I am very happy to answer this question. Let me share with you some "weird" relatives.
I have a relative who is really weird. Because his electric car runs out of battery, he passes by my house at 12 o'clock in the evening and comes to charge it. That's okay. Even though I was quite annoyed, I still helped him since he was a relative.
Then he wanted to drink some.
I am co-writing this in the middle of the night, so I am doing you a favor without saying anything. Do I need to drink with you?
I can’t bear to say I have a headache.
Later I came home for dinner, a family of three.
While eating, he started to show off and talk about how his son was doing.
The guy is okay, about 1.8 meters tall. When we come, we sit on the sofa and play chicken.
According to seniority, I have to call this guy an uncle. I’m really convinced.
I didn’t listen carefully to his pretentiousness. I just listened to him talking about better development and that the leader appreciated it.
The conversation changed and he started asking me.
The children have grown really tall now. Look at xxx (his son), he is already 1.8 meters tall. And it still has to grow, but you can’t do it at your age.
I said yes.
My son’s manager told him to be the store manager when they opened a branch. This kid is quite aggressive.
I didn’t answer.
What are you doing? I take it you’re not even going out?
I told him that I would handle outsourcing at home.
The good guy is in high spirits.
You can’t do this! Unstable! There is no future, so go out and try your best while you are young! Look at my son, isn’t he doing pretty well now? You have to listen to us elders, we won’t harm you!
My mother said yes, xxx is pretty good.
As soon as he slammed the table, I asked my son to arrange a job for you! In a few days, you will also go to their store to work! My family is easy to talk to!
I still ignored him.
He couldn't stand it anymore and slapped his thigh.
You said you don’t have a partner, but I’m doing this for your own good! We xxx have talked with several people in their store. How can you do this? You are so old, you can’t even call yourself a wife!
My mother knows my personality and is a little worried. The bottom of the table slapped me twice.
I thought about it and endured it.
Look, I can't do anything. If I don't go out to work with his son, I will be in doom!
I almost finished eating and said to his son.
Uncle, come here.
His son came over.
I stand up, I am 185. Taller than his son.
I patted his shoulder and said.
You are a really good kid, but it is a pity.
Your dad is a loser.
If he had some skills,
Why would you bother carrying dishes every day?
This idiot couldn't believe it and started to curse.
I also scolded him very harshly.
Then I pushed him out and sent them all away.
What happened later was that all my relatives on my grandma’s side came to educate me. They were a bunch of stupid people.
The nagging makes me upset, and my mother also complains about me.
Let me come and apologize.
OK,
I bought two cabbages and gave them to him.
He didn’t let me in, so I threw him in from the wall.
Quite cool.
We no longer have contact with each other.
As far as weird relatives are concerned, it’s an uncle who lives not far from my home. Let’s just mention two. Let’s take a look.
Incident 1
When his baby was only five or six years old, his wife and his wife waited for the baby to fall asleep, and then they secretly went to eat barbecue and drink wine, so that the baby was late at midnight He came to my house crying and knocked on the door to look for his parents, but there was no one there.
Incident 2
On Valentine’s Day last year, he threw his baby at my house and told his baby to stay at my house for a day because they were in an emergency and had to go on a business trip. In the end, my parents gave him When he called them to ask if there was anything wrong, we vaguely heard about Western food, flowers, necklaces, steak, red wine, and a hotel. Damn it, these two people threw their baby away from the world of two people.
Wait, etc.
So much so that my poor cousin kept saying that he was an accident all day long.
The most bizarre relatives I have ever seen are the parents of my cousin’s boyfriend. Of course, most of them are learned through chatting with her. Although it is not very accurate, it must account for at least eight points. The two of them were already in the stage of discussing marriage. On New Year's Day, the man's parents and relatives came to the woman's house to discuss marriage matters. Several relatives came, but they were all the mother-in-law of the woman and none of the men's relatives. My aunt was quite dissatisfied when she saw it, but After all, my cousin was willing, so my aunt didn’t have anything to say. The groom’s parents didn’t say a word at the dinner table, let alone the marriage. Other relatives didn’t say a word either. After dinner, the groom’s mother finally spoke, quietly. Tell your aunt that my son has a bad temper and your daughter will probably suffer in the future. You should give your daughter more advice. My aunt was unhappy and kept silent. It wasn't until her cousin came home during the Chinese New Year that my aunt told her the whole story. I suggested that we think about it. At that time, my cousin's husband also came back for the Chinese New Year. My aunt was because of her husband. Due to family reasons, I also spoke coldly to my cousin-in-law. After the Chinese New Year, I got angry at the woman’s house and went back to argue with my parents. She said that this was not the way things were done. She was trying to disrupt her son’s marriage. The woman didn’t want anything and she didn’t have a house. Even if there is no car, the other party will still follow you. On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, a fight broke out at home and ended in an unhappy relationship. I want to say that parents should not interfere too much in the lives of two people. It was a good marriage, but now the woman does not allow her cousin to meet her partner because the man does not agree. It is said that the man's family is in a state of chaos. If everyone could consider the feelings of the two parties involved, perhaps this outcome would not be possible.
There really is!
The first one is my friend's cousin. The couple got married very early. They got together when they were 18 years old and got the certificate when they were 22. These two are a loving couple, both love drinking and playing cards. I remember the woman’s water broke at the card table. When the child was three years old, he started feeding him beer so that he could go out to play cards and drink. That kid is also a drunkard now, and he is known as a drunkard. Now he is 19, and he can drink half a catty of wine after eating breakfast, and I have never seen him sober!
The second one is my wife’s uncle. Four sons, the eldest is 56 and the younger is 40. No one got married because their mother wouldn't let them. No matter how many people tried to persuade her, it was no use. They just said that she was not worthy of her son. Twice, I paid the bride price, and then I got it back again!
I went back to my hometown for the Chinese New Year two years ago and visited a relative’s house to chat with him. He said that his son would go out to work after graduating from junior high school. I advised him that it would be best to go to high school and take the college entrance examination. Now he is in the city. It is difficult to find a job without a degree, so you can only do hard work. That is to say casually. After the year, I received a call from him asking me when he would pay the tuition fee. I asked what the tuition fee was. He said that since you are willing to let him go to high school and enter college, you will naturally support him. Now this child does not want to work, so he wants to Take the college entrance examination, tell me what to do. I really didn't expect this result, and I didn't want to argue with him, so I discussed with him that if your son can be admitted to a key high school in his hometown, I will sponsor him. If he can be admitted to 985, 211, Tsinghua and Peking University, I will also sponsor him. he. In the end, the matter was settled. When I went back to my hometown to celebrate the New Year, I didn’t want to talk to anyone about anything they said, because you don’t know what was in their heads.
The old man was very talented when he was young and was a well-known carpenter and architect. At that time, the family income in rural areas was very good, and it could be said that they had no worries about food and clothing. He raised two sons and married both of them.
The two sons did not study much, but the old man asked each of them to learn a trade. The younger son continues to work in architecture, and the older son went to learn Feng Shui (after a rural person dies, a Feng Shui teacher is needed to select the site for the cemetery). The development is very good.
Especially for those who practice Feng Shui, their homes have built two-story small foreign-style buildings.
The two sons and the old couple live very close to each other in the houses they built because they are both in the countryside. It could be that the two daughters-in-law have not been to the old couple's home for at least 20 years.
What’s the reason? It is said that the eldest daughter-in-law was angry because she did not give her a few buckets of rice when the family was separated and gave it to her younger son. The younger son was younger and his life was not as good as the elder's at that time, so he gave him a few more buckets of rice. Just like this, decades have passed, and the eldest daughter-in-law is still worried about it. The eldest son doesn't care about his wife, he is busy with his own work and making money every day. Nowadays, the old man sometimes takes the initiative to visit his eldest son's house to see his grandson's children. But as soon as he enters the door, his eldest daughter-in-law immediately slams the door and walks out, and the old man can only go back asking for trouble.
If you say this is the case for the eldest daughter-in-law, then there is also the younger daughter-in-law. But something strange happened again. The younger son’s home is less than 100 meters away from the old man’s house, and he hasn’t been to the old man’s house in almost 20 years. Why is this?
It turns out that this weird little daughter-in-law thinks that if the elder daughter-in-law doesn’t go, then I won’t go either. . . What's even weirder is that the younger son doesn't care about his wife, doesn't ask her questions, and doesn't talk to her properly. Just let it go. I heard that this little daughter-in-law is still like that. If there are guests at home, such as making noodles, or a few guests, she will add as much water to the pot as possible, but no food... It is so weird that she doesn't dare to add more when the guests are there. Eat whatever you want, or I'll look down on you. . .
Let me tell you about my experience. Last year, a relative brought a child to my home (not in a rural area). The two families lived in the same district but were four or five stations apart. Normally, we don’t contact each other for a whole year (including phone calls, WeChat, etc.), but on the night of New Year’s Eve, I brought the whole family over to eat and drink without even saying hello.
After all, it’s the Chinese New Year, so it’s not easy to get into trouble. After dinner, let the children pay New Year greetings (actually everyone knows they want money). Because I don’t usually move around, I gave him 500, but something strange happened. After I gave him the money, he asked my mother for it. My mother gave him another 500 out of kindness, and then asked my mother-in-law for it. My mother-in-law is 94 years old. She is ill and cannot take care of herself, but she can sit up. Her monthly pension is not enough to buy medicine.
I don’t know if the child has been taught bad things or what, but he kept making trouble without giving me any money. In the end, my mother-in-law was cold-faced and only took 200. As a result, an even weirder thing happened. In front of everyone, the deceased relative said that it was not enough and continued to shamelessly ask...
I heard that he had a grandson this year, wouldn't he want to give it to both of them? share? Although it's not that I can't afford the money, I'm not willing to give it.
Please tell me how to break this weird relative? It’s Chinese New Year, so I don’t want to make things too tense, which is very unlucky. I've been thinking about it for a long time these days, but I haven't come up with a solution. I sincerely ask you all to give me some advice and suggestions.
It’s really simple to say. Why. Those who are shameless should listen to the words of those shameless people and instill in them: Since their lives are better, then isolate them and let them have no family ties. It doesn't matter to me. I don't recognize anyone who is thick-skinned or brainless. It doesn't matter, but in my parents' era, family ties were valued very much. If the other party made any mistakes, they would tolerate them infinitely on the grounds that "they are only relatives for a lifetime." But I have to The response was very irritating
The concern of relatives during the Chinese New Year can also be summed up in a couplet. The first line: How much do you score in the exam and how much can you earn from a job? The second line: Does anyone have a partner who hasn’t bought a house yet? Are you planning to get married? Hengpi: Hehehehe
My aunt. She instigated my father to beat my mother, instigated them to divorce, and said that she would find a young lady for my father who was younger and more beautiful than my mother. Let my dad give his salary to my grandma, not my mom. After the divorce, she said that her son was my father’s son and would provide for my father in his old age╯﹏╰. My dad was later laid off and said it was because of my stubbornness and my conflict with my dad. My uncle's inability to have a child was also my fault. Coaxing my father to buy a house for her son, find a job, marry a wife... My father was not even so kind to me. He never showed up when I was hospitalized. They don’t give me a penny to go to college, get a job and buy a house. I don’t know what I like to eat or when my birthday is. Compared with my cousin, I just paid for it with my phone bill. If this wasn't my biological aunt, I would have suspected that this cousin was my father's biological son.
I have been divorced for more than ten years, and my dad is getting older. I also have a job.
My aunt began to contact me frequently: "You should be sensible and persuade your parents to remarry. If you don't find a partner in the future, they will definitely not want you if they see that you are divorced." Later, she was blocked and two cousins ??were sent to take turns. Come and accuse me of being an unfilial daughter. I was afraid that my mother would be angry if she found out, so I didn't dare to tell her. Really pissed off. In 2020, I will work hard and take my mother out of this city. I will take money from my father to support him in his old age, but I will not let my parents remarry and let me serve him. They are good sisters and nephews, and I will probably have to be a not-so-good daughter.
Regarding the question of who is worse, my father or my aunt, I said in the comments that my father is not innocent. But this question is subjective, I think aunt is the highest level. What my son said was out of anger, and he spoke without thinking. As for those who scold me in private messages, there is no need to do so. Give dad money for this... Dad treated me well before the divorce, and he didn't miss me out on food and clothing. I should give him some money every month in the future...I didn't make up a story. You can see that there are not many such things in the comments and other answers. I also find it very magical and difficult to understand. I said, just listen to it. There is no need to never abandon or give up. It's all other people's business, why are you so angry? We have no conflict of interest across the Internet, so there is no need to be so angry.