1. Young people choose their elders to help take care of their children because of their busy work, but they miss the growth of their children, so they have to wait until they have time to help their children take care of their grandchildren after retirement, and so on.
It is a shame to let the elders whose physical strength and energy are gradually declining take care of the children whose physical strength and energy are gradually increasing. There will always be awkward nodes, and there will always be pictures of the old man stumbling after the naughty Xiong Haizi.
3. Always put forward scientific parenting and keep pace with the times. But they always try to change the old elders' ideas first, and then let them convey the latest educational ideas to their children.
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Of course, there are still many contradictions in "bringing a baby every other generation", and the original intention of my mother is not to "spit", but simply to think about it-it's so strange!
Ya Ya: I'd rather let my parents be idle than let them help with the baby. Whether my mother-in-law will come or not, I'll bring it myself. My husband was under great pressure to go to work alone, but we all held back. In the final analysis, it is best for the baby to bring it himself! Don't people work hard and earn money just to spend more time with their children? Then why miss the growth of children!
@ Jingjing: I always take care of the baby myself, because I am afraid that my mother will be wronged. Dabao was sick once and had a fever repeatedly. My mother asked me to go back to my mother's house to help me with my children for a few days, saying that it was inconvenient for me to have a mother-in-law at home. After staying for a few days, the child became feverish. My mother and I take turns taking care of the child. My mother-in-law called and said flatly that grandma's feng shui was not good, so the problem would not be good. As soon as I heard this, I asked my husband to take us home. When I got home, I gave her the child, and then I told her that your feng shui is good, take it!
@ Life is like this: My daughter-in-law loves her mother dearly and never asks her mother to take care of the children. Her parents always go home after dinner with their children every day, so that they don't have to worry about their children's eating and drinking, not to mention their education, and they can give me some advice from time to time. What a good daughter! In her eyes, her mother-in-law is a servant and should serve them.
@ Jingjing Jingjing: Whenever I see other people's parents helping with their children, I want to cry! I think I am a bit of an ideal person, but the two dolls can only be taken with my husband for various reasons. For the sake of children, we adjust our work focus on children, and don't want to spend everything on dolls without money! Now that Dabao is nine years old and Bauer is five years old, I find that I have lost too much!
@ Outside love love love: The baby was born, and I have been over one year old since I was a child. My husband and I walked the whole way. Caesarean section under high-risk general anesthesia, the next day after operation, I endured pain, intravenous drip, dragging the catheter urine bag to hold the baby, feeding and changing diapers. My parents and in-laws have never been to the hospital to see us, and I have never told anyone that it is not easy, because the child is mine, I have to take care of her, and I made all the mental preparations before giving birth to him.
@ Hong Jie: My nephew was raised by my mother from birth. My father raised him. For the sake of children, my father retired early, and my old father never complained! After my nephew went to college, my sister took my parents to live with them. My sister and brother-in-law are very filial to the elderly. Now that Grandpa is over eighty, his nephew has become his favorite. Although "Every Generation with Baby" is somewhat tangled, there are also some warm places, so there is no need to entangle and there is no way.
Finally, do the sisters think that "bringing a baby every other generation" is a choice or a helpless move? Besides, what would you choose? What is the reason?