My wife is always slow and careless. What should I do?

There must be a way to communicate. For example, if you know it's useless to be angry with her, why not try to find out what makes you happy in life? Your child is five years old, which is the stage that needs his father's appreciation, and if the mother can't let her children feel her praise and affirmation of her father, then such a family environment will have an impact on their future personality. If it is a boy, there is no male role model. If it is a girl, there is no experience in dealing with adults of the opposite sex. Such children will have problems in gender socialization in the future. I hope I can think clearly, so I am more responsible for my family and children.