I was a little free last night. I watched a movie "An Arrow Pierces the Heart". After reading it, I was strongly infected by the plot and couldn't sleep for a long time! The plot is too close to the real society. The enormous invisible pressure in life, everyone's contradictory and tangled psychology, and the superb acting skills of the actors are all vividly displayed!
Many years ago, Ma Xuewu and Li Baoli, a couple who had been married for ten years, had an eight-year-old son Bao Xiao. Ma Xuewu worked hard and got an apartment. A family that has been crowded with many people for many years can finally live in a suite easily. But since then, bad luck has come one after another to Li Baoli, the hostess who just held a housewarming banquet.
Li Baoli had a strong personality and looked down on her husband from the countryside from the beginning. Ma Xuewu has been living under the oppression of his wife's cynicism for many years, and he has lost a little affection for his wife. When he moved, he was laughed at by the people who moved, and he didn't want to put up with it any longer. He applied for a divorce from Li Baoli. Although Li Baoli looked down on Ma Xuewu, she relied on her husband and almost collapsed. After that, she became more suspicious. Ma Xuewu was bored and really "cheated". Li Baoli called the police and took the horse and his colleague Zhou Fen. Ma Xuewu was punished by the factory and fired. At the same time, his man's honor was damaged and Li Baoli insulted him. His mother has nowhere to go to his house at this time. Li Baoli hated the old man's guts, and left him face every day, which eventually led to the old man's humiliation and departure. After several times of pressure, Ma Xuewu felt incompetent and committed suicide!
When she was heartbroken, Wan Xiaojing, her best friend, advised her to move out, saying that there were seven or eight roads downstairs, and Feng Shui called Wan Arrows through the heart. Living in such a house will definitely be bad for the owner! Li Baoli doesn't believe in this evil, and this family can't collapse. Without culture, she has no choice but to work at the lowest level to earn money and carry a pole for her children to go to school!
Ma Bao Xiao grew up watching his father live cautiously under the deterrent of his mother, which was unfair to him. He was very close to his father, and his father's departure hit him hard, blaming his mother for forcing him to death. I didn't know until I grew up that it was really my mother who called the police and hurt my father. I hate my mother even more. After I was admitted to the university, I announced my separation from the mother-child relationship. Li Baoli nearly collapsed again. I didn't expect her son, who has worked hard for ten years, to be so rude. Fortunately, after Ma Xuewu's death, her relationship with her mother-in-law improved. After so many years, my mother-in-law watched Paulie work hard for her children and never remarried. There is something lovely about hateful people. She has forgotten Paulie. ..
The details in the film pierced people's hearts. Li Baoli had Ma Xuewu's suicide note in his hand, which said that he didn't trust Bao Xiao and his mother and asked her to take care of Bao Xiao for himself, but he didn't leave a word for his wife, showing his hatred for Li Baoli! Paulie took good care of Jian Peijun, a street fighter. She knew him on a pole, but she didn't expect him to rape Paulie. Paulie thought Jian Peijun had a crush on herself and wanted to spend the rest of her life with him, but she didn't expect Jian Peijun to send her away with money. And made fun of Polly with disdain. Seriously. Polly was heartbroken and roared, why didn't I think of selling it earlier? Why did I have to do the hard work of carrying loads?
Ma described his mother as hurting his father by calling the police, and later accepted the prodigal son's father as a good wife and mother, which showed his broad mind and made his father always remember her great kindness, thus making him more servile to his wife and more domineering to his mother. So I am even more sad to know that it was my mother who called the police! Cause you to make up your mind to commit suicide! So he can't forgive his mother. Now that he has grown up, he doesn't want to live with the mother who killed his father. ...
This film has several reflections. What is wrong with their marriage? Is it necessary to continue such a marriage? Husband and wife should be equal and respect each other As in the play, Polly's ideas are wrong. She doesn't like Ma Xuewu's humble origins. When she got married, Ma Xuewu said that she would treat her for a lifetime, but now she wants to divorce her. Don't you know that the kindness between husband and wife should be mutual, that is to say, the pay should also be answered. Li Baoli has been asking Ma Xuewu to be nice to her for so many years, and she doesn't feel wrong at all. She is not only stingy with giving each other a compliment, but also swearing at her husband when she is slightly dissatisfied. How can such a couple get along for a long time? Ma Xuewu is tortured, but Li Baoli is not necessarily happy. It is better to let the other person relax through divorce!
What Li Baoli said to her mother-in-law at the end of the film also revealed the true meaning of her vicissitudes of life! When Ma Xuewu filed for divorce, I agreed to divorce, so there won't be anything later. Maybe we will be happy now, but ... even my son doesn't recognize her now. However, now that she has figured it out, the child has a holiday in his heart. She won't fight and force him to let the child fly by himself. She wants to live a life that makes her really happy!
It's not too late for Li Baoli to finally understand. In fact, many people in life are intolerant, grumpy, serious and never think of others. Have you figured it out?