First of all, there is a certain truth to this sentence. Why is it said that the south of the east room is the unfilial Erlang?
Let’s explain the meaning below.
First of all, the East House, we all know that in most rural houses, the East House is cold in winter and hot in summer, even in most buildings now, so it is best to place the elderly in the East House. Erlang, it can be said that he is not very filial to his parents. He has to be cold in winter and hot in summer.
The second is the south room. The south room of a large rural house is relatively close to the street, so the people coming and going on the street may be noisy. It is indeed inappropriate to place the elderly in the south. After all, As people age, they prefer a quiet environment.
In fact, in my opinion, it is best if we can separate the family. After all, even if you really leave the best house to your parents, you will still have more or less money after you get married. It is impossible to live in harmony in a place where there is discord, so if you have such conditions, don't live in the same courtyard with your parents.
Nowadays, although more parents are more concerned about their children, we should not forget that our parents are the ones who gave birth to us and raised us. They gave us full love in their later years. , when we are in our prime, we should give them enough love and filial piety, which is what we should do as children.
If it were me, I would definitely give the best house in the family to my parents. If I can't do that, I won't live with my parents, so as to avoid causing some trouble. Since ancient times, we Chinese have put filial piety first. We can be kind to others, but why are we doing this to our own parents?