In this life, the best person is actually himself.
When you help others and treat others sincerely, you will attract like-minded people to share joys and sorrows with you.
In the variety show "Life I yearn for", there is a scene that is particularly impressive and full of sadness and bitterness.
One night, when the guests were sitting together, Huang Lei brought up the topic of dreams.
Everyone responded, some wanted to be a director, some wanted to fall in love, and some wanted to be a good person.
Only when Qi talked about this topic did she seriously say, "I hope I can dream about her, I hope everyone I love is very good and healthy, and I hope she is my daughter when she washes the cup."
Hearing this, the atmosphere became obviously dignified.
To comfort Xiaoqi, Huang Lei said, "Maybe you will dream about her tonight."
He Jiong took over the topic and praised Huang Lei for changing all the dishes into Sichuan cuisine and taking care of Qi silently with delicious food, just to let her feel a little familiar happiness.
It turned out that during that time, Xiaoqi's mother had just died, and the trauma in her heart was still dull.
Xiaoqi also said with tears that she was strong and didn't cry much. She just can't control her emotions by talking about this topic.
He Jiong was also moved, but had to continue to comfort: "You are very strong. I think you adjusted very well, very well, really well. I am proud of you. "
Seven didn't say who this "she" was, but everyone knew who she meant.
What is rare is that Huang Lei and He Jiong, as the hosts, didn't delve into the tacit understanding.
Every time I see the story of He Jiong and Huang Lei, people feel clean and warm.
Even with the guests on the show, you are as considerate as your big brother next door.
Perhaps only people who feel the same way can gently cover up the seven scars.
Some people, even in their dreams, are eager to meet.
But more importantly, even a dream meeting is an extravagant hope.
Those close relatives who suddenly left us are like sleeping soundly, dreaming that they will wake up at a certain point and meet again.
Just wake up inadvertently, and some people disappear forever without saying goodbye.
It is not until life has experienced enough separation and death that we understand that impermanence is the normal state of life
In your world, some people come and some people leave.
Maybe lonely, maybe lonely, but please don't be afraid.
The world you love is also silently warming you.
The TV series Please Answer 1988 tells the daily life of people living in Shuangmendong.
Although it is just a trivial daily life, it has touched the hearts of countless people.
Luo Meilan's condition is the best, but she never looks down on anyone, but often helps others.
Bought expensive ingredients and distributed them to everyone; Heating in winter will order a lot of briquettes for everyone.
On one occasion, Deshan's mother wanted to borrow money from Meilan because she was embarrassed at home, but she couldn't open her mouth at the last minute and had to leave angrily.
But when she got home, she found that Meilan had put the money in the basket.
Meilan's kindness to everyone is in everyone's eyes and in their hearts.
When Mei Lan has troubles, everyone will come to clean her up. When it is learned that Mei Lan still has unfinished dreams, everyone will try their best to help her complete them.
They give and support each other.
Birds of a feather flock together.
It is precisely because we are surrounded by equally kind people that there are so many warm and loving ways to get along.
Born as human beings, we all inevitably have to integrate into society and grow up and mature in society.
Being in a circle with temperature is the greatest luck in itself and the best blessing in life.
Even if there are unfairness, hunger and poverty every day in this world, fortunately, there are a group of people who love you and face the ups and downs of life together.
As the old saying goes, "The rich live in a blessed land, and the blessed live in a blessed people."
What kind of "destiny" you are, just look at your own circle and the atmosphere of your place of residence.
A person who is devoted to goodness, loves life and is proactive will not become bosom friends with a person who complains all day and is full of negative energy.
Good deeds are the blessings you have accumulated for yourself and the guarantee of happiness in life.
Virtue is the only way to carry things.
Mr. Mei Lanfang, a famous Peking Opera master, is not only good at singing, but also superb in painting.
Because of its reputation, it is easy to attract counterfeiters.
Once, a little-known newspaper published an advertisement with the title "Artist Mei Lanfang sells paintings".
A discerning person knows it is false at first sight, but it is true in many people's eyes.
When friends knew this, they were indignant at him and planned to find out the impostor and teach him a severe lesson.
Seeing this, Mei Lanfang quickly stopped him and said, "This man can make money by selling paintings, and he must have some skills. It is estimated that he is just an unlucky scholar. Let's find out the ins and outs before making a decision. "
When a friend asks about it, it is really a helpless move of a down-and-out scholar.
When Mei Lanfang learned about it, she not only didn't pursue the counterfeiting behavior of the other party, but also sent some money and goods to help the other party.
The pretender saw that Mei Lanfang was so generous and ashamed to say it, so he put away the gold-lettered signboard of Mei Lanfang.
It is human nature that people live in this society and pursue interests.
In desperation, it is also human instinct to do something that harms others and benefits others.
It is not easy to understand the difficulties of others, regardless of personal gains and losses, and those who laugh it off after a big loss are the real good people.
Between giving up and getting, live a transparent and bright life.
Treating people with things is like spring breeze, so that life can't bear any resentment.
I want to ask, if such people are not successful, who can succeed?
Light wealth is enough to gather people, and wide wealth is enough to get people.
In this world, if you want to achieve something, your strength is always limited.
When you are not enough to lead a group of people, you might as well improve yourself and let yourself have the ability to attract talents.
When one day, you become good enough, equally good people will be attracted by your magnetic field and gather around you.
It's no big deal to lose money where you can see it. Even if no one appreciates you, God will make it up to you.
Writer Leng Ying once said: "Your kindness and kindness to others will ultimately be fulfilled by yourself."
Kindness is an echo.
The essence of altruism is actually self-interest.
Life is a process of sowing, and harvest is closely related to sweat.
Those who are stingy with seeds in their pockets will never reap the golden color of Man Cang.
People's hearts are always mutual.
Everyone has rainy days without an umbrella. If you offer a helping hand to others, others will definitely miss your life.
One day, all the beautiful things will gather on you, hold up an umbrella for you, resist the storm and protect you from getting home safely.
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