No year for men and women, no year for women, no moon for women, no day for women's marriage, no seeing off women guests, getting on and off sedan chairs, no auspicious songs on various days, etc.
Because this involves a lot of professional knowledge, I won't elaborate here.
Combined with the upcoming Year of the Ox, this paper talks about the problems that should be paid attention to in the wedding period of the Year of the Ox.
Judging from the "forbidden year for men and forbidden year for women";
In the Year of the Ox, it is not appropriate to marry a man who belongs to a horse and a woman who belongs to a tiger.
Judging from the "Women Marry Italy Month", the most suitable months for girls in the zodiac are:
Rat: Ji Yue in June and 65438+ February of the lunar calendar, and Little Ji Yue in March and September;
Cattle: May, 165438+ October of the lunar calendar is "Ji Yue", and February and August are "Little Ji Yue";
Year of the Tiger: Ji Yue in February and August, and Little Ji Yue in May and 165438+ October;
Rabbit: The first month and July of the lunar calendar are "good luck months", and April and 10 are "meager profit months";
Dragon: April and 10 of the lunar calendar are "Ji Yue", and the first month and July are "Little Ji Yue";
Snake: March and September of the lunar calendar are "Ji Yue", and June and 65438+ February are "Little Ji Yue";
Ma: June and 65438+ February of the lunar calendar are "Ji Yue", and March and September are "Little Ji Yue";
Sheep: May, 165438+ October of the lunar calendar are "good luck months", and February and August are "small profit months";
Monkey: February and August are "Ji Yue", and May, 165438+ October are "Little Ji Yue".
Rooster: "Ji Yue" in the first month and July of the lunar calendar, "Little Ji Yue" in April and 10;
Dog: April and 10 of the lunar calendar are "good luck months", and the first month and July are "small profit months";
Pig: March and September of the lunar calendar are "Ji Yue", and June and 65438+ February are "Little Ji Yue";
The date of marriage is based on the woman's "date of birth". Each zodiac has two "good luck months" and two "good luck months" in a year. The formula of "Happy Moon" is: "Welcome chickens and rabbits on the 7th, tigers and monkeys on the 2nd and 8th, snakes and pigs on the 3rd and 9th, dragons and dogs on the 4th and 10th, cattle and sheep in May and November, rats and horses in June and December." The formula of "Xiaoyue" is: "welcome dragons and dogs on the 7th, cattle and sheep on the 2nd and 8th, rats and horses on the 3rd and 9th, chickens and rabbits on the 4th and 10th, tigers and monkeys in May and November, snakes and pigs in June and December." For good luck, people often use "good luck month". In case you can't get married in the "big month" for some reason, you can also check it in the "small month".
Auspicious day: When choosing auspicious days, you must avoid those unfavorable days.
As the saying goes, "Rats with poor mouths can't leave the temple on the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day", so the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day of each month is generally not suitable as an auspicious day for marriage. Breaking the secret of marital discord in the zodiac
Many people care about marriage. I have repeatedly stressed that there are many factors that affect marriage, and the eight-character marriage is only one aspect and cannot be the dominant decisive factor. Marriage needs careful escort, careful communication and more humility. Among them, the influence of acquired feng shui environment is far greater than that of eight-character marriage. Congenital birthdates can't be changed from the day we were born, and no one can change our birthday. The day after tomorrow, when we choose our living environment, we can completely change it. The influence of our family environment on marriage.
As early as a few years ago, I picked it from an ancient book. "A white horse is not afraid of a green cow. Once a sheep meets a mouse, a snake meets a tiger like a knife, a pig meets an ape, a dragon meets a rabbit in the clouds, and a golden rooster meets a dog's tears." The explanation of this formula is: if the marriage between cattle and horses is not ideal, the same sheep and rats will have many problems together, and so will others, but this is not absolute. The most important thing is to carefully analyze the birth dates of two people, but the influence of this formula has been great since ancient times, and everyone tries to avoid it.
On the issue of marriage, divorced and widowed people are not completely condemned by years and families, but years and families are harmonious, and there are also disasters for couples. The largest proportion of male and female criminals is evil spirits in the column and husband and wife in the column. Those couples who love each other from beginning to end and live together for life, have quarrels, but they can still stay together for life. One of the most important points is that the couple's annual columns are consistent. If they are in harmony with each other, they are naturally not afraid of life, punishment and evil. We compare the chronology of husband and wife to the foundation of a tree. The roots of the two trees are harmonious and must be solid. Let's briefly talk about the solutions to the above six groups of mutually harmful zodiac signs:
The first group: "A white horse is not afraid of a green cow": ugliness and afternoon are mutually harmful. The solution is to choose an auspicious day when you get married, or find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to a snake or a chicken, a horse or a dog. When giving birth to a child who is a snake or a tiger, choose the apartment that lies in the northeast or southeast as a lucky star in geomantic omen. Snakes or tiger zodiac signs can also be kept at home or worn by their owners, including Ma Peihu and Niu Pei snakes.
The second group: "When sheep and rats meet, they must stop": sheep and rats belong to "no harm to each other". The solution is to choose an auspicious day with Shen, Chen, Hai and Mao, or find a monkey or dragon's best man or maid of honor for the mouse and a pig or rabbit's best man or maid of honor for the sheep. Children born as monkeys or rabbits choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the southwest or east as the auspicious star in geomantic omen. At home, monkeys or rabbits can also be placed or worn by their owners, including mice wearing monkeys and sheep wearing rabbits.
The third group: "A snake meets a tiger like a knife": snakes and tigers "harm each other". The solution is to choose a auspicious day when choosing a wedding date, or to find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to a chicken or a cow, a horse or a dog. When giving birth to a child who is a horse or a cow, choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the west or northwest as a lucky star in geomantic omen. The zodiac signs of horses or cows can also be kept at home or worn by their owners, including snakes and tigers.
The fourth group: "When a pig meets an ape, it can't be the first": monkeys and pigs "suffer from each other". The solution is to choose an auspicious day when getting married, or find the best man or maid of honor who belongs to a mouse or a dragon, or the best man or maid of honor who belongs to a rabbit or a pig. When giving birth to children belonging to dragons or sheep, choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the southeast or southwest as the lucky star in geomantic omen. Rats or rabbits can also be kept at home or worn by their owners, where monkeys wear rats and pigs wear rabbits.
The fifth group: "Dragon meets rabbit's cloud": the dragon and rabbit "harm each other". The solution is to choose auspicious day, Shen, Hai and Wei, or find a monkey or mouse's best man or maid of honor for the dragon and a pig or sheep's best man or maid of honor for the rabbit. Children born as rats or pigs, in geomantic omen, choose the apartment with the master bedroom in the northwest or due north as Jixing. Mice or pigs can also be kept at home or worn by their owners, including dragons with mice and rabbits with pigs.
The sixth group: "The golden rooster meets the dog's tears": the people who belong to the chicken and the dog "harm each other". The solution is to choose the auspicious days of April, ugly, cloudy and noon when choosing the wedding date, or find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to the snake or cow, and a best man or maid of honor who belongs to the dog or horse. When giving birth to a child who is a snake or a horse, choose the apartment that lies in the southeast or south as the auspicious star in Feng Shui. The snake or horse zodiac can also be put at home or worn by the owner, in which the chicken wears the snake and the dog wears the horse.
The above is the solution to the six harmful marriages. The real solution needs to analyze two characters in detail, only from the zodiac. I hope it will help everyone's marriage. The eight characters in marriage are only an influencing factor, not a decisive factor. You can't divorce or break up just because the eight characters don't match. Feelings need to be cared for and communicated with heart. Even if the congenital eight characters do not match, it can be made up by the acquired feng shui. This is the meaning of "congenital deficiency, the day after tomorrow".
Resolve the unfavorable combination of Chinese zodiac marriage
The first group: the solution to the incompatibility between horses and cattle is:
1. When choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with snakes, chickens, tigers and dogs on duty (the zodiac sign on duty every day will be clearly marked in the children's birthday or the old calendar).
2. Newcomers who belong to cattle find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to snakes or chickens, and newcomers who belong to horses find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to tigers or dogs;
3. Choose a snake or the Year of the Tiger to have children;
4. Put the zodiac ornaments or decorations of snakes or tigers on the bedside.
The second group: the solution to the incompatibility between sheep and mice is:
1, when choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with monkeys, dragons, pigs and rabbits on duty;
2. Newcomers who belong to rats find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to monkeys or dragons, and newlyweds who belong to sheep find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to pigs or rabbits;
3. Give birth to children in the Year of the Monkey or Rabbit;
4. Place ornaments or decorations of the monkey or rabbit zodiac at the bedside (cartoon animal characters, such as the Monkey King, can be selected).
The third group: the solution to the incompatibility between snake and tiger is:
1, when choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with chickens, cows, horses and dogs on duty;
2. Newcomers who belong to snakes look for groomsmen or bridesmaids who belong to chickens or cows, and newcomers who belong to tigers look for groomsmen or bridesmaids who belong to horses or dogs;
3. Give birth to children in the Year of the Horse or the Year of the Ox;
4. Place decorations or furniture belonging to horses or cows at the bedside.
The fourth sentence: the solution to the incompatibility between monkeys and pigs is:
1, when choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with rats, dragons, rabbits and sheep on duty;
2. Newcomers who belong to monkeys look for groomsmen or bridesmaids who belong to rats or dragons, and those who belong to pigs look for groomsmen or bridesmaids who belong to rabbits or sheep;
3. the Year of the Loong or the Year of the Sheep gives birth to children;
4. Place ornaments or decorations of the mouse or rabbit zodiac at the bedside (cartoon animal characters, such as Mickey Mouse, can be selected).
The fifth sentence: the solution to the incompatibility between dragon and rabbit is:
1, when choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with rats, monkeys, pigs and sheep on duty;
2. Newcomers who belong to dragons find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to monkeys or rats, and those who belong to rabbits find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to pigs or sheep;
3. Give birth to a child in the Year of Rat or Pig;
4. Place decorations or furniture in the Year of the Rat or the Year of the Pig at the bedside.
The sixth sentence: the solution to the discord between chicken and dog is:
1, when choosing a wedding date, choose an auspicious day with snakes, cows, tigers and horses on duty;
2. Newcomers who belong to chickens find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to snakes or cows, and newcomers who belong to dogs find a best man or maid of honor who belongs to tigers or horses;
3. year of the snake or the Year of the Horse gives birth to children;
4. Put the zodiac ornaments or decorations of snakes or horses on the bedside.
Wedding date:
China people have always attached importance to marriage as a lifelong event. The so-called "heaven and earth"
Then everything; Everything, and then there are men and women; There are men and women, and then there are couples; There are husband and wife, father and son, princes and ministers, and ups and downs; Go up and down, then be polite and do something! "It can be seen that the establishment of the relationship between husband and wife is the dominant foundation of all father-son theories and the courtesy of the monarch and the minister. No marriage, no children, no children, no offspring. Under the rule of "unfilial has three sons, but childless is the greatest", marriage is something that everyone must experience. However, in the past, the purpose of marriage was largely to "carry on the family line". With the further improvement of civilization in modern society, the basis of demands between husband and wife has shifted from external conditions and environment to the inner world of both men and women. As one of the "Six Gifts", the invitation date (wedding date) has also received more attention!
Regarding the date of invitation, there was a saying in ancient times to avoid the year, the moon and the day. Accordingly, there are auspicious years, Yue Ji, auspicious days and auspicious times. "White Tiger Yi Tong Marries a Daughter" says: "What is the spring of marriage? In spring, heaven and earth communicate, everything begins, and yin and yang also cross. " If there was no beginning of spring in that year, ordinary people would think that there was no spring, so men and women were not allowed to hand over, otherwise the handover would result in "no children and no daughters." So will this really be the result? Facts have proved that if the fate of husband and wife coincides and both men and women choose to combine with the auspicious day of God, then marriage will be happy and children will flourish!
The principle of choosing the wedding date is mainly based on the date of birth of the bride, and referring to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as the child is born, the woman marries the line." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce. On the contrary, if we follow this principle, it will be good luck. It is particularly emphasized that it is best for the woman to choose the wedding day, but at the same time, others (especially husbands, wives and grooms) should also pay attention to it, which is related to family harmony. Choosing such a day is related to the happiness, happiness and harmony of a lifetime. Why not do it?
Wedding day
The marriage law is explained in detail, and the jade calendar breaks the gold fu. Therefore, Chen Shu said, there is a choice: it is appropriate to be Ji Lugui's arch relative in the second day of junior high school, and the husband and the stars are in season, and the children and grandchildren are rooted. If you cooperate with the Three Wonders and it is expensive, then you are lucky to be qualified. The virtue of appropriate years, the virtue of pleasant days, and harmony will not. After the quarterly dividend, the four periods will continue auspicious days such as Jishi, Sanhe, Wuliuhe and Qilin Phoenix. Avoid bad days such as the moon, death, separation, punishment, rushing, breaking, harm, and the value of husband and wife in Zhou and Tang Dynasties. Down to red sand, wearing hemp, dying, walking clouds and other vulgar killings. , can be avoided.
The daughter who chose the day ordered her to marry Yiyue.
Zhengqi welcomes chickens and rabbits, tigers and monkeys 28, snakes and pigs 39, dragons and dogs 40, cattle and sheep 5 1, rats and horses 62. February and August are harmful to Weng and Gu, whose parents are thirty-nine women and whose husband is forty. Since May and November, the obedience of Ziwu Chen and ugliness are not complete. The first sentence "The sun is before the overcast, and the sun is after the auspicious day of the ecliptic", such as the year when a woman gives birth to a child, the birth of the child is Yang, the year before is ugly, and the ugliness is December. This is an old principle when1February is used. If there are many obstacles in1February and there is no auspicious day, you can only choose June as an auspicious day.
The forbidden year for men who choose the date.
It is not suitable to get married, such as a man who gets married the year after next, and avoid being a snake. There are no snakes, horses, sheep, monkeys, chickens, dogs, pigs, mice, ugliness, tigers, rabbits and tigers in Shen Nian. The first five periods of a year are also taboo for men to get married.
Daughters who choose dates are forbidden to get married.
It is not appropriate to be a nun. If a woman gets married next year, she should avoid being a rabbit. Avoid rabbits, tigers, cows, rats, pigs, dogs, chickens, monkeys, sheep, horses, snakes and dragons in the following years. How to start: Start with a screwdriver every time and count backwards until this year is too old. If there are any signs, marriage is forbidden and should not be married.
The daughter who chose the day lives on the wedding anniversary.
When a woman gets married, she commits the crime of being a beam or a star. Do not make a false order to make a woman's life like a child, that is, from the child to the base, flat, for the beam, to the unitary position, close, hook, and avoid unitary for two days. Ugliness is forbidden for two days, Yin for two days, Mao for two days, Chen for two days, Chen for two days, noon for two days, Mao for two days, Shen for two days, Unitary for two days, Garrison for two days and Hai for two days.
Three aspects to avoid when choosing a wedding day to send a female guest
Shen is a snake, chicken, cow, tiger, horse, dog, pig, rabbit, sheep and monkey. If a woman's life belongs to a dragon, that is, the year of birth, the number before birth has been calculated, five is unitary and nine is ugly, so avoid snakes, chickens and cows. "Shu Tong" said: In front of the traditional gate, there is 159, which will not be solved tomorrow. There is nothing wrong with getting married in this year when you choose a more useful date. It was originally the birth year of a woman's life, only 159 years old.
Get married and be a sedan chair.
Chen's daughter faces west and faces north at noon. Shen Youshu's daughter faces east, while Haizi's ugly daughter faces south. This year's back is suitable. Meet five ghosts, die, be in the north, or meet the western gods.
Get married on the right day.
Yin, female, between the north room and the west room, between the south landlord, sitting in the third direction. At noon, female, between the East House and the North House, between the Westinghouse and the South House, sits Jia. Shen Youshu's daughter, between the north room and the west room, and between the south landlords, sits the ugly daughter of Mei Haizi, with the east room in the north and the west room in the south, sitting Geng in armor.
Sing auspicious songs on another day.
You must add a child, and live in the shade. Chen Shoulong is in the position, and he is rescued at noon. The meridian is close to the emperor, and ugly is not kept. Qinglong and the heavenly punishment, Suzaku Golden Chamber and Tiande God, Baihu Yutang Heavenly Prison and Black, Xuanwu Master's life is * * *. For example, the Yin God Day, the son is a dragon, the ugliness is a hall of fame, the Yin is a heavenly punishment, the hair is a rosefinch, and Chen is a golden chamber. If you count the sea as a hook, the rest can be imitated. Qinglong, Tang Ming, Jingui, Tiande, Yutang and Siming are auspicious, and the rest are not available when they are fierce.
Choose a good wedding day
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Choose Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.
2 avoid 379. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Magnolia and Magnolia respectively.
"Paying attention to the public" is a traditional "ghost festival" and it is not appropriate to hold a happy event. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
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Avoid three evil spirits. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.
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The law of choosing the date of marriage. The principle of choosing the date of marriage is to take the date of birth of the bride as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.
Don't choose your parents' birthdays. In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.
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A real wedding day. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.
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Good days and auspicious days. Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather see the date chosen by the Yellow Calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.
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We should consider the reality of both sides' work and study. If one party is studying in his spare time, avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day" when good news comes.
We should consider the reality of both families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.
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Consider the physical condition of both parties. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion.
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Unify wedding dates and holidays. If the wedding date is unified with holidays, it may be wise. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people put on festive clothes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home. However, there are many new people who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.
12 definition of a good day. In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.