These essential processes in life are accompanied by parents and guided by us.
Some people say that a person's character can be seen from his attitude towards his parents.
Some people are gentle in front of outsiders and don't lose their temper at all, but in front of their parents, they shout loudly and drink loudly, revealing their original appearance.
In fact, being patient with the people closest to you, not speaking loudly and caring in every possible way are the real qualities of a person.
It doesn't matter how you treat outsiders. No one will replace your parents and your relatives. If a person can't tolerate even his parents' small mistakes, who else will he tolerate?
Therefore, the attitude towards parents determines a person's feng shui.
When we came into this world, it is filial piety for our parents to bring us up, which is everyone's obligation. This is not what you want to do, but what you have to do.
We grow up, people reach middle age, and our parents are old, and they become delicate and sensitive. If what we say or do doesn't take into account their feelings, they will definitely feel particularly uncomfortable.
I once read a story about a girl who works in a city. Her parents are farmers in the countryside, but her mother misses her so much that she can't see her all the year round.
So my mother didn't tell her, so she secretly took the mountain road to the county seat, and then took a bus for hundreds of kilometers to see her.
She doesn't know where her daughter lives. I only know the name of my daughter's company.
So she was carrying big bags, all her daughter's favorite things, potatoes, peppers, native chicken and mushrooms, waiting for her to get off work at the gate of her daughter's company.
She doesn't know if her daughter will be here, so she thinks she will wait here anyway. After waiting for a few hours, she saw her daughter's figure, dressed appropriately.
She is discussing with her colleagues where to eat. She was so excited that she called her daughter's nickname "Swallow". The swallow looked at her mother in surprise. The expression on her face is very complicated. She is happy to see her mother, but she is also a little embarrassed. She didn't speak.
Colleagues all asked the swallow who this is. The swallow still doesn't answer. Mother knows the swallow's embarrassing situation.
"Oh, girls, I'm menstruation of Swallow. I came to this city to see my daughter. I saw swallows here and made you laugh. I'm a terrible old woman. Go and eat. I'm leaving. "
I was about to turn around when my colleague took the swallow away. Mother carried a lot of things on her back, turned around and trudged away. The swallow told her colleague that she had something to do, so she didn't go for the time being and ran to find her mother.
Mom, mom, wait for me. "The swallow's mother was very happy when she heard her daughter calling herself.
He also apologized to Swallow: "Swallow, mom embarrassed you and humiliated you. Mom shouldn't have come to see you without saying hello, but she misses you. Mom just wants to see her baby daughter.
The swallow couldn't hold back her tears any longer and began to cry. Crying with my mother in my arms. She hated her behavior just now and didn't introduce it to her colleagues as a mother.
She felt ashamed, and now she regrets it. I really want to slap myself. That's mom, that's the woman who raised me! How could I not like her?
Mother comforted the swallow not to cry. The swallow apologized to her mother: "Mom, I'm sorry, I just ..."
Before the words were finished, the mother stopped her: Don't say sorry to your daughter. My parents are in my hometown, and the living expenses are from you.
Your parents only have one daughter, and we thank you. When you were 3 years old, your parents adopted you home, and now you treat us as your biological parents. We are already satisfied!
The swallow is still crying: "mom, I shouldn't have just now." I should have generously introduced you to my colleagues as my mother, but I hesitated. I won't do it again. Mom, you are tired. I'll take you to dinner and then we'll go home. "
Mother smiled and said nothing. Swallows carry their mother's favorite food and take her to dinner.
Mother and daughter talked and laughed all the way. Swallows haven't relaxed like this for a long time. She seemed to see her mother and felt that this place had the warmth of home.
That night, the swallow curled up beside her mother, and she felt as if she had returned to the time when her mother put her to sleep when she was a child.
I was deeply moved by this story. Each of us is dissatisfied with our parents. We have grown up.
You may not like their living habits, you may think they are slow, but their parents are old, aren't they?
Time waits for no one, and filial piety cannot wait. The most regrettable thing is that children want to raise and not stay.
If you have the ability to honor your parents, you must spend more time with them and talk to them.
Don't wait until you have money, time or family to be filial.
It's never too late to be filial.