When a girl gets married, she has to live in the man’s family. This is a natural thing. But some people think that a married girl throws away the water. Once a girl gets married, she will no longer be part of her family and cannot go home to celebrate the New Year. This understanding is obviously incorrect. …In our place, after a girl gets married, she can decide whether to go back to her parents’ home to celebrate the New Year. ... Specifically, after getting married, a girl can definitely go back to her parents’ home to celebrate the New Year. Whether or not to go back to her parents’ home to celebrate the New Year depends on the girl’s personal wishes, and her husband’s family will be open-minded about the three situations in which a girl returns to her parents’ home to celebrate the New Year.
1. In our place, girls can go back to their parents’ home to celebrate the New Year after getting married.
First of all, we have to explain that here, girls can go back to their parents’ home to celebrate the New Year after they get married. There is no restriction in any aspect that girls cannot return to their parents’ home to celebrate the New Year after getting married. ...It is precisely because of this situation that in our place, it is common for girls to return to their parents’ homes to celebrate the New Year after getting married. This problem is not a problem at all here.
2. Whether to choose to return to her parents’ home for the New Year depends on the girl’s personal wishes.
On the specific issue of whether to stay at her husband’s house for the New Year or return to her parents’ house for the New Year, the girl has the final decision. ... Specifically, whether to choose to return to her parents’ home for the New Year depends on a girl’s personal wishes. ...If she wants to go back to her parents' home for the New Year, she can go back, and she can even bring her husband back with her. And if she doesn’t want to go back to her parents’ house to celebrate the New Year, there is no problem. Her parents’ family will not raise any objections, and the girl can spend the New Year at her husband’s house with peace of mind.
3. When the daughter-in-law returns to her parents’ home to celebrate the New Year, the husband’s family will treat it openly.
Although girls have to marry into their husband’s family after getting married, in our case, the husband’s family does not have any requirements or restrictions for girls who marry here. … On the issue of whether to return to her parents’ home for the New Year, the husband’s family is very open-minded. They will not restrict a girl from returning to her parents’ home to celebrate the New Year, and will even encourage their son to take his wife back to his parents’ home to celebrate the New Year. ...It is precisely because of this open-minded attitude that the newlywed families here are living happily. The relationship between the husband and wife is very good, and the relationship between the parents is also very harmonious and they get along very harmoniously.