Matters needing attention for women attending funerals
Pregnant women can't attend funerals.
Funeral is the heaviest occasion in Yin Qi. Pregnant women have a bloody smell, and Yin Qi's heavy place is very bad for pregnant women and fetuses. Moreover, funerals are generally noisy, and there will be firecrackers from time to time, which is easy to disturb the baby in the belly, so pregnant women had better not attend the funeral. If a loved one around you dies and has to attend, it is best not to greet the coffin, just send condolences and blessings, and try to stay in a quiet and sparsely populated place.
No make-up
Funeral is a very serious and solemn occasion. In this place, everyone is immersed in deep sadness For women, try not to wear heavy makeup or lipstick. If you don't improve yourself and need to put on some clothes to decorate, you can make it lighter, but you should pay attention to the fact that you can't wear lipstick at the funeral, which is disrespectful to the deceased.
You can't wear too bright clothes.
In the traditional customs of our country, funerals are mainly black and white. Women attending funerals should not wear clothes with too bright colors, but should wear some simple and heavy colors, such as white, black or blue. Don't wear too many colors on your clothes, try to be simple and generous. If you wear too bright colors, it will not be in harmony with the atmosphere of the funeral, and it will also leave a bad impression on people.
Don't have long hair.
Some women are used to spreading their hair without any modification in life, which looks casual and elegant, but at funerals, women's hair can't be let loose. First of all, there are many things at the funeral. If the hair is loose, it will easily affect the normal work. Secondly, the hair is too loose and the funeral is very solemn. On this occasion, women had better tie up their hair. If you don't want to tie it, you need to tie your hair with a hairpin before your forehead, and you can't leave too many broken hair on your face. This is a very solemn performance, and it will also make people feel embarrassed.
Don't wear jewelry
Women should try not to wear jewelry when attending funerals, especially brightly colored jewelry, which is very taboo, such as jade and jade, and should not appear at funerals. Because people who died in ancient times needed to be buried with some jewelry, mostly gold and jade.
Patients with chronic diseases cannot attend funerals.
People who have been ill for a long time are in poor health and easily frightened. The funeral environment is very complicated and the yin is very heavy. This occasion is not suitable for people who have been ill for a long time. If you really want to attend a funeral, you can wear red underwear or underwear to ward off evil spirits.
Newly married women are not suitable for weddings.
In our traditional customs, there is a saying that filial piety lasts for three years. If a relative or elder in the family dies, these children can't get married for three years. However, with the changes of the times, many people no longer taboo these things. Now, for newly married women, it is best not to attend funerals. After all, it's unlucky. If you are a close relative in the family, you don't need to care about this. You can attend, but you can't spend the night at your parents' house after the funeral and go back to your husband's house in time.