First, it is related to Confucian culture. According to the ceremony, the left is the upper right and the lower right. In order, males are associated with the upper left and females with the lower right.
Second, it is related to physiological functions and needs. The heart is slightly to the left, and the right side is less compressed, so it is mostly lying on the right side. Moreover, women are weak and dependent, so they usually sleep on the right side. Men hold women and women jump on men. Therefore, most of them form the phenomenon of male left and female right.
On the surface, the above questions are a bit boring? Even boring? , why? ? Husband and wife sleep at night, how to sleep is a matter between husband and wife, there are so many stresses? ?
Well, after careful study, it's really exquisite and traceable. It's not that this topic is sensational.
We know that both men and women have a heart, and the position of the heart is just above the left. We don't advocate that people should sleep on the right side, then lie down and sleep on the left side. Why not advocate sleeping on the left? Mainly afraid that the body's center of gravity will depress the heart, affect breathing, and even suffocate the heart.
Therefore, when couples sleep, it is most appropriate for the wife to be on the right side of the husband. But in order to avoid falling asleep, the wife has no intention of oppressing her husband's heart and affecting his breathing, which will lead to tragedy.
Is this exquisite? I really don't know, it seems that I am on the right. I had just married my husband at that time. I seem to have heard of male left and female right. I sleep inside, and my husband sleeps outside.
Later, when the baby was born, I slept on the right, that is, near the outside, because I often got up at night to nurse my baby, and I felt it was more convenient to sleep outside. At that time, the rooms were quite small, with a double bed, a wardrobe and a dresser. The room looks small and there is not much space.
I just got married and rented a house at that time. Haven't bought a house yet. After giving birth, it looks more like it. The space is relatively small, so the child starts to sleep in the middle. If my husband gets up, it's inconvenient for me to cross with the children. In addition, if the children are noisy and can't sleep well at night, I will let my husband sleep in the living room.
Later, I bought my own house, and the child was a little older, so we bought a small bed for the child and let him sleep alone. At first, the child was not used to it, crying and making noise, and refused to sleep. He was put on the big bed, very quiet, and there was no way. After he fell asleep, he quietly hugged him. However, when he woke up, he saw that his mother was not in bed and began to cry again, so he had to hug again.
It took him months to get used to it. As children grow up, it is not appropriate to be with their parents. At that time, we also bought a house and could give them a separate room, so that my husband and I could have no scruples.
I remember once, my husband was sleeping outside and didn't know what nightmare he had. I kicked him out of bed. He still doesn't know. Go back to sleep. When he woke up, he found himself sleeping underground. He also told me that he had a dream and was kicked off a cliff. He thought he was dead and struggled for a long time before he woke up and found himself sleeping underground. I smiled at his words.
Actually, there is no difference between us. My husband is not at home on business, so I sleep at his place, which seems to make it easier to fall asleep. I don't know if it's a psychological factor or if it's true.
Since I got married, sleeping is not my own business. Accustomed to a person sleeping on the pillow, two people hug each other. I sleep with great confidence. If my husband is not around one day, I can't sleep.