If someone says something about you, you can't stand it. Being told something about you will affect your diet and sleep. How vulnerable do you think you are? Why bother? In the world of crows, swans are also guilty.
Thought is not at the same level, just respect, three views are not at the same level, just smile.
Don't care about unimportant things with important people, don't care about important things with unimportant people.
Remember, your personality is your best luck, and your mentality is your best feng shui.