Is the first goddess of the Republic of China?
Or a beautiful woman with both talents and looks?
Or a talented poetess, designer or architect?
Everyone has a different definition of the image of forest, but it is undeniable that people always love to deify forest.
Just because she is the most famous talented woman in the Republic of China, she has both talents and looks, a career she loves and a perfect family.
Biography of Lin recorded the details of Lin's life from love, family, marriage to career.
It can be seen from the book that she can get so many praises from people, not only because of her beauty and talent, but also because she knows how to stick to her inner principles and responsibilities.
So, let's walk into the real forest together today.
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Like is presumptuous, love is restrained.
This "accident" of Xu Zhimo shows his love for Lin.
Of course, Lin also wrote a song "Still", which implied her heart from beginning to end:
Lin never gave a positive answer to Xu Zhimo's ardent pursuit. Until I learned about her life background, she couldn't find the reason.
A person's view of marriage is hidden in the family where she came from, which is more suitable for Lin.
Lin's mother was born in a merchant family.
She was left out in the cold, neither knowing piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, nor being good at housework.
She can't get the favor of her father or her mother-in-law.
So Father Lin Changmin married a younger and more beautiful "Third Lady".
Three husbands gave birth to several siblings for him, and they were more favored by their fathers.
Since then, my mother Lin has been living all day.
Every time there are interesting and novel objects, my father will bring them back to my brothers and sisters.
At that time, she and her mother lived in the backyard.
Laughter in the front yard, alternating with mother's complaints and sobs, left a painful memory for her childhood.
She loves and hates her parents, hates her father's indifference to her mother, and hates her mother for pushing her father further and further in her complaints.
Therefore, she knows better than anyone what a successful marriage means to a woman.
When 16-year-old Lin faced Xu Zhimo's earnest pursuit, she was calm and didn't want to see Zhang Youyi repeat her mother's mistakes because of her own impulse.
Because you know, you are kind.
Lin understands Zhang Youyi's pain, so she has been very kind to her.
Loving someone may be beyond our control, but whether we want to be with that person depends on ourselves.
Like is presumptuous, love is restrained.
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Home is a gentle hometown and a safe haven.
This is the most classic dialogue between Lin and Liang Sicheng.
After rejecting Xu Zhimo, Lin turned to marry Liang Sicheng, who had been in love for five years.
After that, they spent the rest of their lives together in the long years.
A person who sticks to his inner principles in love knows more about the importance of responsibility in the family.
Lin is such a person.
During her study abroad, her father died unexpectedly. As the eldest daughter, she shouldered the responsibility of supporting her family in grief.
During that time, she became silent and devoted herself to her studies.
Because she knew that she was no longer the eldest miss of the Lins.
When my father is away, my younger brother and sister and two wives who are unable to support their families need her to take care of them.
After returning from studying abroad, she took on the responsibility of supporting her family, teaching and supporting her family while designing and creating.
The two identities of "talented woman" and "eldest daughter" are perfectly integrated.
After their marriage to Liang Sicheng, the country was in turmoil, and their wandering days never stopped.
Once, her husband was seriously ill. She not only undertakes all the housework, but also teaches every day to support her family.
After getting the class fee, she walked into the shop and saw a favorite dyed cloth. When she paid, she hesitated.
Think of a seriously ill husband, a mother who always has a headache, and a growing brother. ...
She finally chose to buy a tape measure to make her husband happy, a hat for her mother and shoes for her brother.
A strong sense of family responsibility always prompted her to put her position behind her family, and also made her married life happy for decades.
Home is not only a gentle hometown, but also a safe haven for the whole family.
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Only love can last.
After the founding of New China, many architectural relics are in danger of being demolished. At a party, she unafraid to accuse the deputy mayor in charge of Beijing urban construction.
Lin has not only a home in his heart, but also a country. She regards the development of China architecture as her mission.
Many people know that Liang Sicheng is a famous architect, but few people know that, in fact, his leading figure in this field is his wife Lin.
Moreover, Lin loves architecture as much as Liang Sicheng.
During her study abroad, Lin, who originally planned to apply to the Department of Architecture of the University of Pennsylvania, was rejected because she did not recruit girls.
But even so, she didn't give up. She studied in the Department of Fine Arts of the University of Pennsylvania and took the main courses of the Department of Architecture.
Later, in order to write the book "Architectural History of China", they visited many famous buildings all over the country.
At that time, the traffic was not as convenient as it is now, and the inspection process was extremely difficult.
Although Lin seems weak, she can climb any beam that Liang Sicheng climbed, and her professionalism can be seen.
Even when she was seriously ill, according to her daughter Liang Zaibing memories:
"As a woman, my mother has a strong sense of social responsibility.
She was really ill at that time, but in bed, she thought about how to build China after the Anti-Japanese War, and even thought about low-rent housing. "
In the field of literature, Lin has a gentle talent, but in the field of architecture, she has a strong will like a woman.
This kind of forest makes her charm not only in appearance, talent and achievement. ...
She is a legendary woman, with flesh and blood and true temperament.
A person's success in his career is directly proportional to his efforts.
Treat what you want to do, only love is worth a long time.
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Write it at the end
For Lin, even though life has brought her a great blow, she still bears all the responsibilities with her weak body.
Treat Xu Zhimo's feelings like this, treat his family background, even his own career, especially the development of the country.
I think Lin has such great charm, not only because of her talent and beauty, but also because of her strong sense of family responsibility and social mission.
Once a person undertakes the responsibility of going home to serve the country, her life is doomed to be extraordinary.