Being framed in the workplace and finally forced to leave;
Buying a house or decoration fell into the pit dug by developers and decoration companies, and the hard-earned hard-earned money instantly hit Shui Piao;
When people reach middle age, not only will their careers decline, but they will also be alienated from others. ......
There is an old saying in China: "Two fortunes and three geomantics in one life ..." Among them, luck ranks second, so you can imagine how important it is to a person's life!
If you are lucky, everything you do in life will come true smoothly. But if you're unlucky, it's a leak at home. Even if it rains the next night, even if you drink cold boiled water, you can plug your teeth!
Even some unlucky people may find it difficult to turn over for the rest of their lives. Therefore, no one wants bad luck, and bad luck is disaster. So how can we avoid it?
In fact, when people are unlucky, they are not completely unaware, and there are often these three signs.
0 1 The first symptom: bad words hurt people. As the saying goes, "misfortune comes from the mouth", "a good word warms the spring, and a bad word hurts in June" all show that language has a great influence on people.
Good language makes people feel spring breeze, which can bring harmonious interpersonal relationship and smooth life; Bad words, like sharp knives, not only hurt people around them, but also offend villains and bring disaster.
For example, some people, intentionally or unintentionally, have no mercy on their mouths, and always like to expose others' shortcomings, poke others' pain points and put themselves in an embarrassing position.
Thus hurting each other's self-esteem and being hated by each other, then it is very likely that one day, they will be retaliated by each other. This is "disaster comes from the mouth."
There are also some people who love swearing and never care about other people's feelings, especially some parents, who often swear and vent their anger in the face of their unruly children.
As a result, under the light, the parent-child relationship has broken down and can no longer be repaired; What's more, children choose to run away from home or commit suicide under the violence of language. This is the bad luck that bad words bring to the family.
What you say is what you think, and what you say usually represents what you think and reflects what you think inside. It is difficult for a person who often speaks ill of himself to be a good person.
The inner evil is expressed through language, and the harm is invisible. If you are not careful, you will offend others. How can such a person be lucky? Nature is bad luck, bad luck.
The second sign: act rashly. What I said before is caution, but now I'm talking about caution.
"It is impossible to prevent it, far from worrying." Don't plan ahead because the harm is small, and don't think wrongly because things are long-term. In anything, you must decide before you move, so that you can be invincible.
People who act rashly often do not make full preparations before acting. As a result, when the problem happened, we were caught off guard and had to deal with it in a panic, so bad things followed.
Give a few examples:
For example, if you want to do business, but don't do market research, you are likely to lose a lot;
For another example, if you never watch the weather forecast before going out, you are likely to go home in the rain;
For example, before you get married, you didn't fully understand each other's personality, outlook on life and family background, so after you get married, you are likely to end up in divorce. ......
Therefore, people who act rashly are bound to have bad luck, which could have been avoided. Therefore, it is the best policy to think twice before acting.
So, who is a hasty person?
The first kind of people are impatient and always want to do things first, but haste makes waste. The more anxious you are, the more likely you are to miss the most critical factor and cause things to go wrong.
In fact, when things go wrong, the time to solve this problem may not only take longer than the comprehensive consideration before action, but also bring bad emotional experience.
There is also a kind of person who is lazy and unwilling to use his brain. They always like to think step by step and don't want to lay out and consider in advance. This kind of person must first change his lazy psychology, otherwise bad luck will haunt him all the time.
Finally, there is another kind of people because of bad habits. Such people can easily help themselves to change their bad luck as long as they form the habit of thinking twice before acting.
Therefore, if you want to be cautious, don't act rashly, think twice before you act, you must make up your mind to change your impatient or lazy personality and form good habits. Otherwise, it is inevitable that bad luck will still find you.
The third sign: it is not enough to be cautious in words and deeds, but also to be honest in heart.
People with ulterior motives are often people who value their own interests very much. They are usually narrow-minded, unfriendly, short-sighted, mercenary, duplicitous, insincere and shirking their responsibilities.
But as the saying goes, "if you do more injustice, you will hang yourself." "If you often walk by the river, how can you not wet your shoes?" People with malicious intentions, who have done many bad things, will be noticed by people around them sooner or later, thus losing relatives and friends and being punished.
"The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is bustling, all for profit. " "Birds die for food, and people die for money." Originally, it was normal in the world to pursue fame and profit.
However, if the interests of others are harmed or even sacrificed in order to maximize their own interests, that is what people with ulterior motives do.
This kind of person spends a lot of time and energy on things that are detrimental to virtue because of long-term calculation. Over time, the face becomes sinister, and the body and mind will absorb themselves. When evil deeds are exposed one by one, people will avoid them one after another, and it is not surprising that bad luck continues.
Therefore, if a person has bad intentions, it can be predicted that his future will go downhill more and more. If he wants to avoid bad luck and prosper his career, he must be upright.
People with ulterior motives, although they have gained considerable benefits by their own calculations in the short term, will eventually lose their blood and never become a big deal.
On the contrary, an upright person is open-minded, always thinking of others and unwilling to do things that harm others and benefit themselves. Just take the benefits you deserve. In the long run, more and more virtuous and outstanding people will gather around you, and your career will get better and better.
In a word, whether a person is unlucky or not is easy to be unlucky. Through the above three signs, we can see at a glance.
In other words, if you don't want to be unlucky in the future, then you must avoid becoming these three people and learn to be a cautious and conscientious person.
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