First place: "Zhu" and "Li" are not married.
Li and Zhu have been feuds for thousands of years. At the end of the Tang Dynasty, Li proclaimed himself emperor, and the local regime at that time made Zhu Wen usurp the Tang Dynasty and set up the. Since then, Li's Tang Dynasty has perished, and Li and Zhu have become enemies.
Hundreds of years later, Zhu Yuanzhang established the Ming Dynasty. At the end, Li Zicheng launched a peasant uprising and eventually invaded Beijing. Emperor Chongzhen was forced to hang himself on the Long Live Mountain, and the Ming Dynasty perished. Li's revenge was successful, and since then, Zhu and Li's "hatred" has deepened and they have never been married for generations.
Second, "Yang" and "Pan" are not married.
In "The Romance of Yang Jiajiang", the Yang family was framed, resulting in suicide and the deaths of their sons. Since then, the Yang family and the Pan family have become "feuds", and Yang's descendants in Shaanxi have also written the family precepts of not marrying into the family tree.
It is said that in the Yuan and Ming Dynasties, as long as the descendants of the Yang family met the descendants of the Pan family, they not only did not speak, but also confronted each other by force.
Third place: Yue and Qin cannot get married.
Everyone knows why. In the early years of the Southern Song Dynasty, Qin Gui and other treacherous officials framed the famous Yue Fei, who was killed by Song Gaozong on charges of "unwarranted", and later generations fled in all directions.
Since then, the Yue family has made rules, and the Yue family and the Qin family will not get married in the future. Since then, Yue and Qin have never contacted each other again. Some people also wrote romance novels in the Ming Dynasty. The content of the story is that the love between Miss Yue and the Qin family was hindered by their parents and eventually they got married, similar to the story of Romeo and Juliet in the west.
Fourth place: "Zheng" and "Shi" are not married
The cause of these two feuds was Zheng Chenggong's recovery of Taiwan Province in the early Qing Dynasty. At that time, Shi Lang was a general under Zheng Chenggong. Later, Prince Zheng listened to rumors and killed Shi Lang's father and brother. In a rage, Shi Lang wrote to Qing.
Finally, he led the Qing army to attack Taiwan Province Province and destroyed Zheng, which led to the disloyalty of the two surnames, and it was forbidden for future generations to marry.
Fifth place: "Wu" and "Pan" do not marry.
The source comes from the Water Margin, and Wu Dalang married Pan Jinlian. However, Pan Jinlian hooked up with Ximen Qing and killed Wu Dalang. Later, Song Wu killed Pan Jinlian. Since then, Wu Pan and his two families have been at odds and moved away from each other.
It is said that in Shandong, parents told their children from an early age that they were not allowed to play with each other's children or be lovers with each other's children. Private lovers, in the end, can't hold the sticks and tears of relatives and friends, so they have no choice but to break up.
In addition, in the south, surnames such as Lu, Wu, Fang, Wang, Jiang, Hong, Weng and Wang, and surnames such as Shui and Huo are forbidden to marry.
Now it seems that many predecessors' grievances are strong attachments and should not be an obstacle for future generations to hold hands. If it's fate, of course it's time to do it. Last life was doomed, don't miss the marriage.
Which surnames can't be married? This problem should be discussed from the past and the present.
First, the same surname can't get married. In the past, people lived a big family life. There are hundreds or thousands of people in a family, and some people with the same surname are regarded as a family. Why? Mainly to resist risks and not be bullied by other families, so some families stipulate that members of this family cannot get married. Grandpa said that our hometown is Shandong, and the Lao Wang family is a medium-sized family with more than 300 people. Our own family stipulates that no one can marry in this family.
Second, feuds caused by name conflicts cannot be intermarried. There are major contradictions and disputes between surnames, and they cannot marry each other. For example, Qin Gui's family and Yue Fei's family can't marry, because Qin Gui killed Yue Fei and the two families were enemies, so they can't marry.
Third, because of feudal superstition, it is impossible to get married. For example, a Zhu can't marry a Kang, which means it's unlucky for pigs to eat bran. You can't marry a pig, which means Cui's homonym means blowing, and killing a pig means blowing a pig, so you can't marry. Dogs can't marry bears. Being understood as a bear after marriage is not pleasant to hear, so you can't marry.
Nowadays, few people pay attention to these things. Except for close relatives who are forbidden to get married within three generations as stipulated by national laws, as long as two people are willing to get married. Because modern people have advanced thoughts and a strong country, there are no dangerous factors. They all live in small families and believe in science and law.
What this area can't marry is the legacy of previous feudal struggles. Take this village as an example. Pan Huang in our village and Wang Zhu in the neighboring village have two surnames. In the early days of liberation, the funeral geomantic omen caused the villagers in the two villages to gather and fight, but it was stopped by the county armed brigade at that time, and one person in each village was arrested and sentenced. However, since then, the two villages have not married each other. Until now, although there are friendly exchanges, they rarely marry. In fact, the past grievances should be put aside and moved on. Why is there no suitable marriage?
Marriage with the same surname without five clothes should be carefully considered, which is a problem that affects the health of future generations. It is also the ethics of human nature that will not be chaotic. Therefore, it is best not to marry people with the same blood relationship.
I'm from Shandong, my ancestral home is in Henan, and my surname is Chao. The rule in our family is that I can't marry anyone named Wang. I was told from an early age that neither man nor woman can marry a man named Wang. What is the specific historical reason? We don't know. Except in the last three generations that can be understood within the family, at least five people suffered misfortune because of their marriage with Wang. My great-grandfather, my grandfather's brother, is said to be a particularly strong Shandong man. At the age of 20, I married Wang's wife, 19, that is, my great-grandmother. At the age of 22, she was bitten by a mad dog and died of rabies a few days later. At that time, his wife was only 2 1 year old and his son was less than one year old. For various reasons, her great-grandmother never remarried. A * * * gave birth to two sons and two daughters. It is said that grandma has heard of Chao He's rule of not getting married. Later, her grandson, my cousin, had a very good girlfriend. It's a pity that Wang and the old lady fought with each other and ended up in discord. In recent years, when I went to visit the grave, my cousin joked that it was a good thing to listen to my grandmother at that time, otherwise I might be lying here now. There are several other examples. My aunt was engaged to a soldier named Wang when she was young, and then she went out to fight and never came back. Our home is in the local county, and there are always four aunts. My elder sister-in-law is almost eighty years old this year. When she was young, she married a local surnamed Wang, and her family was not bad. However, my elder sister-in-law feels that she can't live and die every day. Later, she divorced and married a family named Jiang in a distant village. Although she is not very rich, she has two children. Her husband died only two years ago. My third aunt also married a family named Wang nearby, and the population is particularly prosperous. My third aunt gave birth to two sons less than three years after she got married. My third uncle was imprisoned twice for fighting with others, a total of 78 years. That is to say, I have little time at home except when my children are young. Later, I got out of prison. In two or three years, my family had a very good time, and others said that I was a third aunt. Other examples are not clear. There's nothing wrong with marrying someone with another family name. Anyway, now everyone has been told never to marry Wang since childhood, and we are all scared by this. When we are in love, we will run away as soon as we hear Wang's voice, so that we can't hurt others (or each other). This is an example of our family. I can't help but write it out for everyone to see. I wonder if there is anyone with our last name. After all, there are too few people named Chao, and they have been mispronounced by others since childhood.
Last name can't be married? There is no prohibition by law, and there are many marriages with the same surname.
The ancients I knew, Peng Qian, never married. Peng Zu is the ancestor of Peng, and Peng Zu is the name of his descendants. It is said that he lived for more than 800 years. Peng Zu is a descendant of Emperor Yao, and his fief is a country. Today in Tongshan, Xuzhou, Jiangsu, Peng Zu's real name is Kuangkeng, which means money. Nowadays, most of Peng's surnames think that his ancestors are Peng Zu, especially in Xuzhou, Jiangsu.
Just said Peng Zu's name is Geng Keng. Naturally, some of his descendants did not want to take the fief as their surname, and they still used Qian's name. Qian Liu, king of wuyue, is a descendant of Peng Zu. The ancient wuyue area is located in the southeast of Jiangsu, the whole province of Zhejiang and the northeast of Fujian. Therefore, the descendants of this part of the money are mostly descendants of Peng Zu.
Because most of the two surnames can be traced back to the same ancestor, the ancients thought that intermarriage was not allowed.
I really don't know the other surnames.
The surnames I know that I can't marry mainly include:
1, Yue and Qin-everyone knows the origin of Yue Feihe. Qin Gui knelt in front of Yuefei Temple for more than 1000 years, and the two surnames have not reconciled yet. This is a feud.
2. Yue He Wan Yan —— Wan Yan was a royal family of A Jin Dynasty, and Yue Fei was a gold-resisting coach, so the two surnames did not marry each other because of a feud.
3, Wu and Pan-because Pan Jinlian colluded with Ximen Qing and poisoned her husband Wu Dalang, she was despised by Wu's descendants, so she didn't get married.
4. Yang and Pan-legend, Yang Ye was framed in the Northern Song Dynasty and died trapped in two wolf mountains. The two surnames have not been reconciled so far.
5. Li and Zhu-Zhu Wen destroyed Li's Tang Dynasty and killed his heir; Li Zicheng destroyed Zhu Ming and forced Chongzhen to die. These two surnames have a deep feud.
6. Lu, the prime minister of the Song Dynasty, was framed by Wu's minister and had no choice but to move out, so his descendants did not marry Wu.
7. In ancient times, it was forbidden to intermarry with the same surname and the same clan. The most important thing was to sink into the pond, and the least was to get rid of the name.
8. Because the two surnames are jealous of each other, or because family feuds and feuds are everywhere, of course, I won't list them one by one.
Some feuds may be legends or influenced by literary and artistic works. I hope they all disappear in the long river of history!
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National laws do not stipulate that surnames are not allowed to get married. It's just that people are not allowed to get married because of historical grievances, and the law does not support it.
2. Yue surname and Qin surname, General Yue Fei was loyal to the monarch and patriotic, and was framed by Qin Gui villain and died tragically. The descendants of Yue surname and Qin surname could not marry …
3, Zhu surname and Li surname, Ming Taizu Zhu Yuanzhang led the peasant army uprising in Li Zicheng, overthrowing the Ming Dynasty, and Emperor Chongzhen committed suicide, hating Li surname and being at odds. The ancestors stipulated that Zhu and Li could not get married …
4. Yang, Pan,, and others died heroically and fought against Liao soldiers. They led Song Jun to attack the Liao army and committed suicide. The Pan Renmei Gazette secretly killed Yang and Yang, so Yang Jiazu first stipulated that you can't marry an enemy, Yang and Pan can't get married, and there are other things ... Your homework is not very good. Now you can get married as long as you are not a close relative, pay attention to the freedom of marriage, and you can also marry a foreign country.
China has attached great importance to traditional culture since ancient times, from academics, geomantic omen to cultural relics, which are all left over from China's long history. I don't know if you know the traditional surnames in China.
There were also many studies on these surnames in ancient China. Apart from the origin of some surnames, it is said that some surnames cannot be married. Why can't they get married? Of course, it has something to do with the long history of China.
1: Qin and Yue surnames cannot marry.
It is well known that these two surnames cannot marry. All this stems from Qin Gui's unwarranted killing of Yue Fei. Since then, the Qin Gui family has been spurned by the world, and there is no contact between the two families.
Yang and Pan can't get married.
About these two surnames can't marry, because in the Song Dynasty, Yang Jiajiang, headed by Yang Guang, swore allegiance to the death, but both died under the frame of Pan Renmei. At this point, the two families forged a deep hatred.
Zhu and Li don't get married.
This is because the peasant uprising launched by Li Zicheng overthrew the Ming Dynasty established by Zhu Yuanzhang. Naturally, two families with national subjugation can't get married.
4. Cao and Cao surname can't marry.
There are different opinions about the reasons why these two surnames can't get married, and most of them say they are the same surname. Since ancient times, China has followed the principle that people with the same surname cannot get married.
After reading these, are you among these surnames? Of course, I don't care if these surnames can't be married today. There is nothing wrong with just knowing more about previous history.