I have been studying numerology for about half a year.
Although I haven’t gotten started yet, I can feel that my understanding of many things is deepening.
In the past few days, many students have asked me how to conquer oneself. I think there are many dimensions to conquering oneself, so let me share my thoughts from the dimension of habits.
People have five elements, metal, wood, water, fire, and earth, and the five elements are divided into disease medicines. Each person's disease medicine corresponds to the five elements.
The five elements are arranged in ascending and descending order. In internal language, the prosperous phase is suspended, and a relatively rough judgment of the character of mind is used in the middle.
Wang is the most enthusiastic and good at it. Secondly, Xiu does not care, prison is disgusted, and death is disgusted.
So what is the destiny of each of us? In fact, what we are best at is the characteristics of our own destiny.
For example, the confidence and drive of a prosperous life;
The thinking and imagination of a wounded official;
The goal-oriented and controllability of a prosperous fortune;
Sha Zhong’s ability to control details and plan;
Yin Zhong’s logical thinking and rationality.
Many of us use our best abilities to do things, but what we are best at actually aggravates our own imbalance.
The so-called way of human beings is not to lose enough but to be rewarded with more than enough. can explain this matter.
However, in life, if we want to achieve great things, it is not enough to rely on nature alone. Therefore, those of us who achieve great things rarely rely on nature. Most of them are acquired through continuous training and have great depth.
This is the test of numerology for the best medicine. For example, people from the Shangguan Bureau generally recommend repairing the seal. What is the seal? The seal is rationality, logic, and axioms... The wild and unbridled ideas of the Shangguan need to be implemented logically and rationally. This is what needs to be done objectively.
However, in the wounded officer bureau, Yin was in a prison position. So when people in the Injury Officer Bureau hear someone say something like, "This is how the rules should be" and "You have to follow the logic that should be there"? Such words give them a headache, they feel disgusted, they look down on them and feel pedantic.
Therefore, what you dislike subjectively is what is needed objectively. Suppress your dislike and convince yourself to think more about logic, axioms, and be more rational. This is a kind of surrender, and this is a way to achieve the big picture.
This is also the so-called way of heaven, to make up for the deficiency when there is excess.
The process of subduing oneself is painful. Teachers often say, do you have the consciousness to take out your own small medicine bottle from a gas house?
After hearing this, you may think that this is quite similar to breaking through the comfort zone.
But have you ever thought that being outside your comfort zone is indeed uncomfortable, but you are not sure which kind of discomfort you need most.
Some people may not be born suitable for anything, or the direction of their efforts is also their disease, but they spend their whole life to continuously strengthen it, making their lives more unbalanced. This is a bit of a pity.
Therefore, breaking through the comfort zone can make people grow, but whether the growth is good or not depends on the direction and the track.
To sum up, you must first know what is best for yourself, and then practice deliberately to make up for the shortcomings.
This is to surrender yourself.
Of course this is really difficult, and I haven’t succeeded yet.
This is one dimension of subduing yourself. Of course, there are other dimensions. I have not learned it yet. I will share it with you after I have learned it.