful or bright clothes to participate!
5. Be serious when attending the funeral, and don't laugh!
6. The first package (white package) must be odd, such as 1 100, 2 100.
7. Don't say goodbye to your family when you leave, and don't say goodbye to friends who went to the funeral together. The folklore in Taiwan Province Province is so unlucky that it seems that the same thing will happen again soon.
8. If you want to go to the bathroom or toilet, don't go to the dressing room (room), because the dressing room is a place to help the dead make up.
9. You can bring a red envelope to the funeral with some rice and salt in it. Rice and salt can ward off evil spirits, and you can also take wormwood to ward off evil spirits, and then throw it to the river or roadside on your way home.
10, after the funeral, go home to a crowded place to avoid bringing back bad things!
1 1. The towels taken at the funeral should be washed with clear water and dried before use.
12. Wipe your whole body with wormwood and hibiscus before going home.
13. Pregnant women should avoid attending funerals. If they have to, they should tie a red cloth around their waist so as not to hurt the baby.
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What should I pay attention to when going to the funeral home? The most important thing is to pay attention to your clothes. Don't dress too fancy and bright. You should pay attention to being decent and dark to look serious. As for other forms, just follow the crowd. Nothing is too complicated. Take it easy. Good luck.
What should I pay attention to when attending a funeral? In view of the great differences in customs and habits of different nationalities and regions, the so-called "ten miles of different customs"
The old tradition of Han funeral is to pay attention to heavy burial, which is mixed with many superstitious customs. Coffin burial has been popular in Han nationality since ancient times, and the funeral is grand and divided into three stages: burial, burial and burial.
The funeral is to dress the body and put it under the coffin. Before a person dies, he should summon the soul and bathe the dead. Funeral is divided into two steps: small funeral and large funeral. A small undertaker is a cloth used to wrap his body, silk is for the rich and jade is for the royal family. Great-coat is to put the body in the coffin. Coffins are called "longevity materials", male coffins are engraved with the word "longevity", female coffins are engraved with the word "blessing", and some coffins are engraved with the combination of the words "Fu Lushou". When he was dying, he put rice in the mouth of the dead man. This rich family owns jade, pearls, etc. , the royal family contains jade, modern silver, are called "rice". When you die, there are often some things buried with you. Generally, people have clothes, quilts and daily necessities, and wealthy families and royalty will have many valuable items buried with them.
A funeral is to stay in the funeral palace after the funeral. The mourning period varies from 3 days to 30 days, mainly depending on the mourners. In ancient times, coffins were buried for three months, up to seven months. According to the traditional customs of the Han nationality, children should mourn when their parents die, otherwise it is unfilial. Relatives and friends will mourn and pay homage to the deceased in the future, which is called "mourning" or "condolence". All mourners should mourn. In ancient times, the mourning clothes of Han nationality were divided into five types: Wei, Cui Zi, Dagong, Hong Xiao and Zhima, which were called "five clothes". They are made of coarse linen and fine linen, and wear different mourning clothes according to the relationship between relatives and friends, which is called "Pima Dai Xiao". In modern times, white cloth is often used for mourning. Modern cities generally wear white flowers on their chests and black gauze on their arms.
Burying is burying the body of the dead, that is, burying the coffin. Before burial, the old custom often depends on geomantic omen and chooses a cemetery, which is called "choosing good luck". Funeral is also called funeral. At the funeral, the ancient Han people were generally "dutiful sons", and undertaker sang an elegy. Elegy has evolved into elegy in modern times. Relatives and friends wrote elegiac couplets or funeral elegiac couplets, which evolved into wreaths of elegiac couplets in modern times.
In ancient times, the custom of offering sacrifices to people (mainly close relatives, near ministers and near servants, which remained until the Qing Dynasty) was gradually replaced by pottery figurines, and in modern times, paper figures were buried with them.
After the funeral, there are memorial ceremonies for the seventh, seventh, centenary and anniversary, and the memorial tablet belongs to the ancestral hall, which has changed from a ceremony for people at the funeral to a ceremony for "ghosts" and "ancestors".
In addition, the Han nationality also has the custom of "returning to burial", that is, transporting the bodies that died in other places back to their original places.
During the funeral, the relatives of the deceased should wear mourning clothes and wake in the mourning hall. In the ancient etiquette system of China, filial piety was divided into five grades according to the kinship with the deceased. There is also a word "five clothes" in modern Chinese to express the distance of blood relationship. Filial piety is made of white cloth, which is quite different from the custom of westerners wearing white clothes to make dresses. In the Qing Dynasty, an Englishman came to China for the first time. When he met the funeral procession, everyone was dressed in white, but his expression was painful, sad and strange. In ancient times, people sang elegies at funerals, and Tao Yuanming, a great poet in Jin Dynasty, wrote three elegies for himself before his death. The elegy of later generations evolved from the elegy of ancient times.
The scale of the funeral ceremony is closely related to the status of the deceased. In feudal society, there were strict regulations on funeral ceremonies for people with different identities and status. Princes, nobles and rich people often show off their power with large-scale funerals. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Qin Keqing died in Ningguo Mansion with a coffin worth several thousand taels of silver. Two or three hundred monks chanted, and the procession at the funeral was "mighty and unstoppable". The poor don't even have enough food and clothing, so naturally there is no "reburial". Sometimes you can only wrap the body with a mat and bury it hastily.
After the death of the elder, children and grandchildren should stay at home for 27 months, during which time they should stop socializing and entertaining. Officials must also leave their jobs and go home to be filial to show their condolences to their relatives. This is the so-called "shouzhi".
Examples of funeral procedures
Suppose someone died at the age of 8 1, male, military background, full of children and grandchildren.
Change clothes, wear military uniforms and long-lived shoes. Covered with yellow silk and white silk towel.
All the buttons on the clothes should be cut off, and the clothes should be tied with a cloth belt, but not with a "dead knot".
Initial plastic surgery: facial features reset, with a gold ingot or a coin in his mouth. Gold ingot in the left hand (all imitations) and dog stick (convenient chopsticks) in the right hand.
The body is tied with a red line, mainly hands and feet. If there are cats and dogs to take care of at home, you can't go near the body. (to prevent the soul of the deceased from attaching to animals) transported to the funeral home.
Set up a simple mourning hall at home
Portrait: I prepared an enlarged photo in advance for exclusive use ... >>
What should I pay attention to after attending the funeral? Of course, you should pay attention to taking a bath. Clean up the soil on your feet before you enter the door. Don't bring dirt into the house, then take a hot bath to remove the dirt. It should be nothing. If you are not at ease, sprinkle a row of salt on the door.