1. People who love to brag and are jealous of other people’s talents
2. A girl’s character follows her mother’s, and a boy’s character follows his father
3. No Those who take advantage of small things can be far-sighted
4. Those who flatter their superiors will bully their subordinates
5. Those who are overly enthusiastic have no long-term potential
Temporarily Thinking of these
To add, there are generally several types of people with very vicious eyes: the elderly bustard, the criminal policeman who has been on the front line for a long time, and the old thief.
Let’s talk about a certain old madam first. She said she could see the young man’s future. Specifically, I only remember a few sentences: 1. A man who believes in love should not be entrusted with important tasks. 2. A man who strictly abides by rules has no future. 3. People with extraordinary intelligence are not gregarious and find it difficult to be leaders. 4. Those with outstanding abilities should act first and talk later. 5. A man who loves you will look naive in front of you
Keep reading, retired frontline criminal policeman Uncle Gou’s experience in understanding people: 1. People who have committed crimes and are on the run are very fragile mentally and are also very easy to go overboard. . This kind of person will automatically avoid the police, look rude, and spend money and talk without thinking. Don't mess with them. 2. People who speak inconsistently do not have strong willpower. 3. If you want to get the truth, the best way is to exhaust the other party's willpower. After exhausting it and then coaxing it, the psychological defense line will collapse. 4. People who often dress up their appearance and are timid are suitable for being tough and intimidating. 5. Appearance comes from the heart, and habitual criminals have appearance characteristics. A thief has a rat-like expression, a liar has a frivolous mouth, a robber has a bright light in his eyes, and a betrayer has a smile in his eyes.
Some people are curious about why I know the Madam? First of all, I want to explain that I have not found **, never. She is a relative of one of my students. She is not old, she can even be said to be young, but she has been in the industry for a long time. As for why you make friends, that's another topic. I got to know all kinds of interesting people by working, studying, designing, studying Feng Shui, doing engineering, being a teacher, being a civil servant, doing business, doing business, looking for projects, etc. Unfortunately, due to my own stupidity, I didn't really steal it, I just reproduced some of the great people's skills. If something is incorrect, please don’t get too hung up on it.
There is also an old man who is still in jail who is not going to update his summary of human nature. Firstly, because it is too naked, I feel uncomfortable every time I think about it. Secondly, I also listened to part of it. People relayed not sure if he said it. Of course, he is not a thief, and he was considered a respectable person in the local area before. It is better not to come into contact with negative energy.
One more update, I would like to add something interesting. When I was a teacher, I learned how to identify people with low IQs at a glance, which is very useful. Just take it for granted, don't say I'm discriminating, report me. I will first write down a few nouns that I made up. If no one reports them, I will continue to update them. People with low intelligence have several external characteristics. To make it easier to remember, I have divided them into categories: 1. Distortion 2. Small head 3. Body stagnation 4. Absence 5. Incomprehensible
The proof has specific characteristics, but I didn’t dare to write about it. For example, those with microcephaly have not only small heads, but also protruding eyes, forward-pitched voices, easy credulity, and easily aroused emotions.
1. People who are familiar with each other often have a loose tongue.
2. People who talk eloquently are generally unreliable in their work.
3. Girls who directly ask you where the parking space is on your first date are of higher rank.
4. Most people who speak smoothly and ambiguously are cunning old foxes.
6. People who spit everywhere and make their mouth dirty are generally not very high quality.
7. Honest people may not be reliable, and people who are careless may not be outrageous.
8. People who don’t like to trouble others have strong self-esteem but are very sensitive inside.
9. People who don’t like to go out and socialize, long for friends in their hearts, but are afraid of being rejected.
10. People who never take sides in anything either don’t bother to participate or don’t want to offend others.
11. People who will deal with the relevant accounts or words clearly in any matter related to money are truly honest.
12. Most people who often use words such as "I'm sorry" and "Sorry" are extremely sensitive and have low self-esteem.
13. Most people who often say "thank you" and "thank you for your hard work" are smooth in dealing with things.
14. A truly quality person can manage his words and deeds well whether in public or not. This is an upbringing engraved in his bones.
15. The reason why you can see through certain people is often because they have what you used to look like.
16. People (whether men or women) who can cook are often more patient and good at handling complex relationships and affairs.
17. People often put their left leg on the right leg and put their hands on both sides of the legs. People who sit in this posture generally have strong inner self-confidence and are very insistent on their own opinions.
18. The quietest person in the crowd is often the most powerful. This kind of person behaves in a low-key manner and knows how to hide his edge.
19. Most of the women who wear colorful makeup are not economical, they are also expressive people. Most of them are self-centered and only care about their own charm.
20. People who often post selfies are relatively satisfied with their appearance. They are a bit narcissistic, which is also a sign of self-confidence.
21. People who have little ability and love to show off their superiority are often more vain and happy to hear compliments, even if they are particularly hypocritical.
22. The more someone screams that he is not afraid of you, the more scared he is inside. People who are not afraid of you generally remain silent.
23. Those who are not gregarious usually have their own opinions, know what they want to do, and will not be affected by external factors.
24. If a person often tells you stories about him and someone of the opposite sex, whether he praises her or complains about her, he basically likes her.
25. If the person sitting across from you keeps turning his phone upside down, psychologically speaking, he may have many secrets that he doesn’t want to tell you.
26. It is difficult to get along with someone you don’t like at first sight. People cannot quickly judge whether the other person is worthy of a deep relationship, but they can know at a glance whether they are willing to have a deep relationship with the other person.
27. Some people, when they see others drinking Starbucks, they think they are showing off their wealth; when they see others checking in to the library, they think they are showing off; when they see others posting fitness photos, they think they are showing off their figures. The more people lack something, the more they feel others are showing off.
28. People who don’t like to talk, but talk freely at a certain highlight moment, are either just superficial, or have great talents, know how to tolerate, and can be friends.
29. A boy who dares to take the initiative to have close contact with you when you first meet him will have more than one partner with you.
30. People who talk too much are either stupid or deceitful; people who do things too much are either vindictive or have back-up plans.
31. If he is nice to you for no reason, he is either stupid or wants to get more from you. The latter is more likely.
32. People who are willing to listen to you are kind-hearted and have high emotional intelligence.
To be honest, no one likes to listen to other people's talking, but if someone knows that you are talking and still listens, it means that the other person is very kind, knows that you are in a bad mood, and wants to comfort you. This behavior itself can reflect that a person has high emotional intelligence and knows how to take care of others.
It is difficult to know people, but you can only know the power of a person.
There are several ways, one is to go out; the other is to have a drink; the third is to play mahjong.
Go out together and get to know a person clearly through the little things you get along with along the way. Whether you are very organized when choosing a route, arranging meals and accommodation, and whether you care about your fellow travelers can tell whether this person is very selfish. When it comes to spending money, see whether he is a treacherous person, does not spend money, has no contacts, eats others and spends others' money, and see whether this person is open-minded in making friends. Stingy people are destined to have little success.
Let’s have a drink together. It makes people feel uncomfortable after drinking, but there are still people who want to drink.
Then drink. Some people drink and save some, some secretly throw away the wine, and some use water instead of wine. You will see clearly that this person is cunning and cannot be trusted, that this person is dishonest and cannot be associated with. Being a person is like drinking, you can see a person clearly.
Playing a game of mahjong, some people play for money to catch the big head, and the loser is treated to a meal. You see whether he can afford to lose, and whether he can pay for it if he loses. It depends on whether you can have sex with this person. Especially the choice of business we do together is really smart.
During the above days together, you can tell whether he sympathizes with the weak by listening to his stories and watching his attitude towards the hotel waiters. If someone yells at the weak, he must be a person of poor quality, let alone a person who cannot be associated with.
1: The more polite and serious a person is, the more sultry they are inside, and they may even be more lustful.
2: Men who often drink alcohol at home, beat their wives, and beat their children often do not do well in society.
2: When a beautiful girl dresses casually, has messy hair, and doesn’t wear makeup when she goes out, it means she is married.
3: Sweet-tongued people are generally fake, but they have high emotional intelligence.
4: Unsociable people either have excessive low self-esteem or have extraordinary qualities, and are generally worthy of deep friendship.
5: When someone you haven’t contacted for a long time suddenly contacts you, it’s mostly to borrow money or to ask for something from you.
6: Women will look into each other’s eyes when lying, but men will not look into each other’s eyes when lying.
8: Whether a person likes to be clean depends on his nails, and whether he likes to dress up depends on his hair.
9: People who like to say that we only talk about feelings and not about money are usually really powerful, and people who like to explain their interests clearly at the beginning and then talk about feelings are often true gentlemen.
10: The things a person hates often reflect his true character better than the things he likes.
11: People who speak very fast have a strong desire to control
12: People who like to show off in front of others generally don’t have much ability, but people who talk nonsense in front of others are generally not very capable. People with many eyes but sharp eyes are often ruthless characters.
13: To judge a person’s development in the next few years, it depends on what he does in his spare time.
14: People who are used to avoiding eye contact do not like to express their true inner thoughts, while people who are used to looking directly into each other's eyes are often more assertive and guarded.
15: The more low-key a person is, the deeper his emotions are.
16: People who often start with "I" in chats are more face-conscious, and that person is more face-conscious. Those who are most concerned and considerate of other people's feelings are truly powerful.
17: People who can praise you in public are not necessarily true friends, but people who give you advice in private are often more worthy of cherishing.
18: A girl takes the initiative to send photos to a boy, indicating that she has a crush on the boy.
19: A person’s circle of friends and public profile cannot represent the person’s true appearance and may be deliberately disguised.
20: To judge a person’s character, it mainly depends on how he treats the weak; to judge a person’s strength, it mainly depends on how he treats the strong.
1. A girl who insists on choosing a twin room in a hotel is not necessarily a good girl who is ignorant of the world, but is more likely to be a female gangster who has experienced many battles.
2. When you ask someone out, if he puts his phone back on the table every time he replies to a message, then there is probably something he is hiding from you.
3. Anyone who wants to cheat in the examination room will first raise his head to give the teacher a look.
4. If a person often encourages others, then he himself is also very positive and will most likely be successful in the future.
5. If the other person starts rubbing his fingers after you finish saying something, it is probably because your words have hurt his interests.
6. Girls who are very popular with both boys and girls are high-ranking green teas, and even girls cannot identify them. Only the person who can let her take off her guard, reveal her flaws, and be less perfect is the person who is suitable for her. The real fit is the fit in nature. Unsatisfactory relationships are 100% because you don't know what kind of person you are suitable for.
7. During a conversation, if someone keeps shaking his legs, it means that he can no longer listen. He is either impatient or the content of the conversation is not good for him.
8. What kind of temper a person’s parents have, then the person will most likely have the same temper. If the parents are gentle, the person will also be gentle. If the parents scold you every day, it is not the same. If the person scolds someone, he will not talk back. opportunity.
9. The more a person stares into your eyes and talks, the more likely he is to lie, because he is afraid that his averted eyes will make you suspicious, so he will force himself to look at you.
10. Don’t get familiar with others too quickly. Maintain a superficial friendliness, and you will slowly discover their true nature.
11. People who make you feel uncomfortable when you first meet are often not really good people, or at least they are not compatible with you. Even though he looks good, his speech and behavior are also excellent. Human feelings are amazing. You can reflect your inner feelings from small details.
12. A person's cultivation can best be seen when he is irritable, and his character can be best seen when he is alone. Whenever something big happens, control your emotions first and then solve the problem.
13. People with sharp edges and personalities are easy to offend and don’t have many friends, but as long as they are friends, they have a very good relationship; people with good popularity are either good at dealing with others or hiding and pretending. Or their edges have been worn away by the world. Such people rarely have close friends and rarely have the positive energy to warm others.
14. A person’s character is best reflected after drinking. He can’t stop talking in his heart after drinking. In real life, he lacks close friends. He cries after drinking. He has secrets in his heart.
15. If a person is incompatible with the world around him, he is either a genius or a madman.
16. The less a person likes to talk, the more things are on his mind.
17. The more low-key and calm a person is, and the person who is indifferent to emotions and anger, the deeper the city is.
18. An overly humble and low-key person must be a strong person.
19. People who are too perfect in your eyes often don’t treat you as one of their own, because friends can’t help but be short-tempered.
20. Most people who are strict with themselves will not be lenient to others. Being calm on the surface does not mean that they are arrogant on the inside. But he does things seriously, responsibly and even harshly. You can learn a lot from him and use it for your own use.
First, when eating at a buffet [licking the screen], I often take too much food and cannot eat it at all. I am afraid of being fined, so in the end I just pour it all into the soup pot. This kind of person is too selfish and even has a hatred of the rich. [Flash of inspiration]
Secondly, when a large table of people were eating, they tried their best to strike up a conversation with the most beautiful girl [laughing evilly], and transferred all the delicious dishes to the girl, and said generously, Just eat, eat more, and order whatever you want. You look so slim. This kind of people tend to value sex over friends. When they see a beautiful woman, they ignore brotherhood and can even forget about their wretched wife. [Silly laugh]
Third, at the wine table, you talk, spit, brag, eat and drink, and treat money like dirt [money], but when you pay the bill in the end, it’s not Pretending to go to the toilet, pretending to answer the phone, in short, just being cunning and not paying the bill. This kind of person is flashy, has no real skills, loses control at critical moments, and likes to be clever. [Slap in the face]
Fourthly, you are critical of the dishes, and you dislike the waiters both horizontally and vertically. This kind of people tend to follow the trend of profit, act according to the wind, and tend to look down on others. If it were during the war, it would be easy to become a traitor. (Haha, I may also be a traitor, because I can't stand the torture. It's so terrifying [shock]! Various torture instruments were flashed in front of my eyes. I guess I was scared to death [fear]...)
Fifth, my parents are not rich, and my salary is low, but they always like to show off their wealth and put on a show. If you go to a restaurant for a meal every three days, go to a bar for a drink every now and then, or even go to a nightclub every day to dance around, you will easily have a nervous breakdown and be unable to sleep.
Of course, these purchases may be for nibbling on the elderly, or they may be for free eating and drinking. In short, they are so shameless and shameless. When you encounter such people, you must take a detour and stay away, because people are shameless and ghosts are afraid of them. Not to mention people? !
Sixth, they like to smoke and spit when eating. They don’t care about the feelings of others who don’t smoke, and they don’t care about environmental hygiene.
In just one meal, you can basically understand a person’s knowledge, accomplishments and qualities. I don’t know, friends, do you have any better tips for identifying people? [what][Yeah]
Uninvited, I hope my answer can help you and more friends.
1. People who close doors and speak softly in public places are usually thoughtful and considerate of others.
2. Those who seem to be unsociable just know what they want very early.
3. People who insist on doing some very hard and painful things every day have very strong self-control. Such as exercise, review, study, etc.
4. Drinking can best reflect a person's character. After drinking, he can't stop talking in his heart. In real life, if there is a lack of close friends, he will cry after drinking. , there is a secret in my heart.
5. If a person is incompatible with the world around him, he is either a genius or a madman.
6. The less a person likes to talk, the more things are on his mind.
7. Three types of people often have no real abilities: those who like to brag, those who are particularly self-righteous, and those who love to talk.
8. Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together. To judge a person's character, you need to look at the friends around him and what kind of people he is willing to hang out with.
9. Stay away from people who make you uncomfortable at first sight.
10. The reason why you can see through certain people is often because they have what you used to look like.
11. The more low-key and calm a person is, and the person who is indifferent to emotions and anger, the deeper the city is.
12. A quiet person is usually very powerful. If he does not have a great talent, he grew up in a wealthy and prominent family.
13. An overly humble person must be a strong person.
14. Most people who are strict with themselves will not be lenient to others. Being polite on the surface does not mean that they are arrogant on the inside. But he does things seriously, responsibly and even harshly. You can learn a lot from him and use it for your own use.
15. Be wary of the kind of person around you who everyone thinks is good.
16. Stay away from those who praise you to the sky when they pursue you. There is often a purpose behind the pursuit.
17. When in contact with people who are much smarter than you, be prepared to suffer losses.
18. Those who are so strong that you cannot believe it also have stories behind them that you cannot imagine.
19. People who are strict with themselves are often picky with others.
20. If you like someone, you can be tough with your words, but your eyes can’t deceive you.
21. It is often said: "The more others show off something, the more they lack something." In fact, the more you feel that others are showing off something, the more you lack something.
22. People who open their mouths and shut up my friends are often simple and incompetent, and so-called friends are only one-way friends.
23. People who often start their speech with the word "I" have a strong desire for control and are somewhat self-centered.
25. People who are too perfect in your eyes often do not treat you as one of their own, because friends cannot help but be short-tempered.
1. People with fleshless cheeks should not be intimate with each other.
2. Don’t make close friends with people with hooked noses.
3. People with thick earlobes are blessed.
4. People with thick and long ears live longer.
5. People with raised eyebrows are upright.
6. People with pointed eyebrows must not date.
7. A woman with a peach blossom face has a bad fate.
8. People with wandering eyes are frivolous and untrustworthy.
9. People with raised mouth corners have no worries about food and clothing.
10. People with thick upper and lower lips are warm-hearted.
11. People with thin upper and lower lips love to talk.
12. People with fat heads and big ears are loyal and honest.
13. People whose tongue can touch the bridge of their nose are smart and flexible.
14. People who walk slowly are gentle.
15. People who walk as fast as the wind are impatient.
First, test people with money.
Second, test people with products.
Third, seek knowledge and know people.
Fourth, use color to ask people to see if they are upright or not.
Fifth, use language to stimulate the other person to see their attitude and behavior.
Sixth, examine the other person’s behavior during long-term relationships.
Seven, try humorous artistic sentences.
Eight, read most people’s comments to get to know people.
First of all, thank you for the invitation.
Personal experience holds that if you want to know and understand a person deeply, the most effective, quickest and most economical way is to treat him to a meal.
When setting up this dinner party, you should pay attention to two points. First, the atmosphere of the dinner party must be relaxed. Only in a relaxed environment will people be undefended and show their true colors. First, the people invited to the dinner must be familiar to the other party. There cannot be strangers, especially strangers of the opposite sex (because people will pretend in front of strange people of the opposite sex - this is human nature), and the number of people at the dinner cannot be too large. , suitable for 5 to 8 people.
From the moment you enter the dinner party, you can observe the words and deeds of the person you want to get to know at the dinner party.
1. After a dish is served, immediately turn the turntable and the dish will be transferred to you, or if the dish stops next to someone else, stand up and pass over other people to pick up the dish;
2. Before picking up the food, put the chopstick head into your mouth and suck it before picking up the food;
3. Put the food you like into your bowl several times in a row and store it;
4. Use your own chopsticks to stir in the bowl and look for what you like. Pick up the ones you don’t like and then put them down and start looking again;
5. Keep your eyes on the bowl. Put the vegetables, soup and water directly into your mouth.
People with one of these five characteristics will never consider the feelings of others in their daily life and work, and are selfish and profit-seeking. If a person has all the above five characteristics, then this person is absolutely not allowed to be used, let alone have a personal relationship with him.
Of course, these are just the author’s personal experiences summarized over the years. The accuracy may vary depending on the region, customs, and environment. Personal opinion, for reference only.