? Social environment needs harmony, ecological environment needs harmony, and psychological environment also needs harmony. To adjust our psychological feng shui, we should adjust it from the following aspects:
? The first is to adjust the feng shui of the sun. In our psychological feng shui, the sun is our father. "Father-son correlation", as the first of the five ethics, emphasizes the relationship between parents and children. As the pillar of every family, father plays an important role in the growth of children. Father's self-confidence, optimism, the strength to support his family, his sense of responsibility and mission to the whole society have the most direct and effective effect on the growth of children. Another important role is that teachers, "teachers, impart knowledge and dispel doubts", especially the teachers you meet who are beneficial to you, are more important to your growth.
The second is to adjust the feng shui of wind. The wind is a symbol of change. If a person is unhappy in one place, he may be happy in another place, or in a different environment, or among different people. It is equivalent to opening a window in our inner world and letting the fog disperse, so that we can slowly see the direction.
The third is to adjust the feng shui of trees. People are social animals and need social attachment. If social attachment is not effectively satisfied, happiness will be difficult to achieve. To green one's psychological ecological environment, one must go out from the "psychological glass room", plant trees and make friends. This is the meaning of friends. It's good to enjoy the cool under the big tree. When we encounter difficulties and need psychological comfort, talk and support, friends are the trees we can rely on, which is often called psychological support system.