In fact, the reason why you don't know what to say is because you have too little intersection with each other. You have no idea what kind of topic the other person will be interested in or what kind of chat content will make the other person start chatting with you.
Actually, it's not difficult
As long as you are good at observation.
When two people meet, there will always be a place to meet. We can start from this place.
Then find out what the other person is interested in bit by bit, and then there will be * * * topics?
Suppose the scene is at home.
Let's start at home.
You can observe the style of the room, whether it is Chinese style, simple style, European and American style, or full of science and technology.
Since it is Chinese style, there are bound to be some calligraphy and painting in the room, so we can talk about calligraphy and painting.
The content and style of calligraphy and painting are all negotiable topics. After all, there are so many calligraphers and fonts, and then everyone's calligraphy has its own characteristics. If it's a landscape painting or something, you can talk more! From landscape painting to meticulous painting, and even different artistic views between China and the West.
At this point, it may be too late to see hate.
Suppose the scene is in a restaurant.
Now almost every restaurant has its own unique decoration or dishes with unique taste.
Let's start with the specialties. From the cuisines to the unique cuisines in China, let's talk about the differences of food culture between North and South.
You can also talk about why there are so many people in China, which has a vast territory and rich resources, studying hard for food. We can even talk about the joke that pancake fruit conquered Wall Street, and the British favorite Looking at the Starry Sky.
Suppose the scene is in the office.
Generally speaking, this situation is mostly in the face of leadership.
So first of all, let's talk about the work, talk about what's wrong with the work during this period, and what you can't make up your mind to continue. Or, what do you think of something? These are not things that can be discussed with the leaders.
After that, let's take a look at the office space, because each leader's office layout is somewhat different, but there will always be a few pots of flowers or a few handicrafts.
Isn't this a topic after completion? Do you know Huayu? I can tell you everything.
Some leaders will hang a picture of "Ganoderma lucidum with deer title" in the office. This "deer" means "Lu", and the deer is also the mount of the birthday boy. At the same time, we can talk about office feng shui or something.
Have a good chat, maybe have dinner together, or even get a raise and promotion.