Many people have been thinking about the custom of having a boy and having a child after marriage. The children are very cute. After having children, there are many customs in many places, and the customs in different places are different. What boys have the custom of lighting cigarettes for everyone?
The custom of boys lighting lamps is 1, which is found in Lingnan areas such as Henan, Huizhou, Hakka and Chaoshan.
Light a lamp under the stove. Since 13, the Lantern Festival has been put on in advance, and bamboo lanterns have been arranged in every alley and bridge. The custom of lighting lanterns on the Lantern Festival originated from the ternary theory of Taoism. The fifteenth day of the first month is Shangyuan Festival, the fifteenth day of July is Zhongyuan Festival, and the fifteenth day of October is Xiayuan Festival.
In Chaoshan and other Lingnan areas, every household should light a lamp from the 11th to 18th of the first month, especially the Lantern Festival. If there was a boy at home after the Lantern Festival last year, lanterns would be hung on the lampstand of the ancestral hall of the clan in the township to announce the aggravation in the township and accept the congratulations of the villagers.
Guangzhou is used to turning on the lights for bedside women on the twelfth day of the first month, praying for the healthy and safe growth of children. On the thirteenth day of the first month, light a kitchen lamp until midnight snack.
Because China has been in an agricultural society for a long time, the male labor force of the family is very important to the prosperity of the family, and having a boy is a happy event for the whole family. In ancient times, there was a saying that the boy Jia Ding, Ding and Deng were homophonic in many dialects. Therefore, the custom of midnight snack lighting and chandelier also has good wishes.
Traditional customs of the Spring Festival:
1, paste Spring Festival couplets: Spring Festival couplets are posted every Spring Festival to increase the festive atmosphere of the festival, also called Spring Festival couplets. Traditional spring stickers are handwritten with a brush, but there are also spring stickers printed by machines. There are many kinds of Spring Festival couplets, including street couplets and door couplets, but not every Spring Festival couplets has a horizontal batch.
2, cut window grilles, paste door couplets: Before the Chinese New Year holiday, some festive and auspicious window grilles will be cut.
3. Hanging New Year's pictures: New Year's pictures are a kind of Chinese paintings, which began with the ancient door god paintings. One of the Han folk arts, is also one of the common folk handicrafts. During the Guangxu period of Qing Dynasty, it was officially called New Year Pictures, which was a unique painting school of Han nationality in China and an art form loved by rural people in China. Mostly used for posting in the New Year, decorating the environment, with the meaning of wishing the New Year auspicious and festive, hence the name.
4. Dragon dance: Dragon dance is a traditional dance that originated in China. In ancient times, dragon and lion dances were one of the programs of large festivals in a year. With Chinese emigrating to other parts of the world, dragon dance culture has spread all over China, Taiwan Province Province, Hongkong, Southeast Asia, Europe, America, Australia and New Zealand, and has become a symbol of China culture.
The custom of boys lighting 2 When do Guangdong boys light up?
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Looking back on the Chinese New Year, many people share Guangdong customs with you. So far, the customs in Guangdong will remain unchanged.
This time, it is said that "lighting a lamp" is a popular traditional folk custom in Guangdong during the Spring Festival.
Lighting is also called lighting, adding lights, raising lights, etc. The sound of "light" is similar to that of "ding", and ding is added when lighting (adding lights). This is a traditional folk custom that is officially written into the genealogy to celebrate the birth of men. It is grand and lively.
What needs special explanation is that "boy" is a hard rule that cannot be changed with the lighting custom. Tim Kou (with girls) does not light.
In Zhanjiang, newly added families began to prepare children's lanterns as early as the Spring Festival.
The first is "repairing the lamp"-booking lanterns. Usually, a craftsman is responsible for making lanterns in a small village, organizing the production according to the data and specifications needed by the villagers, and then delivering the lanterns before they are officially raised.
Secondly, seeing relatives-it is convenient to send new clothes to boys, which is an important part of the lighting custom.
Around the tenth day of the Lunar New Year, the custom of lighting in Zhanjiang continued one after another.
There is a general ceremony of putting out lanterns. Lanterns are hung behind ancestral temples or temporary sheds symbolizing temples, and lanterns and eggs are hung to light internal oil lamps. Finally, Daogong held a grand sacrifice ceremony with the family members who put lanterns in those years (the boy who put lanterns, his father and grandfather will also participate in it when he was alive).
With the completion of the Lantern Festival, men's names were officially written into the genealogy. On the one hand, it has the meaning of being recognized and accepted by the collective, and it also contains all kinds of beautiful meanings, such as peace, smoothness, intelligence and prospect. ...
The sign of "lighting" is that you have drunk "lighting wine".
On October 6th, 2008/kloc, villagers will invite Daogong Gay to preside over the ceremony of "tying lanterns" again, and then take down the "lantern eggs" symbolizing the prosperous population and the Millennium of the family-take them home for safekeeping, complete the burning of lanterns, and finally entertain relatives and friends to drink lantern wine.
In Meizhou, the lighting time varies from the ninth day of the first month to the eighteenth day of the first month, generally concentrated on the twelfth, thirteenth and fourteenth days of the first month.
One of the most important customs in Meizhou is to invite lanterns.
One or two days before the Lantern Festival, the newlyweds agreed to organize a team to invite (buy) lanterns, led by Ding Shou, the parents who gave birth to the first boy last year. Accompanied by the gongs and drums team and the dragon and lion dance team, firecrackers rang all the way, and the guns kept "inviting" lanterns.
Please go home and put the lanterns solemnly on the table of the Eight Immortals. On the day when lanterns are put on, "Ding Shou" will gather other families to invite lanterns and hang them under the roof beam of Gong Zu Hall, and hang lanterns symbolizing men. The number of lanterns depends on the man born in the previous year. Add five new men, add five lanterns, seven boys are seven lanterns, and so on.
Of course, "carrying lanterns" means simply carrying lanterns. In fact, the ceremony of carrying lanterns is the climax of the whole activity, grabbing white flowers before carrying lanterns; When lanterns are lit, firecrackers and fireworks will be set off, and dragon and lion dances will be held. ...
Take Zhanjiang and Meizhou as examples. Both of them are traditional folk customs of putting lanterns, but their "presentation" is quite different. However, no matter how different in form, their intentions are always the same. First of all, they want their children to be happy, safe and get ahead.
As for the wonderful and lively custom of "putting on lanterns" in Huizhou, Dongguan, Shanwei and other places in Guangdong, I look forward to your supplement.
The custom of lighting a lamp for giving birth to a boy 3 The most accurate way to give birth to a son is Feng Shui.
1, the bedroom is full of sunshine.
It is said that the decoration of the bedroom is very important for the birth of a son. The bedroom is sunny and easy to have a son. In the ancient Yangzhai school, if the spouse's bedroom is sunny, there will be a sunny scene, which will lead to the birth of a son.
This bed is too stable.
The bed next to the bedroom is also very important next to Feng Shui. The bed is stable and represents the stable residence of the woman's brother during pregnancy. Remember not to sleep on the floor or fold the quilt. Next to feng shui is not conducive to pregnancy. In addition, pregnant families are not allowed to put too many sundries under the bed.
3, the bedroom has a threshold
Next to feng shui, there is a threshold in the pregnant bedroom, and the fetal gas remains next to it in the later period. Nowadays, the decorative personality of modern society can be found, and usually there is only a threshold at the gate. How to remedy it at this time? It is suggested that we'd better lay a carpet in front of our bedroom to cater to the saying next to Feng Shui and keep the tire gas.
There are precious trees at home.
If there are pomegranate trees, osmanthus trees, even bananas and other plants with grandchildren at home. It's easy to have a boy.
5. Hang a picture of the boy.
Nowadays, married people usually hang photos in their bedrooms. If the picture is a boy, it is easy to have a boy. If the picture is a girl, it's easy to get rid of the girl. Generally speaking, parents who want a boy had better hang a picture of the boy.
6, indoor painted light color
If the main color of home interior decoration is white, it is easy to get a baby boy.
What should I put at home for help?
1, Songzi Guanyin statue
People will go to the temple to pray for Guanyin to appear, so there is often a saying of "giving Guanyin to children". Therefore, if a statue of Guanyin is put at home, especially an effective temple statue, it will often bring better results. Putting Guanyin in a shrine and praying at home every day can also make you feel at ease, and this mentality is also easier to conceive children.
2. Kirin statue
In the traditional culture of China, the unicorn is a symbol of reproduction, especially the mother-child unicorn, which can bring a prosperous atmosphere to a family. For families without children, if a "farewell unicorn" is placed, it will be able to urge the wife to conceive a child as soon as possible. But when placing, it is best to put this kind of Kirin ornaments in a position of impunity, if there is sunshine.
3. Begging for doll ornaments
If you want to have a baby, you can use some decorations or household items with cute dolls in the room, such as pillow towels embroidered with cute dolls, and put more cute dolls at the bedside, which is also helpful for having a baby.
4. Flowers and fruits
Putting flowers in a busy place at home, or putting fruit bowls on the coffee table, will also bring the effect of seeking children. Flowers give people a strong feeling, can make people feel tired, happy and relaxed, can create a romantic atmosphere between husband and wife, and promote the development of intimate relationship between the two sides, while fruit implies having children.