Every child will be hypnotized in the process of growing up, which implies growing up.
So, as parents, are we aware of the language in our mouth every day, as well as the infectious body language and behavior?
Words and deeds?
Is it the charm of language or the influence of example?
Case sharing:
A boy of 19 years old
It is said that mother is a fortune teller.
Kissed another poem as a joke, which came true one by one in his life.
"It was Children's Day, and I could have eaten a bowl of delicious Wonton Noodles. On the way home, I was caught in a heavy rain, and my mother and he hid under the bridge opening? The rain passed through my calf, my mother pushed the car hard, and I followed, and my clothes were all wet. I was so embarrassed ... I was depressed. What bad luck How can you eat wonton noodles when you are so wet in such fine weather? After listening to these words, my mother wiped the water on her face and turned to me and said, why is it so unlucky? How long has it not rained? Obviously, it is one of the four happy events in life after a long drought! Lucky, what's your hurry? Let's eat noodles to celebrate …
When I arrived at the noodle restaurant, my mother told the little boy the next three things. And lowered his voice, saying that mom is a fortune teller. You can encounter a rainstorm today, and you can touch the next three happy events!
I was young at that time, and I didn't know what my mother said …
It was not until 15 years later that I got a serious illness in a foreign land. I had a high fever of 4 1 degree. It was my first time in a foreign country, crying and homesick.
At this time, there is a girl who works together. She took care of me at the risk of infection, took me to see a doctor and gave me medicine. At that time, I vaguely felt that my mother's prediction had come true! I met an old friend in another country … I also made my third wedding night … when I knew that I was a father, I also got the admission notice from Peking University. It was so cool when my mother was about to become the first place!
It took me 18 years from the rainstorm in bridge opening to the four happy events in life, which is neither fast nor slow …
Now I feel more and more that my mother is right. What's the hurry? Life is never a result, but a process ... "
The case is shared here.
Do you have anything to say? What is the meaning of education?
The suggestion of elimination will make children feel inferior and retreat, while the positive suggestion will drive children to be confident and firm …
Good feng shui for raising children is also the way for parents to practice. Thank the children for their choice … believe in their life force … everything is the best arrangement!