But it also depends on things. Divorced, I can naturally go back to my parents' house for the New Year. Parents are always warm places for their children.
Is it appropriate for divorced women to spend the New Year at their parents' home?
I think this problem should be treated differently according to the specific situation.
If your mother's family sympathizes with you and loves you dearly, it's ok to go back to your mother's house for the New Year after divorce.
If someone in the family disagrees, it is not appropriate to go back to her family for the New Year after divorce.
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With the blessing of both parents, Miss Ling happily married her happy senior Yong.
Yong is very enterprising and was promoted to department manager within a few years after his marriage. His income naturally rose and his work became busier.
As soon as they met, at Yong's suggestion, Ling willingly became a full-time wife and devoted herself to teaching her children.
Under the careful management of Ling, the small life at home is getting more and more prosperous. In a few years, she changed her mansion and bought a new car.
Looking at the handsome husband and lovely son, thinking about the prosperous days, Ling's heart is sweeter than drinking honey.
I thought that life could be happy all the time. Who knows, I accidentally found a WeChat forever, which blew up Ling's self-proclaimed happiness.
It was a naked and irritable flirtatious short message from the enchanting female subordinate of Yonghe Company.
Judging from the content and tone, it is definitely not a general relationship.
It turned out that Yong Zailing was unfaithful to the female subordinates in the same department of the company shortly after her resignation, and promised to divorce Ling at the right time, marry the female subordinates and have children, and live the life of a fairy couple.
He said that Ling only knows how to take care of children's housework, which is boring and has no amorous feelings and understanding of female subordinates.
Ling's sky is falling.
Her heart is broken, too
Seeing that her husband had no intention of repentance, she calmly filed for divorce and left with her children.
After the divorce, she rented a house near her children's school to send them to and from school. I got a job as a tallyman in a nearby supermarket. Every day, she spends her time in a busy schedule, as if forgetting the pain.
On the first Spring Festival after divorce, elderly parents insisted that Ling take her children home for the Spring Festival.
Ling really couldn't bear to worry her parents again, and agreed with tears.
Parents are busy cooking a big table, which Ling and her children like to eat. They have been helping Ling and her children add vegetables and cloth during meals. Ling is extremely warm in his heart.
Looking at parents' loving eyes and children's innocent smiling faces, Ling told herself that she must come on.
A year later, Ling achieved the position of manager from an ordinary supermarket tallyman, and soon she was promoted to the administrative manager of the headquarters because of her excellent work. She has a successful career, her children have entered the best junior high school in the local area, and everything is getting better.
It's just that Ling has developed the habit of going home to spend the New Year with her parents no matter how busy she is.
No matter how much wind, frost, rain and snow she has experienced outside, her parents will always be her shelter.
She thinks that only the Spring Festival with parents is the real Spring Festival.
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Compared with her younger sister Ling, Lan in the same village is not so lucky after her divorce.
Lan and her ex-husband were introduced and married soon.
One year after marriage, before giving birth to children, her ex-husband repeatedly abused alcohol. Unbearable, Lan decided to divorce. She accepted her ex-husband's request and left her clean home.
Parents are distressed by Lan and insist on leaving Lan to go home for the New Year after marriage.
Lan Ao can't beat his parents. On the first Spring Festival after divorce, she returned to her parents' home.
Of course, her parents are very kind to Lan and let her stay a few more days and rest at home. But she cares about her brother and sister-in-law's indifferent attitude, especially her sister-in-law's mean words intentionally or unintentionally, which makes her on pins and needles.
On New Year's Eve at her parents' house, she tossed and turned in bed all night. On the first day of the second day of the first month, after breakfast in a hurry, she lied that she had gone out with her friends, bid farewell to her parents and went straight back to her rented cabin.
Lan is a woman with strong self-esteem.
Although the rental house is cold and lonely, Lan doesn't mind.
She didn't like to live by looking at other people's faces since she was a child.
Is it necessary for a poor aunt who is divorced and still away from home to go back to her family for the Spring Festival and accept the coldness of her brother and sister-in-law?