During the fiery period of filial piety, it is forbidden to visit relatives and friends and attend happy events.
Within 0/00 days of death/kloc-,the immediate family members should be filial at home. Don't travel, visit relatives and friends unless necessary, so as not to bring your sadness to others. During the period of strong filial piety, it is forbidden to visit relatives and friends, especially to attend happy events. Especially weddings, business opening, celebrating the birth of babies and other happy events, it is best not to attend.
Post red couplets before the Spring Festival on the anniversary of death.
It is our traditional custom to paste red couplets on Chinese New Year, but if a family member dies, it is forbidden to paste red couplets in front of the door during the first Spring Festival. Now that the society is more open, people are not as taboo as before, but we should still pay attention to these customs introduced above, which is good for future development.
Children are forbidden to participate in recreational activities during filial piety.
In ancient times, if someone in the family died, children generally had to be filial for three years. During these three years, marriage and auspicious celebrations are not allowed. In ancient times, people who paid attention to "ruling the world with filial piety" and served as officials, no matter how old they were, had to take time off to go back to their ancestral homes to observe filial piety after their parents died, which was called "Ding You". If officials don't go back to their hometowns to observe filial piety, they may be impeached by the censor, punished, or even never hired. If an official gets married, has children, breaks up, has fun, etc. During his anxiety, he will be regarded as unfilial and impeached. In modern society, many people shorten the time of filial piety to one year or even less, but they are afraid that their children will engage in recreational activities.