To outsiders, they have two different lives, and the happiness index should be very different. However, because of their mentality, they have the same happiness. Imagine if the old fisherman saw each other's clothes and the old man saw each other's leisure and security, would their smiles turn into wry smiles? We can't evaluate the value of these two kinds of smiles, because happiness itself is a feeling, and nothing can be measured clearly, but different mentality gives them different definitions. Therefore, different mentality determines different meanings of happiness and different pursuits of life.
2. Happiness comes from a good attitude. Happiness comes from a good attitude! If you have a bad attitude, even if you send a golden mountain, happiness will disappear in an instant. A good attitude and smile are enough to warm life.
A lot of pain comes from excessive desire, and the so-called psychological imbalance is caused by desire.
People who read Buddhism every day are not necessarily followers of Buddhism. People who say love thousands of times don't necessarily live for love.
Kindness is expressed through daily behavior. Sweet words are not worth putting into action.
Good people may not be safe all their lives! But good people always win the respect of most people. Bad guys may be arrogant on the surface, but they will always panic inside.
Selfish people must be narcissistic!
A really smart person has great wisdom, and says less and does more. The so-called wisdom is foolish! A wise man shakes half a bucket of water badly, for fear that others don't know maxima.
Life is like climbing a mountain. It's difficult, but it's interesting. Going up the mountain in a sedan chair is free and happy, but if you fall, you may die, and you will be related to the sedan chair bearer.
People who are afraid of loneliness are always lonely, because what they seek in loneliness is easy to lose, so they fall into loneliness again and again.
Vanity-loving people are fragile in their hearts and suffer from loss all their lives.
If you always look at others in the mirror, you will never know how dirty your face is.
The greatest skill of a liar is to feel that he is telling the truth. The biggest sorrow is that liars always think that lies can really fool others.
As individuals, people are small. You can't change the world. Only by adapting to this world, you are not God, and others can't worship you.
If you want to get it, you must first learn to give.
Inner sunshine makes the world a better place.
There are no shortcuts in life. If there is a shortcut, the end of the shortcut is the cliff.
It is impossible for people not to make mistakes, but they should not make mistakes again and again in the same thing.
One can be short of money, but not wicked.
A person can have nothing, but he can't live without credit.
3. Treat setbacks with optimism
Although life is cruel, the road is made by people. A dead end is not necessarily a dead end, but it can also be born. Just like Sister Zhang Haidi. At the age of 5, she suffered from spinal hemangioma, which led to high paraplegia. In the face of cruel fate, she didn't feel depressed and sink. She fought the disease with tenacious perseverance and perseverance, withstood severe tests and was full of confidence in life. Although she didn't have a chance to enter school, she studied hard, finished all the courses in primary and secondary schools, taught herself college English, Japanese, German and Esperanto, and studied in universities and master's and postgraduate classes. With the belief that "to live is to be a person who is beneficial to society", she took Paul as an example and bravely dedicated her light and heat to the people.
In contrast, we are all people with sound limbs. But I don't know how to cherish my life. If my parents say a word or two, I'm dead. I can't bear the waves of life, and I don't have the spirit of being optimistic about everything. I can't hold my head in the face of the storm and can't accept the test of life. When your parents criticized you, did you ever think optimistically that your parents did it for themselves? Have you ever thought optimistically in the face of difficulties? This is a test of your will.
The value of a person's life lies in his brave pioneering and selfless dedication to the prosperity of the motherland and the happiness of the people. Even if his wings are broken, his heart will fly high. Let's fly the ideal kite together!
There used to be a saying that optimists fell from the 12 building. Every time he passed the window on the first floor, he would shout to his frightened friend downstairs, "Look, I'm all right now." Why are optimists so stupid? But if we savor it carefully, it is not that an optimist is stupid, but that he has an optimistic spirit. People should live a positive and optimistic life, which is the greatest inspiration of this passage. Facing the danger of falling to death, the optimist's optimism deeply infected me. He did not forget to comfort those who were worried about him. In the face of difficulties, we should not retreat, we should not give up; In the face of failure, we can't be discouraged, we can't cry; In the face of pain, we will not let our tears flow in vain, and we cannot lose courage because of pain; Facing everything, we should be optimistic. Optimism is a sign of energy and openness; Optimism has overcome haggling over every ounce and suffering from loss; Optimism, get rid of depression and depressed self-isolation; Optimism eliminates indecision and timidity. A person's success is accompanied by optimism, because optimism makes him break through many emotional frustrations and make him shout to the highest peak: "I will never give up!" " "Optimists see a glimmer of hope in every trouble, while pessimists see terrible troubles in every opportunity. If you were smart, which one would you choose?
Happiness lies in the state of mind (composition) Happiness is a state of mind! People live in this world just to make themselves happier.
I always thought so. To live a good life seriously, we must feel the dribs and drabs of life with our hearts and seek small happiness from every little thing, so that life will be more fulfilling.
I remember a writer said, "A person's character determines a person's fate. If you like to keep your personality, then you have no right to refuse your opportunity. " Because, no matter how hard a person's life is, he has to experience it by himself, and no one else can replace it. Life belongs to him.
Only when a person truly knows and understands himself can he have an independent personality and be qualified to choose his hobbies and habits. Don't pin your happiness on anyone. Happiness is what he pursues. Learn to live a happy life, and the most important thing is to straighten your mind.
In fact, everyone has mood swings, everyone has a weak and strong side, and happiness depends entirely on their own judgment. Everyone has his own opinion about the quality of anything, and everyone has his own reason.
Isn't there an idiom: "Man proposes, God disposes"? If a person is always worried about everything, it will definitely affect his judgment. This is not to say that this is a shortcoming or a sign of weakness, but sometimes this hesitant attitude and indecisive temperament will really bring you more trouble and pain.
Give up what you are willing to give up, stay or stay, and don't want to stay and give up, then you will always be tired of this kind of ideological burden and can't find real happiness. Give yourself more reasons to be happy every day, and don't get involved in past troubles.
Learn to use your own ideas and lifestyle to find the means and purpose of happiness. Right and wrong, right and wrong, things should have their own unique thinking and opinions. If you think it's worth it, you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, and then pursue and work in this direction unswervingly, and correctly grasp the general direction, so that you can be in the mood to find the source of happiness every day.
I have no transcendental realm of life, and I don't want to pursue any success and honor in life, let alone explore what is the true meaning of life. I dare not say how profound my ideological realm is, how bold and open-minded. However, I will treat it truly with a pure heart, optimistic mood and kind heart.
Happiness lies in mood composition 600 There was a rich man who was looking for happiness everywhere with a lot of treasures. I walked through thousands of waters in Qian Shan, but I didn't find happiness. He sat under the tree in dismay. At this time, a farmer had just cut firewood and came down from the mountain. The rich man asked the farmer, "I am an enviable rich man." Why am I unhappy? " The farmer put down the heavy firewood and said meaningfully, "In fact, happiness is also very simple. Letting go is happiness! " "Say that finish, the farmer left. At this time, the rich man realized that he was always afraid of others' ulterior motives with such a heavy treasure on him. How can he be happy if he is always worried? Later, he gave money to the poor, did a lot of good deeds and found happiness. As long as everyone knows clearly in their hearts that everything can be seen and put down, why worry about flowers blooming without happiness?
A man once asked an unscrupulous Zen master, "Buddhism can relieve the pain of life, but I have believed in Buddhism for many years, but I am not happy." What's wrong? " The unscrupulous Zen master put down his hoe and asked him calmly, "What are you busy with now?" Believers say, "People should not be too mediocre. I work hard day and night to make my family famous and beautiful. " Master Wude laughed and said, "No wonder you can't be happy. Your heart is full of depression and fatigue. Where can I be happy? " The believer suddenly realized and bowed down.
In our life, there are also many people like believers. They all mistakenly believe that a person is happy only if he lives in the spring breeze and succeeds. How can they be happy when they are tied by reins all day? Where does happiness come from when you are in a competitive situation all day? I'm preoccupied all day and can't think clearly. How can we go out and find happiness?
6. There are difficulties in life. We are optimistic about writing a composition. Although life is cruel, the road is made by people.
A dead end is not necessarily a dead end, but it can also be born. Just like Sister Zhang Haidi.
At the age of 5, she suffered from spinal hemangioma, which led to high paraplegia. In the face of cruel fate, she didn't feel depressed and sink. She fought the disease with tenacious perseverance and perseverance, withstood severe tests and was full of confidence in life.
Although she didn't have a chance to enter school, she studied hard, finished all the courses in primary and secondary schools, taught herself college English, Japanese, German and Esperanto, and studied in universities and master's and postgraduate classes. With the belief that "to live is to be a person who is beneficial to society", she took Paul as an example and bravely dedicated her light and heat to the people.
In contrast, we are all people with sound limbs. But I don't know how to cherish my life. If my parents say a word or two, I'm dead.
I can't bear the waves of life, and I don't have the spirit of being optimistic about everything. I can't hold my head in the face of the storm and can't accept the test of life. When your parents criticized you, did you ever think optimistically that your parents did it for themselves? Have you ever thought optimistically in the face of difficulties? This is a test of your will.
The value of a person's life lies in his brave pioneering and selfless dedication to the prosperity of the motherland and the happiness of the people. Even if his wings are broken, his heart will fly high. Let's fly the ideal kite together! There used to be a saying that optimists fell from the 12 building. Every time he passed the window on the first floor, he would shout to his frightened friend downstairs, "Look, I'm all right now."
Why are optimists so stupid? But if we savor it carefully, it is not that an optimist is stupid, but that he has an optimistic spirit. People should live a positive and optimistic life, which is the greatest inspiration of this passage.
Facing the danger of falling to death, the optimist's optimism deeply infected me. He did not forget to comfort those who were worried about him.
In the face of difficulties, we should not retreat, we should not give up; In the face of failure, we can't be discouraged, we can't cry; In the face of pain, we will not let our tears flow in vain, and we cannot lose courage because of pain; Facing everything, we should be optimistic. Optimism is a sign of energy and openness; Optimism has overcome haggling over every ounce and suffering from loss; Optimism, get rid of depression and depressed self-isolation; Optimism eliminates indecision and timidity.
A person's success is accompanied by optimism, because optimism makes him break through many emotional frustrations and make him shout to the highest peak: "I will never give up!" " "Optimists see a glimmer of hope in every trouble, while pessimists see terrible troubles in every opportunity. If you were smart, which one would you choose? .
7. Write a composition with a sunny attitude towards life. 700 mentality directly affects whether we succeed in doing this. Everyone has unique characteristics and specialties, and everyone is very different, but the smallest difference between people is everyone's mentality, whether positive or negative. A positive attitude is a prerequisite for success. Without a positive attitude, the ideal is far away from us. Success is beyond our power. Sunshine mentality, brilliant life and positive mentality determine the height of everyone's life. In our daily life, we must have encountered ups and downs and many unhappy things, but as long as we face life with a positive attitude, we will find that this matter actually has another meaning. On September 3, I crossed the gate of boarding school, which means I have grown up. Become a middle school student. However, after staying here for a short time, I realized the "pain" of leaving home, and the novelty at first was completely eliminated. Sometimes, I cry and cry alone. At that time, Monday night was the class meeting time, and the teacher read us the code for middle school students. The last item is to meditate on the day's study and life when you sleep at night. That night, I lay in bed and meditated: Although it is normal to be homesick, it is a test for us to adapt to the new environment by leaving home to study here. I must study hard and live up to my parents' expectations. We can't change our life, but we can change our attitude towards life. Although we can't change the final result of the Shanghai incident, we can change our attitude towards it and think from another angle, and you will find out what life is like.
8. Write a composition with the viewpoint of "treating setbacks and failures with a calm mind". If plum blossoms don't pass through the biting cold, how can they be fragrant all over the garden? If steel is not forged by fire, how can it be a very sharp sword? How can mussels have beautiful pearls if they have not been honed by sand? All this tells us that success depends on persistence.
"Rome wasn't built in a day", no matter what we do, we can't succeed casually. When we encounter setbacks, we can only stand upright in the cold winter like plum blossoms and stick to the end in order to overcome setbacks and win.
Edison was famous for inventing the electric light, and his invention process was very difficult. Edison tried thousands of times to find a durable filament, but all failed. Someone advised him to give up, but he insisted, "I failed a thousand times, but maybe I succeeded the first time 10 1." He did it. He tried more than 6000 kinds of fiber materials. After 6000 failures, he finally found a durable filament. If Edison didn't have this persistent spirit, I'm afraid we are still lighting with kerosene lamps!
A person, even though he is gifted. As long as there is the excellent quality of "persistence", it will produce results. On the contrary, no matter how talented a person is, if he does not persist in his efforts, he will never achieve great things.
Fang Zhongyong was brilliant and possessed superhuman wisdom, but he didn't insist on studying. His behavior killed his original brilliant talent and eventually led to "losing everyone".
If you don't insist, how can there be a drop of water and a stone? If you don't insist, how can a stupid turtle run past a lively rabbit? Don't insist, sharpen a sword for a thousand years?
But persistence is not blind. We should learn to distinguish right from wrong. Don't be like a reckless person. If you are wrong, stick to your guns and don't look back until you hit the south wall. So learn to judge and distinguish right from wrong.
9. The composition entitled "I worked hard and I was happy" I worked hard and I was happy for a while. How I wish I could call "mom and dad" at the moment I entered the door! I can report my academic achievements to my parents.
But every time I go home (a private house rented by my parents in a small town), there are only weeds in front of me, a deserted yard and a heavy door, but I don't have the excitement and joy I deserve at the moment I open the door ... My name is Peng, and I am 15 years old this year. Now I am a student in Class 9 (4) of Chenbu Middle School in Ketan Town, Lujiang County. I live with my younger brother Peng Xiaofeng, who is in Grade 7. My parents worked in Shanghai, and my grandmother died for many years. My grandfather was paralyzed in bed and was taken care of by her.
When I was in the seventh grade, my parents were forced to send my brother and me to the same hometown to study. From then on, I picked up the key to the house alone for the first time, lived alone with my brother, and started our left-behind life.
I'm a housekeeper, and it's a little hard. Although I have been a good girl since I was a child, I am the right-hand man of my parents at home, washing and sweeping the floor is a common practice, and my brother is clever and sensible, but now I still have inexplicable fears about taking care of the whole family while studying.
I remember the day after my brother and I left our parents alone at home, my mother called. I suddenly realized that family ties became the saddest thing at this moment. I can only gather all the pain of missing my parents in the dark, and I dare not turn on the light or listen to them crying in the dark. I can imagine my parents' anxious expression. I understand their hard work, so when my mother said, "Xiaofeng is yours!" " "I replied," don't worry, I can do it! "I know it's time to take responsibility
In the morning, the crisp alarm clock rang and I got up quickly. After washing, start reading for a while (sometimes washing clothes), and then wake up your sleeping brother.
Buy it yourself and come back early. After dinner, we will start a new day with our schoolbags on our backs. Then I read early, attend class, finish class, shuttle between the bell and the class, wander in the ocean of knowledge, read books, attend classes, do problems and do homework, and enjoy the learning process and fun like most students.
The difference is that after school at noon, they can eat their mouths full, some run to the canteen, some go straight home, sit back and relax, and wolf down the delicious food on the table. And my stomach is growling, and I am in a hurry in the street where food is fragrant.
I rushed back to my residence, cooked by myself, washed vegetables and cooked. I am self-reliant, I have no worries about food and clothing, and sometimes my brother helps wash vegetables. When the food is cooked and fragrant, my brother and I will wipe it out like a breeze. It is common for food to be half-cooked and food to be too salty and light. Fortunately, my brother and I are not picky eaters.
Sometimes time is tight, so I just eat instant noodles at noon to perfuse my stomach. After dinner, I quickly cleaned up the pots and pans and rushed to school.
After school in the evening, I buy some vegetables first and then come back to cook dinner. When cooking dinner, my brother and I often play badminton for a while After dinner, my brother and I read books, did exercises and reviewed our lessons.
My brother usually goes to bed at nine o'clock. I have a heavy study task and often stay up until eleven o'clock. When I stretched, yawned, tucked my brother in, and finally relaxed my tired body, I lay in bed and fell asleep as if I had lost consciousness.
In my dream, I went back to that warm home. This is my day, day after day, year after year.
On weekends, we do homework, read books, draw pictures, ride bicycles, go shopping, wash clothes and buy some necessities when we meet the market. On Sunday evening, I will settle this week's expenses and budget next week's expenses. After all, my family is not good. My parents only send 300 yuan a month. As a small housekeeper, I must be careful and keep everything well. We never buy snacks and dare not waste them.
In this way, I will study hard, do housework and take care of my brother. It's really hard to think about it now. I am happy with love around me.
I remember in those first days, the day was fine, and at night, when the night was still, I really missed my parents. Loneliness hits my heart like a tide. Life is not as simple as in TV series. Sometimes I will encounter many things that I can't solve, such as changing gas bottles and fuses, but I can't sit and cry, so I learned to sweet talk and call my uncle uncle.
The happiest moment at that time was to hear my landlady calling my name loudly, because that must be my parents calling. I can imagine how my parents live far away from home. I can't see their faces through radio waves, but I can feel their hardships through the sound of getting old. Hearing their voices, I feel extremely happy and happy.
In fact, I know that my brother misses his parents more than I do, but he never shows it. "Mom and Dad, I don't blame you. I write my thoughts in my diary! " I accidentally read this sentence in my brother's diary.
My brother is excellent in character and study. In this year's mid-term exam, his total score ranked second in the whole grade. He is very considerate and never quarrels with me. We study together under the light, laugh like a flower when playing badminton, chase me when riding a bike ... my parents are not around, my brother is with me, and I have a source of happiness.
I used to think that my world was dark from now on, but in the end it was full of sunshine. In the happy study life, I learned how to get along with my classmates. I study hard and make progress diligently, and my grades have been ranked in the top five in the school.
I feel happy in the face of achievements, awards and papers, and the concern and trust of my classmates. I am very lucky. Faced with so many difficulties, we are surrounded by loving relatives, friends, teachers and classmates.
I can always hear people in the street praise me: I am so sensible, my parents are not around, not only do I keep my room in good order, but my younger brothers and sisters also get good grades; Every time my landlady sees me, she always tells me to go out and put away my money at night and close the doors and windows. More often, parents with children walk past my house and always take me as an example to educate them. I was very happy then! Another year, I wait, I hope. In the blink of an eye, another year.
I know that my parents are working so hard so that we can study hard and live a better life in the future. Dear mom and dad, even if you can only wander in the distance at present, I am not alone, because there are so many in this world.
10. Relax and face decades of composition life with a correct attitude, gossiping.
In fact, a person's life is really short in the long river of history. So how should we spend our lives happily? Especially in such a competitive era, how to maintain a good attitude and reduce shortcomings.
My feeling is to relax! Relax your mind, conform to your destiny, live and die together, and be rich in heaven. Since it is birth and death, wealth is the will of fate.
We can't decide, we can't control, we can't do anything, so we must learn to admit and adapt. Facing the prosperity of life, we should learn to be calm; In the face of life's adversity, learn to accept it.
If you can't do this, you will struggle with it all day, and asking again and again will only aggravate the pain of your life! To relax and enhance self-confidence means to have confidence in yourself, believe in your beauty, believe in your maturity, believe in your ability and believe in everything. Appreciate yourself, motivate yourself, revel in yourself, make yourself proud and radiant! Relax your mind and learn to forget. People often say: "forgetting the past means betrayal!" " .
But you know, forgetting past regrets is a great pleasure in life. Everyone should understand the truth of seeing each other, and you have it in your heart.
For example, if a person is wronged outside, you tell this person today and tell that person tomorrow. In fact, this means that every time you repeat it, it is like being wronged again, which means that things have passed and you are still being wronged every day. The regret that has plagued your life for a long time can't extricate yourself, which will damage your quality of life! So we should learn to forget! To relax, we must pursue optimism. Whether life is optimistic or not depends on a state of mind.
For example, there is half a bottle of wine in front of us, and pessimists say that there is only half a bottle of such a good wine left; Optimists may say that there is still half a bottle of such a good wine. Different expressions are due to different mentality.
If a person has an optimistic attitude, his heart will be more peaceful; If it is a pessimistic attitude, then his heart will not be at ease. So we should face life optimistically and live well! Relax your mind and look down on gains and losses. A key prerequisite for relaxing is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside the body.
Those who look down on gains and losses must be open-minded, calm and relaxed; People who value gains and losses will complain no matter how much they get, afraid of losing what they get, and even do whatever it takes to safeguard the benefits they get. Must be a heavy heart.
Those who value gains and losses may not get much in the end; People who look down on gains and losses may gain a lot of unexpected things. Relax your mind, base yourself on peace, and treat life with a peaceful mind, that is, don't be overjoyed when something happens, so as not to hurt your body and mind.
Is to treat everyone with tolerance, and be tolerant inside. With a peaceful mind and state of mind, we can make up for congenital deficiencies and acquired faults, enhance our concentration, enrich our lives, and make our hearts open and bright! Let's relax and live happily and warmly in the long and short journey of life! Some reasons to comfort those of us who have suffered losses say that suffering is a blessing.
The person who lost things said: break the money and avoid disaster. Timid people say: the rafters in the early days rot first.
Those who get away with it say, we are blessed to be alive. Those who are oppressed by the wicked and breathless say that it is not the time.
The outgoing official said: no official is light. Those who are frustrated in officialdom say: A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise.
After the incident, an official said: 30 years in Hedong, 40 years in Hexi, the wind and water turn. People born at the wrong time often use q: I used to have much more money than you.
People who have been wronged often like to apply Ah Q's words: Wait and see, sooner or later ... Parents who have given birth to girls say: it is a blessing to raise a daughter and a name to raise a son. The wife of a man without money says: a man becomes bad when he has money.
The henpecked husband said that it is good to have someone to take care of it, and nothing needs to be taken care of. When the husband doesn't cook, the wife tells people that the man who walks around the stove all day is worthless.
People who live on the top floor say: the top floor is good. Go upstairs and downstairs to exercise. The air is fresh and there will be no harassment. People who live on the first floor say: the first floor is good, easy to get in and out, and avoiding climbing stairs is very tiring.
As the ancients said, life is often unsatisfactory. Life is too short to be satisfied with only one or two things.
Therefore, many people are always sighing and pessimistic when facing life. This is very bad for health, and this understanding should be changed.
19 1 1 year, the famous calligrapher Yu Youren experienced many vicissitudes, but remained indifferent all his life. Friends often ask him how to keep in good health, and he always points to the guests.