Many people think that modern society is open, so everything can be done. Actually, I don't think China people have clear values. I am not clear about my own affairs, dare not admit it, and dare not give up on someone.
Often when a person wants to cheat, he feels that he wants to seek excitement, and it is also because there are many problems in family communication.
He will also assume that there are too many aspects involved in divorce. The first is to thoroughly distinguish the various relationships between the two sides. Secondly, we must admit the failure of marriage, and then we must make property choices. So even if the marriage goes wrong, we should move on. But I'm not reconciled.
If there is a likable opposite sex at this time, let him fill in his missing part.
But being with the derailed object is not a decision, but a temporary relief.
When a person is unwilling to give up what he has and is dissatisfied with life, cheating is a good way to get rid of it temporarily. Have fresh people, bring fresh experiences, and let yourself escape from the predicament temporarily.
However, after all, it is not tolerated by society, so I am scared all day and dare not be seen by others. I also keep a lot of things secret. Although they have an appointment with the derailed object and do not interfere with each other, they are always afraid that the other party will change their minds and not be calm enough.
Therefore, in addition to often paying money and time to accompany the derailed object, it also bears a great psychological burden.
Cheating also faces the problem that once it is discovered, the family may disintegrate and who will raise the children, and then it will be rejected by society.
Relatives and friends are reluctant to associate with such people, and interpersonal relationships are affected.