Boyfriend studies philosophy, and he looks at all problems from a philosophical perspective. I am in pain! Can you tell me what to do?

Zhuangzi said that there are high and low ideological levels, and the highest is to regard it as the Tao, that is, to treat everything with an equal attitude; The lower realm is self-esteem, that is, thinking that you are good at everything and others are good at everything. Confucius also said that the ancient learning is for oneself, and the present learning is for human beings. In other words, ancient sages read books to improve their self-cultivation, while today's people read books to brag about themselves and gain utility. Therefore, your boyfriend's ideological level is too low to be like a philosopher, or at least his philosophical research is not in place.