How to get rid of the unfortunate family?

Susan Forward wrote in The House of Origin that the family is not only a collection of people who are related by blood, but also a system to accommodate people who are closely related to each other. Every member of the family deeply and often influences others in a hidden way.

Therefore, our adult personality and habits will be influenced by the family we came from. To get rid of them, you need to leave that unfortunate environment, go to a place where you can feel love and warmth, see what their personality and lifestyle are like, and then learn what you think is good from them.