Type 1 of the reach-out party: the direct take-away type
"Hey, your flower is so beautiful, I took it away!" Listen to this, are you angry? Sometimes when friends come to visit us, they see the beautiful flowers and want to move them away.
Some people even know to ask for your opinion, and if the owner is reluctant, they will stop asking. But some people really don’t regard themselves as outsiders, and they are really angry if they just move away. people!
Flower friend "Weakness of a Hedgehog" encountered a hand-holding party. The impolite hand-holding party took away the expensive Cliff Queen she had just bought and temporarily threw away 10 yuan. , and asked her to buy another pot.
Don’t you think this is annoying! If Huahua meets such a person, even if they can't become friends, they still have to take it back. This is simply a clear-cut robbery!
In fact, people who love to grow flowers are not unwilling to share beautiful flowers with others, and sometimes they are even willing to take the initiative to share them. It's just that some flowers are of great significance to the florist, or the owner of the new variety likes them so much that he really can't bear to give them away.
If the person who reaches out does not understand the meaning behind the pot of flowers before speaking, don't speak easily, especially between friends, because when friends get along, mutual respect is the prerequisite, and not taking away others' favor is a discipline. .
Type 2 of the reach-out party: sarcastic and sarcastic type
"I asked you so many times and you didn't give me back. How stingy!" This is what a flower friend said two days ago. When complaining to Huahua, she said that she was asked for flowers several times, and her friend was reluctant to let her go, so she was called stingy.
There is also a flower friend "Chen Xiaolan" who is also in a miserable situation. A friend asked for some sunflowers. In the end, this friend said that don't send express delivery, which is a waste of money, and just send it to her directly. .
Huahua was speechless when she heard this! You asked someone for branches and asked them to deliver them. The next day, you chased them to ask when they would be free to deliver them. The transportation costs for them were more than one express delivery fee. This was really a careful calculation!
No matter who encounters this situation, he must be very angry. I gave you flowers for free and you were complained about, and you were also chased for flowers. This is messing with whoever you are...
In fact, flower lovers who love flowers are not stingy about sharing flowers, they just want to extend their hands. When party members ask for flowers again, they must adopt the mentality of "giving you flowers is a sign of affection, and not giving you flowers is a duty." After all, no one can grow flowers in a day or two. When you meet someone who is willing to share flowers, Flower friends, remember to be grateful!
The third type of hand-holding party: "The type who comes back to settle accounts"
There is such a group of hand-holding party. They not only ask you for flowers, but they also turn around and blame you after taking them home to die. ..
Huahua’s mother was asked to take away several sunflowers by her neighbor last week. As we all know, sunflowers are really easy to grow. They can basically live in soil or water.
Unexpectedly, after the neighbor took it home and planted it in the soil, he said that the leaves were all yellow, and asked Huahua’s mother if the variety given to her was not good.
Huahua was really angry when she heard this, thinking how could such a person exist. Others kindly share flowers with you, but they are still questioned. Oh~ Please, if you want to be a hand-handler, you must also be a somewhat cultivated hand-handler. If you don't grow well, you blame others for not providing well. This also refreshes Huahua's three views...
If you really love flowers, please treat them well. Even sunflowers cannot survive. It can basically be concluded that you are not suitable for growing flowers, so don’t waste the flowers if you do this!
Type 4 of the hand-holding party: Moral kidnapping type
Speaking of this moral kidnapping, it not only appears in the social issue of giving up seats to the elderly on buses, but also from time to time by some hand-holding parties. A moral kidnapping was staged on the ground.
Some flower friends must have encountered such a flower lover. They fell in love with a certain pot of flowers and wanted to leave. If the owner did not agree, the moral kidnapping phrases frequently appeared: "We are the two of us." Or are you not a friend? You can’t bear to let go of this.” “After so many years of love, it’s not worth a pot of flowers.” Huahua felt in her heart that I was really blind when I made a friend like you and staged a moral kidnapping drama with me for the sake of potted flowers.
But sometimes I still can’t lose my temper and refute directly, so I can only complain silently in my heart. After encountering this kind of situation, I don’t dare to show off my flowers easily, for fear of being remembered.
Huahua thinks, if you keep this kind of thing for a long time, you will have feelings, and friends will also have feelings, but these two feelings cannot be compared, otherwise it will hurt others and yourself!