What are the customs of having children?
1. Sprinkle red dates, peanuts and lotus seeds on the wedding bed to help give birth to a son as soon as possible. Hanging ornaments like Kirin on the bedside.
Different places are slightly different. In short, they are all food or mascots related to the homonym of fertility and early childbearing.
2. There is a fetus after pregnancy.
The specific practice is basically that you can't move the house after pregnancy, you can't move the bed, you can't nail, you can't decorate the house. If pregnant women can't sleep well, you should stick red paper or hang evil spirits on the bedside.
3. Pregnant women are not suitable for visiting patients.
Customarily speaking, it is easy to accelerate the patient's death and make the patient die early, so it is very unlucky for the patient's family. This custom is a bit interesting, because the family members of patients don't want pregnant women to visit patients. In fact, more factors are to protect pregnant women, give birth smoothly, avoid mood swings or contact with any germs, which leads to unsafe mother and child.
4. Pregnant women are not suitable for weddings.
The traditional view is that either the bride can't get pregnant or the pregnant woman's fetus has problems. In fact, it is more important to protect pregnant women.
5. Pregnant women are not suitable for attending sacrifices, funerals and grave-sweeping.
It is easy to cause premature fetal death or is not conducive to the safety of mother and baby. In fact, emotions, environment and hardship are not suitable for pregnant women.
6. Pregnant women should not touch other children.
Touching that child is easy to get sick. The custom view is easy to understand, saying that two children hedge. Similarly, children should not be touched by pregnant women.
7. Mothers should prepare their children's clothes in advance. In some places, mothers are required to sew clothes, quilts, shoes and hats for their children. There are also gifts from parents.
Today, many customs have begun to prepare for delivery.
8. Houses where tenants are forbidden to have children.
In the past, when children were born at home, tenants were often driven out to have children. But now it is basically going to the hospital to have children, which has become a happy event for renters.
9. Give birth to good news.
Reward with joy is to tell friends and relatives that if there are more people in the family, they can get a lot of blessings and be lovable.
After the child is born, parents should give lucky money.
In ancient times, it was done with copper coins or special lucky money (copper).
1 1. Children should wear articles to ward off evil spirits and save their lives after birth.
Such as longevity locks, safety buckles, copper buckles, copper coins, silver bracelets, etc., all play a role in ward off evil spirits and protect children's safe growth.
12,30 days or 100 days to celebrate.
There is a slight difference in this respect. Some places hold "full moon wine", and some places celebrate 100 days. On this day, relatives and friends came to congratulate, and the female guests all went to the maternal and child room to express their condolences, so as to make their popularity gratifying and celebrate the prosperity of the population.
13, grasp the week.
1 year-old, held a banquet to celebrate his birthday. At this time, the intelligence of the child and the ability of the mother to educate the child will be examined. Traditionally, commonly used items are pens, abacus, coins, books, girls will add some needle and thread tape measures, and some toys with industry proverbs. People will be especially honored if children grasp the week and pen, saying that they will be a good and promising scholar in the future, which is related to respecting the traditional customs of intellectuals.
14, too young children don't take part in activities such as sweeping graves and offering sacrifices.
People with low flame tend to see things they shouldn't see, and then get sick and have nightmares.
15. During the day, children go to places they shouldn't go or are scared by something, which leads to insomnia at night, and it is easy to wake up and wake up.
16. Children are not allowed to serve when guests come.
In some places, this custom will add that women can't serve the table when the guests arrive. In fact, it is mainly for fear that children will disturb the host's reception, which is very important for the family. Women can't go to the table, which also prevents women from interfering in men's external affairs. This is related to male chauvinism.
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