In China, people pay more attention to marriage, which is a personal event. So there are many taboos. If you can avoid bad luck, your life will naturally be smooth sailing. So the author gives you the prescription, so you can choose it yourself, which is more convenient, depending on the arrangement of the wedding banquet.
When choosing a wedding date, we must first avoid evil spirits, avoid the forbidden year for men and the forbidden year for women.
For your convenience, the author summarized a list of forbidden marriages for men and women.
Then we should pay attention to the anniversary of Yang Gong's death, and the anniversary of Yang Gong's death is taboo in all days.
There are mainly January 13th, February 11th, March 9th, April 7th, May 5th, June 3rd, July 1st, July 29th, August 27th, September 25th, October 23rd, winter 21st and December 19th.
Then you can choose the most suitable month, as shown in the following table.
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For example, Ma gives birth to a girl, and June and December are auspicious months for marriage. The first month and July are Ji Yue, which is also beneficial to the matchmaker. February and August are harmful to the man's family, representing his parents-in-law. It doesn't matter if the man has no family, or if his family is in other places. Similarly, March and September are harmful to his parents. April and October are harmful to her husband. If you want to get married in May and winter, that's right.
The same is true of other zodiac signs. Of course, it is best to follow this choice.
The following are auspicious choices. In folk customs, the jade sagger records marriage, an ancient book says? Yin will kill women, Yang will kill men and fear generals. Both men and women will get hurt. Doing nothing will win Jichang.
So pay attention to it.
Because ordinary people don't push which days are not those days, the author records the list of pushed days as follows.
For your convenience, you can find specific dates on the calendar for comparison. Currently, the calendar
There are also many free ones in the world. I believe it should be very convenient. If you go home.
Inconvenient, you can also check yourself through the following 60 sub-tables. The author will make a simple self-examination method, which allows you to calculate the daily branches and expenses conveniently, that is, Appendix I and Appendix II, with examples behind.
Because Peng Zu's centenary contains ugliness, and he doesn't get married, the author will deduct it from these two days, but we should still pay attention to the fact that these two days are not available. For example, if he gets married, he won't be available.
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With this table, we can find out the suitable wedding date every month. How to find out which days these days are can refer to the final appendix.
The ancients attached great importance to marriage, so from the three books and six rites to the end, they were not careless about marrying a new wife. Therefore, the timing of the Six Rites is also very detailed, so as to ensure that the virtuous new wife can take care of the family in a prosperous and harmonious way after entering the door.
So don't pay attention to the timing, there are the following points to pay attention to.
According to the zodiac, female life belongs to rats, female life belongs to cows, and female life belongs to cows. It is not allowed to submit birthdays, birthdays, etc. After choosing a wedding day, we should also rule out auspicious days that are unfavorable to ourselves and the man's family. So we saw a lot of ancient books. On TV, the auspicious day of the wedding banquet was n years later. First, the days are not easy to choose, and we also have time.
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Of course, in ancient times, the word "Weng Gu" was also used to mean father-in-law and mother-in-law. So the aunt here, we should be the man's mother or sister.
Another noteworthy natural event is the anniversary of the death of the Monument to the Core of Life. This is any day, such as relocation, promotion, construction, ground breaking, transaction, etc. We should pay attention to these things, that is, don't collide with your own destiny, and crossing each other is the collision of twelve branches. Many friends know that crossing each other is actually the mutual harm of twelve branches. There are still many friends who can't, so the author lists them here.
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As shown above, mice meet in the afternoon and don't wear them in the afternoon. Both men and women should pay attention to it. Crime is unlucky.
Another property is the age break, that is, the date of collision with the old times. Old age is the master of the year, so it is unlucky to rush into old age. See the table below.
Because Yang Gong's death date is not listed on the list, it is listed here to prevent omission, hehe.
As shown in the above figure, the year-end holiday should be based on the life span of one year, which means that the year-end holiday is too old, so the year-end holiday is the day that conflicts with the year-end holiday. For example, in 2008, the year-end rest was in the afternoon, that is, the day you chose, and there was no afternoon. In 2009, the year-end rest is less than the same day.
Another is to marry Zhou Tangtu. If the map of Zhoutang is basically suitable, you can choose this day. If there are several auspicious days at the same time, we can see which day accounts for more auspicious days, such as Daming auspicious day, Tiandehe, Yuedehe and so on. For your convenience, I will post it in the appendix.
See the big moon or the small moon in the lunar calendar, as shown in the picture in the appendix. Or check the perpetual calendar yourself. If it is a big moon, from? Husband? Where to? Gu? Sequence number, (clockwise)
If it is a miscarriage, from? Woman? Where to? Kitchen? Countdown, (counterclockwise)
You can use this day if you meet your brother, cousin, kitchen and stove, but you can't use this day if you meet your aunt, husband and wife. If you use it, it will be harmful.
Of course, if there is no aunt at home, this day can also be used.
If you count Weng and have no parents at home, this day is also there.
But when it comes to husbands, women are not available, otherwise it will be harmful to themselves.
How to calculate, for example, in 2008, in July of the lunar calendar,
This month is the Lunar New Year, counting clockwise from husband to aunt, the first day from husband to aunt, the second day to church, the third day to Weng, the fourth day to the fifth day to the sixth day to the stove.
On the seventh day, counting women, on the eighth day, counting the kitchen, on the ninth day, counting the husband, and on the tenth day, friends can basically know which days can be used and which days can't be used.
At this point, you can basically choose a good day.
If you are a son-in-law, you can't use the married Zhou Tang map, but use the married Zhou Tang map.
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Borrowed a friend's hand, hehe. There are a few words written on it. Fortunately, this is not the Monkey King's visit. She counted from her husband to her aunt in the big month and from the house to the kitchen in the small month. The method is as above.
If you meet a husband, aunt, husband or brother, you can't use it, otherwise it will be harmful. If you are a husband and your wife has no brothers, you can also meet brothers. What are some examples? -
If Ma Xiao is a man and Xiao Yang is a woman, it is estimated that 2008 is an auspicious day for marriage.
Comparing the chronology of forbidden marriage, we can see that this year's marriage is not taboo for horse, man and sheep.
Women who are sheep will be lucky in the first month and winter. The first month has passed, and then look at the winter month.
Gregorian calendar 65438+ February 5th (eighth day) Jimao 65438+ February 6th (ninth day) Chen Geng 65438+ February 7th (tenth day) Xinsi 65438+ February 16 (19th) Gengyin 65438+ February 65438.
Don't set the anniversary of Yang Gong's death at.
Seeing that the wedding anniversary of a woman's life is the wedding anniversary of a sheep, it falls on the second day. Therefore, we can't use the rest of the solar calendar 65438+February 6, and then look at the actual situation and take a look at Wenggu's taboos. If you don't commit a crime, you can push the wedding to the Zhoutangtu.
Introduction, 65438+February 5 (eighth day) pushed to the third day.
65438+February 7th (day 10), Xin Si pushed it to self-ugliness 65438+February 16 (day 19), Geng Yin pushed it to self-ugliness.
65438+February 17 (20) Xin Mao was pushed to Weng (he has no parents and can only use it. Adoptive parents are also Weng)
Now you know when the good day is, hehe.
It would be best if these last days occupied more auspicious days. See appendix.
Appendix I
If you want to know which day is dry and which day is earth, you can use the perpetual calendar.
The order of sixty jiazi is repeated, head to tail, after the 60th guihai, followed by 1 jiazi.
This table allows you to find all branches without a perpetual calendar. Point it at the table below.
Example 1: If you want to see the trunks and branches of June 13 of the Gregorian calendar in 2008.
From the table below, we can know that July 3rd is the first day of June in the lunar calendar, and the main branch of the first day is Chen Jia. Then find Chen Jia in the sequence diagram of 60 Jiazi. Counting down, July 4th (the second day) is B, July 5th (the third day) is C, July 6th (the fourth day) is D, and July 7th (the fifth day) is Wushen, and July 8th. July 1 1 (the ninth day of the lunar calendar) is nono, July 12 (the tenth day of the lunar calendar) is GUI Chou, and July 13 (the eleventh day of the lunar calendar) is Jia Yin. So we know that the main branch of this day is Jiayin. We can see from the table that this is not an auspicious day.
Appendix II
This watch is for the convenience of friends to check their own dates. The red bottom frame is the big moon of the lunar calendar, which is for friends who push the lunar calendar. The big moon has 30 days and the small moon has 29 days.
Friends who push the Gregorian calendar don't have to bother. Everyone knows which month is older and which month is younger. So it's convenient to push backwards.
Example 2:
The method is the same as example 1, for example, check the trunk and branches on July 28th, 2008 in Gregorian calendar.
Looking at the table, we can see that the main branch of the Gregorian calendar is Gui You on August 1 day, 2008, and then we find Gui You in the 10 sequence table. If we go back to July 3 1, it means Renshen, July 30 means Sunway, July 29 means Wu Geng, and July 28 means it is already.
Appendix 3 auspicious day of Daming ecliptic
On auspicious days in the Ming dynasty, many calendars basically used this as a benchmark to judge good or bad luck. This twenty-first day is a day when the heavens and the earth are open and the sun is shining, and everything will be made the best use of.
The lunar calendar is not credible, and many methods of choosing dates need to be calculated. This is not a simple day, but also a bad day, and so on.
The almanac can't meet this requirement. and
Basically, the version of the calendar is different, and the results are different.
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Appendix IV Other Important Auspicious Days
If you choose two days, one of which is Tian Yue, you will naturally choose a more auspicious day.
Virtue is a good day for everything. It is also good to use Tiande and Yuede instead of Tiande and Yuede. Today is a good day to get married. Make good use of it. So modern weddings can also be chosen on this day.
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Appendix 5 How to Find Geely Time
Search method: directly find the date you choose in the top line, and then compare the auspicious time, and the red one represents the auspicious time.
For example, morning, afternoon, evening, happiness, ugliness and morning are auspicious days.
Of course, time should not conflict with your own genus.
Appendix 6: Three aspects of welcoming female guests
The team that marries the bride and the team that sends the bride to her husband's family should avoid the zodiac to avoid offending the new couple.
Judging from the bride's life.
If the bride is a dragon, a mouse, a monkey, a snake, a chicken and an ox, there are three zodiac signs.
If the bride is a snake, an ox, a chicken, a tiger, a horse and a dog, there are three zodiac signs.
If the bride is a tiger, a horse, a dog, a pig, a rabbit and a sheep, there are three zodiac signs.
If the bride is a pig, a rabbit, a sheep, a dragon, a mouse or a monkey, there are three zodiac signs.
Appendix VII Happiness
Whether going out to register or get married, the car will pick up the bride. You can face Xi Shen, Fu.
You can also go out and stay for a while, then transfer to Fu, and finally register for marriage. This is called a sneak peek.
Even the ancient brides should sit on the bed with their faces facing auspicious. Don't worry too much now. Convenience is good, and it is good luck.