A person's pattern affects his vision, and at the same time affects his choice and way out.
So, for everyone, if they want to win enough luck in life, they need to upgrade our pattern to get enough blessings.
For a family, a woman with a pattern is needed to improve the good luck of the whole family.
in life, there is such a proverb:? Marry a wife, marry a virtue, and not marry a color. ?
The greatest charm of a woman is never in her face value. A woman with inner beauty, pattern and vision can easily touch a man's heart with her kindness and wisdom.
Smart men may look at a woman with high value with appreciation, but when choosing a marriage partner, they will definitely find a reasonable and kind-hearted woman as their wife.
Because, many men know that the good luck of the whole family is hidden in the pattern of women.
A wise and high-quality woman can take care of the overall situation in her marriage life, not only keep the family in good order, but also use her virtue to give her children a good example.
Before you know it, women use their own patterns to influence the family's judgment, thus allowing luck to come to the door.
Dell? Carnegie, with a book "The Weaknesses of Human Nature", became a famous spiritual mentor in the world, helped countless people to inspire themselves and urged many people to grow and improve.
Behind Carnegie's growth, it is inseparable from one person's encouragement and encouragement.
His stepmother is a woman with a big pattern. With her own words and deeds, Carnegie has changed from a stubborn child into a successful person with strong opinions and positive energy.
When my father introduced Carnegie to his stepmother, he said he was a very naughty boy? Troublemaker? .
The stepmother, however, touched his head and said that Carnegie was a creative and very intelligent boy.
In the praise of his stepmother, Carnegie turned back to his stubborn side and became an aggressive person. He followed the advice of his stepmother, kept moving forward on the road of writing, and finally became a person with world influence.
a structured woman will use her tolerance and generosity to create a happy and harmonious family atmosphere, and can constantly urge the growth of her children and bring good luck to every family member.
The more she sees and experiences, the healthier and more comprehensive frame of reference she will have when judging, which will also make her more tolerant of life and herself. ? Yang Lan
loves reading since childhood, which makes Yang Lan's growth more wise, and her vision and pattern are constantly improved through reading.
Because of the big pattern, Yang Lan is more determined in her hosting career. Her hosting style also gives people the impression of maturity, wisdom and temperament, which is widely praised.
For a woman, when her experience is rich and her horizons are improved, she will be able to get more accurate and comprehensive answers when making judgments, and she will also be able to grasp her life and the happiness of people around her.
After marriage, a woman's state of mind and pattern directly affect her husband and wife's getting along and the happiness of family life.
Whether a marriage is happy or not depends not on how big the house is and how much savings there are, but on whether the husband and wife can get along with each other intelligently and continuously enlarge and sublimate their love.
a woman with a pattern will control her temper and water happy flowers with wisdom and love in her married life.
In life and work, a woman's pattern determines her attitude towards life.
As a wife, a woman with a pattern can take care of the overall situation of family life, assist her husband to keep the house with care, and become the most reliable supporter behind men.
As a mother, the pattern of women will affect the children's mentality, how to face learning and growth, and a mother's words and deeds are imperceptibly teaching her children.
In the play Everything is Fine, Zhao Meilan is a mother who lacks pattern. Although she has few appearances, she is in the family? Iron fist policy? It is precisely the seed of the contradiction in the whole drama that affects the life of a family.
Zhao Meilan plays a strong role. As a result, her husband Su Daqiang becomes a? As weak as old? Our men have paid a certain price for the growth of their three children.
If Su Mingyu is not a man with a pattern, then several people in the Su family may end up with a tragic ending, and the TV series can't be finished. Everything's fine? And it's over
Women are the best feng shui in a family. In the pattern of women, the good luck of the family is hidden. So, how can we be a woman with a big picture?
control your temper
in family life, we often vent our bad temper on our relatives if we are not careful.
You know, a bad-tempered woman will not only affect her mood, but also make the family atmosphere suffocating and make the family follow her and become unhappy.
Even the man who loves you the most has no obligation to listen to your complaints every day; Even if your children are born, they will become impatient in your bad temper.
Therefore, women should live smarter and not be influenced by bad temper, but should actively seek happiness and beauty.
To be a structured woman, you might as well learn to control your temper first. In life, you should be more patient, kind and warm, and before you know it, your bad temper will disappear.
Enhance personal wisdom
When a person has enough wisdom, his words and deeds will become modest; At the same time, the pattern will also improve.
So, how should a woman improve her wisdom and pattern?
We can constantly broaden our horizons through reading. When women have rich knowledge reserves, they can realize that we are only a small member in the sea of knowledge and need to treat people with humility.
We can also think deeply about life and work through reflection. In this way, women can realize that there are more ways to solve problems, and we can get better results by changing our thinking.
when our wisdom is improved, we will not get bogged down in the face of difficulties and challenges, but will be able to grasp the desired results with a longer-term vision and a determined attitude, and hold the happiness in life in our own hands.