Nowadays, people's ideas are very advanced, and the marriage of aunts in their later years is also very romantic and wonderful. In fact, there are two problems here, one is health and the other is mentality.
Let's look at the health problem first. Perhaps you have found that the physical quality of the elderly is even better than that of the young. Although moving is not very convenient, there is no "big problem". They exercise at will every day, not to mention it.
Give you a real example, the author's aunt, who is 9 1 year old this year, has no other problems except humpback and a little deafness. She lives with her youngest daughter (sister is 55 years old) and goes up and down the stairs every day, which is very comfortable.
When old people were young, they didn't enjoy themselves and it was difficult for them to have a full meal. In that wartime, they hid in a dark and humid vegetable cellar (a hole dug underground in the countryside to store vegetables) for hours or even days. To tell the truth, survival is "difficult".
After liberation, it ushered in a good day, but it also encountered natural disasters. According to my parents, it was common to starve people at that time. Can't stand the pain of hunger. At this time, many young people began to "escape". The Journey to the West went to look for the legendary land of geomantic omen-the Great Northern Wilderness.
In this way, many young couples, such as my parents and aunts, have left their hometown in Yuncheng, Shandong Province, with only one set of luggage, begging for food and taking care of each other, and their hearts are full of confusion and disappointment.
People have great potential, many seemingly impossible things, maybe at a certain moment, you will finish it unexpectedly and do it well. I walked thousands of miles on foot, and now I'm scared to think of it. At that time, many people walked very easily.
Although the northeast is not a paradise, at least you can eat enough. In this way, many people stayed. Like migratory birds, they have no real destination and no real ideal goal. They will settle down as long as it suits their living place.
In this way, this group of people "rooted" in the black land of Northeast China, raising children and resting at sunrise, not to mention the hard work. But even so, the physical quality of these old people is still very good. This is really a bit unexpected.
The reason why the author gives this example is to tell you that the key to improving physical fitness is to exercise more and exercise more. Maybe you can't eat the nutrition package, but as long as you keep exercising, your health will be guaranteed.
Let's look at another problem, psychological problems. Of course, some old people still have traditional ideas, and their spouses will choose to live alone after their death. And some old people think it would be better to "find a partner", which can also reduce the burden for their children.
I think it's normal for these two kinds of old people. Everything depends on the attitude of the old people. As long as the elderly are happy, whether they live alone or "take another step", as children, they should give strong support.
Life is not easy. The old man has worked hard for most of his life and is used to ups and downs. For them, it is the greatest happiness to live a comfortable life. How can we young people not support it?