Such words will seriously hurt the heart of the wife who is a pregnant woman. Why do you say that? First of all, from the maternal point of view, they are the most vulnerable and need to be taken care of, and the husband's words will undoubtedly seriously hurt their hearts. After all, such conflicts are caused by confinement. In addition, women who have given birth to children are usually very sensitive and emotionally unstable, and it is disrespectful to say such things to their mothers.
Therefore, at this time, the maternal mood will be very bad, or depressed, or collapsed, and the result is terrible. We have also seen many tragedies of lying-in women jumping off a building with their children in their arms because of postpartum depression. Therefore, this kind of nerve-stimulating words and quarreling scenes should not appear in this period.
From the mother's point of view, she and her daughter feel the same. If she stands in the maternal mother's point of view, that is, the man's mother-in-law, it should be even more sad to hear this sentence. My daughter finally gave birth to a child, and my mother-in-law and husband couldn't take care of it well and didn't want to take care of it. They are so rude and disrespectful to themselves. Of course, as mothers of parturients, some people are willing to take care of their daughters personally, because they know their daughters better and can be more considerate of her. Some people can't take care of themselves, and there may be compelling reasons, which should be understandable. Maybe some people just don't want to take care of their daughters, because they didn't want to take care of them because of bad feelings or selfishness, but I believe this should still be a minority.
If the mother-in-law is willing, she can share some care obligations for her children and stand in the perspective of the maternal mother-in-law. If she is in good health and willing to wait for the next month, she should actually take the initiative to take care of her daughter-in-law and help her son share the housework. Because she doesn't do it, her son has to do it, whether it's taking care of the mother or the child, and so on. Of course, if you are in poor health or for other reasons, you are unwilling and should not insist. After all, not all parents have the responsibility and obligation to take care of their children's married life. Children who are truly independent should be able to solve their own difficulties in life without adding too much trouble to the elderly. Only in this way can the society be more healthy and harmonious, and the phenomenon of "baby boy" or "good girl" can be eliminated.
A husband should take full responsibility and obligation to take care of his wife. Next, as a maternal husband, the most important thing to do at this time is to love and take care of the wife who has just given birth. If you have the financial ability, you can find a professional Moon Festival or a popular Moon Festival center to complete the Moon Festival more scientifically and solve family conflicts.
If you don't have this ability, then you can only take care of your wife and children harder. After all, these two are the closest people to you in the future. There are still some people who really have neither financial strength nor time to take care of them, so whether they ask their mother or mother-in-law, they need a sincere attitude to beg. Because you must know that no elder must have the responsibility and obligation to take care of the younger generation, unless there are some special circumstances. Married men are the bond between two families and should play a good role.
Conclusion: Therefore, if everyone puts their seats right, this contradiction in the family will be solved. In addition, three views are also very important. For a pregnant woman, it is her husband's responsibility to take care of her, not the responsibility of any older generation.