I asked many friends what they regret most after getting married. Surprisingly, some people said that they should not have gotten married so early because their current wives were not the most suitable for them.
Men have many choices in this life, such as their childhood studies, career and marriage when they grow up, etc. But when it comes to the biggest choice for a man in his life, I think it should be marriage. Whether a man is lucky or not depends on what kind of wife he marries, not just the car or the house.
The stock god Warren Buffett said: The most important investment in my life is not which stock I buy, but who I choose to be my partner.
If a man is the backbone of the family, a woman is the anchor.
But looking at all aspects of life, it is not difficult to find that behind those successful men and happy families, there is often a good wife who is capable, optimistic, and intelligent.
The husband hides the blessing of his wife, and the wife hides the blessing of a family.
I have seen a very classic saying:
When you put down your dignity and treat your wife well, it means that you have become a real man.
When your wife gives you face at all times, it means that you are already a character.
The happiest thing is to marry a good wife. What I want to do most is to grow older with her.
Many people don’t pay much attention to marriage, but who would have thought that without your wife being so busy, how could you look so glamorous and unrestrained outside?
If the wife is good at running the family and taking care of the inside and outside, her life will be peaceful; but if the wife neglects her family responsibilities and only cares about asking for things, her life will be unstable.
When you become the pride of your wife, she will shine to illuminate your life, and even change your family fortune and prosper your family.
A wife is the feng shui of a family
As the saying goes: "A family with a good wife will be prosperous for three generations."
Therefore, marrying a wife is a very important matter. It is related to the harmony of the family and the prosperity of the family.
The best Feng Shui of a person is his character, and the Feng Shui of a family lies in his wife.
There is a pair of brothers who are already married and have children. But after getting married, the two have different lives. The eldest brother looks younger and younger, while the younger brother looks older and older.
The wife my brother married is kind and generous, filial to her parents-in-law, and they are very loving.
But the younger brother’s wife always wants to take advantage of her husband’s family, and sees herself and her husband’s family as antagonists, so she always quarrels over trivial matters, making the two of them very unhappy. .
As the old saying goes, marrying the same relative will bring prosperity to three generations; marrying the wrong relative will harm three generations.
Marriage requires the irrigation of men and the care of women in order to grow from small seedlings into towering trees, then spread their branches and leaves, and harvest fruits.
The root of this big tree is that the husband respects his wife, and the wife loves and cares for her family, loves and cherishes each other.