The geomantic problem of the cemetery, will dad's cemetery affect his daughter?

It will affect! Your grandfather's words have an indirect influence on you. Your father's influence is direct. Some of your words are not very clear. You are a woman, and your father's influence on Feng Shui is different from that on boys. If there are boys, your influence will be less. If there are no boys, it will have a great influence on you. Of course, this kind of influence includes both good and bad influences. Not that it's bad.