Sometimes in order to survive, we can handle things with a little accident and skill, but don't treat everything with this accident.
1. Think from the perspective of others, because everyone is selfish. Sometimes you may think, I don't want him to do it, but I have to do it because I have no choice. What if you put yourself in the shoes? What happened to you. Do you want others to help you? Since you have that ability, why not help others?
2. Secular aspects of life. And some worldly wisdom is a skill that we must master in this world, and it is also the trait of emotional intelligence experts. Emotionally, this is also a sign of kindness.
3. Give sincere compliments. Today, others are wearing new clothes. Why should you be stingy with your praise? It is also polite to applaud sincerely when others get good grades. When we want to finish a job, we must cooperate with some people. In fact, all appropriate good words are ok, because you have given others happiness and made a step forward for our own work.
However, we do some worldly things that go against our hearts. In life, we hear a lot of flattering words against our conscience every day, doing things that we obviously don't want to do, but we have to do. Even the people you hate are smiling and swearing behind your back. Let's try not to do these worldly things. You won't be very happy after you do it.
I like a sentence very much. I know the world, so I am not worldly. Some people say that this is also the greatest kindness. Yes, you are born a man, and you have to be sophisticated to survive, but you have to know that sophistication does not go against your heart, and you will be truly happy if you use it well.