I think it's a dumbfounding and helpless experience, because I've been rejected by my mother for countless times, saying that I'm ugly, as if she were proud of my ugliness. I'm really a mother with a very novel brain circuit.
? At home, my brother and sister all follow my father's looks. Compared with my brother and me, my sister is not as like my father as the two of us, but she doesn't follow my mother's looks. To this end, my mother often dislikes us, saying that we all follow the ugliness of my father, not her appearance. I don't know if every mother, except those whose children are very beautiful, likes to belittle their children. It seems that what you listen to is who you look at, how, and the tone, I feel that I can change it immediately.
I remember when I was in high school, a relative's daughter fell in love early. The relative asked his daughter to drop out of school for a week and let her think about it. She said that if she didn't break up, she wouldn't have to go to school. At that time, there was a lot of noise. At that time, I happened to be going to senior one. In order to prevent puppy love, my mother once talked to me very carefully, and then I was very sure that this was definitely my own mother!
At that time, before school started, my mother told me earnestly: Senior high school is a very important stage for college entrance examination. You should study hard. Now that you are a student, learning is your primary task. Let's talk about falling in love when we get to college. Don't affect your study. Well, I didn't want to fall in love at first, so I nodded. As a result, my mother suddenly stared at me for a while, as if she was very relieved, and said again, well, in fact, you are so ugly that no one should take a fancy to you. I can imagine my expression at that time, looking at my mother with contempt, and I directly replied to her: I am ugly, or you were born, and ugliness is also your gene, hum!
by the time I go to college, I'm used to listening to my mother's dislike. If I hear compliments from her, I may not be used to it. I don't know if her ideological work is too thorough. I didn't fall in love in college. Obviously, the psychological effect is quite powerful.
Later, when I started working, my mother began to get nervous. She thought that her daughter could fall in love and get married in a few years, but I didn't mean anything about it at all. I was so anxious that she broke down. I tried all kinds of methods, introduced people, and dared her. It was useless. I just didn't want to try. Sometimes, when I was in a hurry, I replied to her, "Your daughter looks like me." At this time, my mother was anxious, because she said all these words to me, and it is not so easy to change her mind now. This is called the turn of the tide!
Recently, a friend was getting married and gave me wedding candy. When my mother saw it, she started talking about me again, saying that everyone was getting married and I didn't know where mine was. I'll go straight back to her. First, she's two years older than me. Second, I won't marry, so don't harm others.
Actually, many mothers may dislike their daughters, but don't talk too much in everything, or they will be full of words, and some sensitive ones will really lose confidence, so, mothers should also pay attention to their discretion.