Why is the small three better than the original match? Why is it always difficult to compare with the small three in the main room when the husband is derailed? The final outcome is that the husband is in the arms of Xiaosan, but the wife sadly walks out of this besieged city that makes her sad. What caused this?
First, marriage is difficult to keep fresh all the time, while mistress belongs to the freshness outside marriage. When a man and a woman meet and fall in love, it is actually because of mutual attraction that they come together. It is because I feel that the other person is new and interested in the other person, and only because I feel that the other person is different in life can I enter the marriage hall. However, decades of life, from the moment they slept in the same bed, the novelty of each other weakened day by day until it finally disappeared. Finally, there is no other way to protect them except responsibility.
At this time, if they feel that a fresh mistress intrudes into their marriage, it is difficult for the attracted party to turn back. In this way, the couple's marriage basically came to an end. Although some people may maintain their marriage under the deliberate forbearance of their wives and the affectionate call of their children, this kind of marriage has no substance except form. Many couples choose to divorce after their children reach adulthood, which belongs to this category. But most husbands often choose to end this marriage and welcome another marriage regardless.
Second, with a mistress in their marriage, their hearts began to change. There are three mistresses in marriage. At this time, no matter how much the wife loves her husband and wants to stay in this marriage, her heart has actually changed. She hates her husband from the bottom of her heart, no longer cares about her husband in life, and refuses or perfunctory to her husband sexually. Especially, the ugly scene of her husband with another woman makes her sick and makes her uninterested.
As a husband who is looking for a mistress, he still feels sorry for his wife after his wife finds out that he has a mistress, but if he is separated from the mistress, he feels ashamed of the mistress, which makes him in a dilemma. However, if his wife's attitude towards him changes, he will miss San Xiao's tenderness and begin to like San Xiao. At this time, it is inevitable that marriage will come to an end. The writer's marriage should fall into this category when it comes to an end.
Third, Xiao San wants to change her fate by winning love in a horizontal knife. Some girls don't want to change their fate through their own efforts, only through marriage. When she found that the marriage in her mind could not be realized, she turned her eyes to those successful married men. Now that she is psychologically prepared, she has a way to use her young beauty and the charming sexy of a successful man to make a married successful man want to stop and be her captive. Her purpose is to drive away the main room and take their place.
Therefore, when Tang Huo finds out their adultery in law, she will not feel ashamed, but on the one hand, she will make this man inseparable from her arms, and on the other hand, she will try her best to make Tang Huo retreat in law. At this time, it is difficult for Tang Huo to win the battle with San Xiao legally "because her husband can't live without San Xiao", while San Xiao "is shameless and will not give up until he reaches his goal". In this way, it is only a matter of time before the marriage comes to an end.
Fourth, the arrogance of the main room pushed her husband into San Xiao's arms. Some marriages are unequal from the beginning, that is, the so-called successful lady or the lady with background, and find a man who has no power, potential, money or background as her husband, because she is interested in this man's education, skills or future.
However, due to her innate sense of superiority, she is arrogant in front of her husband, especially her family is biased, shy and even difficult for him, which makes her husband a splint man. Once such a man is successful in his career or a woman is attentive to him, he may be derailed. Once derailed, nine cows will not come back. Many women are puzzled that she is better than her husband and her family background is much higher than her husband. Especially her husband, everything is arranged by her or her family. His success is mainly due to her or her family's support. What is even more irritating is that the mistress she is looking for is not as good as her in appearance or talent. Why does her husband insist on being with such a woman?
Why can't a small three dozen match the original one? Why does mistress always beat the original match? Why can't a small three dozen match the original one?
In fact, this is legally Tang Huo's responsibility. She did not position herself correctly as a wife, but as a queen. It is a pity and a helplessness for him to marry her present husband. Her husband is only grateful and doesn't do what his wife should do. In fact, from the wedding day, she was pushing her husband into her arms. It's only a matter of time before such a man leaves her.
Fifth, improper handling, did not take into account the husband's face. Some men, after finding a mistress, actually regret it and have a great sense of guilt towards their wives. If a wife really loves her husband and really wants to pull him back, she should come up with a good way to make her husband lose face and truly repent, and completely break her husband's idea of cheating again.
Because a man's face is the most important thing in the world, when he occasionally cheats, his wife also makes him lose face in front of his friends, and even his work and career are affected. For example, Liu Liu, a writer, openly contended for a mistress in Weibo, which was equivalent to announcing to the whole world that her husband was cheating on her, making her husband lose face in front of colleagues, friends and family. So, he just stays outside in the sun.
Sixth, I am already the object of an affair. How can I win a mistress? "Some wives have no self-esteem. How can they stop their husbands from raising mistresses outside?" In fact, men have as many chances to cheat as women, because men cheat on women. Therefore, it is not excluded that the husband cheated in order to retaliate against his wife's affair. In this case, if the master wants to play mistress, unless the husband voluntarily.
The seventh is to leave no space, catch the wind and catch the shadow, and finally meet the mistress. "Some wives suspect that their husbands are unfaithful to her all day. Her husband will meet friends and classmates, and visitors to work will be asked and investigated. If they can't answer a word, they will turn right from wrong. If you receive phone calls and messages from female colleagues, classmates and girlfriends, you will eavesdrop and ask questions. Even ask them face to face, so that men have no friends, colleagues and confidants outside, which makes men miserable.
Therefore, if the wife lives in doubt about her husband all day, it is only a matter of time before her husband cheats. When the wife really meets the mistress, it is too late to regret it, because it is difficult for the husband to turn back at this time. Therefore, when a woman decides to marry the man in front of her, she must trust him and give him proper space.
Eighth, the husband has a bad personality and regards marriage as a game. Some men are born bad and get married just to fulfill their parents' wishes. Such a man has no sense of responsibility for his family and regards his wife as a dress. It has become a common practice to fool around outside after marriage, so husbands and wives should actually put down their illusions and mainly walk out of the besieged city, because leaving such a man is actually a mistake from the beginning.
Nine is the relapse of the first love, and the main room is difficult to handle. The most unforgettable thing in a person's life should be first love. In our aftertaste, it is so pure and unforgettable. Finally, for various reasons, we didn't come together, resulting in a regret, but it remained in the corner of my heart. However, there are always many opportunities in life. Sometimes, you will find your first love in front of you. Once the time is ripe, the other party intends to renew the old love. At this time, extramarital affairs are inevitable. In this case, it is more difficult to hit this mistress in the main hall than to ascend to heaven, unless the mistress finds out that her husband feels sorry for his wife. Otherwise, choosing to give up will be the wisest choice.
Ten is that this is a mistress. "Turn positive, don't blame another mistress." Some so-called Tang Huo legally belongs to a mistress, but the tables have turned. Although Zheng Xiao became Tang Huo in law, the modern mistress will also have a crush on the successful man you robbed, and it is very likely that this mistress is your husband's ex-wife. At this time, Tang Huo legally married. Don't blame Xiaosan for being heartless, only blame you for stealing other men in this way. This is the best reward for you. At this time, you finally know that Tang Huo is difficult in law, but what's the use of regret?
Life is short, marriage is long. It was not until I slept together that I realized that I knew each other and loved each other. However, it is not easy to have children, cultivate children's growth, and finally become gray-haired, hold hands in old age, and bathe in the sunset for decades. Perhaps the most important thing is that we should learn something from the writer who struggled with the mistress and finally lost to Maicheng.