Parents need to communicate with teachers more to help their children define their goals and choose 1~3 target schools to prepare for school selection.
If parents are going to choose a private school that can be reached by advanced placement, parents need to be very clear about the school's enrollment policy. Ask parents who have successfully entered higher education in advance, for example, what aspect of this school attaches importance to cultivating students? What qualities does this school pay more attention to when enrolling students? When to register, when to interview, written test, placement test, etc. These are all things that parents need to figure out in advance, and only when they know the rules can they be targeted.
After all the "routines" are clarified, parents need to work with teachers to help their children further their studies without being too nervous. After all, the real learning ability and learning state of the children interested in the school. Parents can help their children practice their speaking skills, such as giving a speech on a topic for 3-5 minutes every day and improvising on a topic. The choice of topics can be the topics of previous school interviews. After the child speaks impromptu, parents need to give guidance to let the child practice again to increase the impression. Regarding learning, parents need to pay attention to cultivating their children's good study habits. Their academic performance may not improve in a short time, but good study habits can benefit them for life. Parents can help their children develop good reading habits, reading in Chinese and English in turn, and telling a short story every day, which is conducive to future composition writing.
If parents are going to choose a public school, they will wait for the partition.
Junior high school is only the first step for children to go to school. If parents attach great importance to it, then entering a good junior high school means a great chance to enter a good high school, which means a great chance to enter a good university. But parents don't have to be nervous if their children don't go to their favorite school. Everyone is an ordinary person, and children should not bear such great pressure. If it is grass, be a healthy and happy grass. If it is a towering tree, try to grow up and provide shade for others. Step by step, the child will eventually grow into an independent person, an upright person and a kind person.
Originally, it should not be a problem. Nine-year compulsory education is a national law. In theory, every child should receive a fair and just education, but look at the present situation, it is not the case at all. The gap between schools is obvious. Which parent doesn't want their children to go to a good school? At the beginning of junior high school, parents just helped to contact this school and that school, and then let their children take the exam. As long as it is a prestigious school and a good class, it is good to let the children enter. Are there any other options?
First, clarify the family situation
First of all, we need to find out the household registration and household registration of ourselves and our children, which schools are within the scope of microcomputer allocation, and determine whether children are suitable for these schools; Secondly, if you need to choose a school, consider whether it is local or foreign, public or private, day or accommodation; The real problem is that if you choose to choose a school in a different place, the children will definitely stay, and the children and parents will be separated and both sides can accept it; If you choose a private school, the cost will not be very low as far as Changsha is concerned. Parents need to consider their financial strength and whether they can accept the three-year fee. This can rule out choosing some schools at the same time.
Second, clarify the child's own conditions.
After the above considerations, I believe that parents and children already have certain ideas. Secondly, parents and children need to carefully and comprehensively consider their children's situation: what level their children's current achievements are, what level they can achieve through hard work, and through these, they can determine which schools their children are suitable for, except those that they can't enter; Determine the advantages and disadvantages of the child, whether it is a child with sufficient willpower, so as to determine whether the child is suitable for accommodation; Finally, we need to ask our children their own wishes, that is, which school they want to go to, whether they want to stay or go to school. After all, this figure is for children to learn. We should respect children's choices and avoid complaints and regrets in the future. At this time, you can rule out choosing some schools.
Third, clarify the situation of the school.
After two rounds of consideration and selection. Parents and children should probably sum up several schools suitable for children. The remaining thing is to choose a school with good comprehensive development, good school spirit and good learning atmosphere, which requires parents and children to understand and compare these schools through various channels. You can get relevant information by asking the parents of the children in this school, or through QQ group, community and information at the beginning of junior high school, so that some schools are removed, and finally the schools that children need to work hard to get into are left.
Bee's further education has become a top priority for the whole family. When the whole family mentioned which school Bee was going to attend, they were very anxious. Grandma prayed anxiously every day. From March to May, the long and marathon school selection torment again and again made the whole family live in anxiety. The dicing primary school where the household registration is located was rejected at the first time: this is a school where the children of rural relocated households and migrant workers account for the vast majority. Parents either have nothing to do all day playing cards and gambling, or they are too tired to take care of their children. After a few years, the graduates of this school can only be packed to the worst middle school in Haidian at one time. I would rather resign and transfer my hukou back to my hometown than let bees go to this school.
On May 1 1, my classmates called me and said that Yu X School had started to register. I checked the phone from the internet and called. People politely say it hasn't started yet. I asked when I started to recruit off-film, and I replied that I didn't recruit at all. I was in a hurry and said that I had already signed up off-film. The other party immediately said coldly, who do you listen to? I'm speechless. I hung up the phone and felt desperate. I squatted in the small garden of the unit, tears streaming down my face.
I looked for a lot of people at random and called all the people I know who are close to this school and those who are not. As a result, news came from classmates the next day, and she found someone to help us sign up. It turns out that this school does not accept external registration, but only people recommended by teachers in the school. I was so happy that I told my husband the good news at once. My husband is also very happy.
May 22 is the day of the exam, and the little bee is still burning. We went to school early, and 500 people got 100. There are so many people that there is no parking space. I took the little bee to the examination room. Looking at the crowded, childlike faces, I suddenly felt sad at the thought that the feverish little bee had to go through such a cruel life choice. Watching the little bee enter the examination room, I hid behind the basketball stand in the school playground and burst into tears. I cried and said that I was so incompetent that my children were always being interviewed.
After an exam, the bees came out easily. I forgot to ask, so I took him to the music classroom to take the exam again. I heard it was singing and solfeggio. I was peeking outside, and the little bee was chatting with the teacher.
The next step is waiting. It is said that May 25th is the peak of notification. After the 26th, you can be sure to be admitted. By the 26th, I almost passed with trepidation. Wuyi branch is still taking exams on the morning of 26th, and it is our last guaranteed school. Little bee wore new clothes to take the exam. It is said that 70 children in their school have signed up, and all the children in the international class have signed up, which may be based on this school as the only source. The competition is fierce anyway.
Normal University sent us a notice asking us to take our children to an interview on the afternoon of 27th. The recruiting teacher is very nice and likes bees very much. This is the fifth school we interviewed, and Little Bee got a high score.
However, Normal University was affiliated to xx Township Central School two years ago, and the brand has just been changed. The quality is better than X village primary school, but it is still not our most satisfactory school. To tell the truth, we never dare to think about the best schools in Beijing. If we have money, we can't get in. If we go in, the children will feel uncomfortable, just like lambs mixed with camels.
On May 28th, Yu X School finally called! Inform us that Little Bee has passed the examination, and let us pay 3W sponsorship fee to the Education Commission tomorrow! I have never been so grateful for a payment notice. I almost hung up with tears of gratitude. The whole family immediately ran out to have a big meal to celebrate.
Bee's best friend failed the May Day exam. This time, more than 70 children signed up, and finally 23 were admitted. It seems that the competition is fierce. The bee's good friend's family began to be anxious like ants on hot bricks, looking for the principal all night.
Several families are happy and several families are sad. In this three-month school selection activity, we achieved a complete victory: Bee interviewed six schools, and they all passed the independent examination. However, the price we paid was tragic: Little Bee accepted the devil's interview training and made dozens of sets of interview questions. If it is not an examination machine, what is it?
Later, I learned that there were more than 500 children enrolled in this interview exam at Yu X School, and only 74 were admitted. I remember an article I read last time, saying that choosing a school is all about testing parents' connections and background, and it has little to do with children. Don't blame the children for not recording it. Children are all good children, but their parents have different backgrounds. I think so. This is a desperate society.
The transition from primary school to junior high school is an important turning point for children's learning. Whether the preparation for further studies is sufficient directly affects the children's junior high school study and the direction of the senior high school entrance examination in the next three years. When preparing to continue their studies with their children in 2020, parents need to know the school choice:
1. Why choose a school? In order to strive for better educational resources. Teachers, teaching, management, enrollment rate and other aspects of a good school are outstanding. Choosing a school means choosing the best among the best. The competition for further study is fierce. Choosing a good junior high school suitable for children can help children go to a better high school.
2. How to prepare for choosing a school? (1) Understanding Nanning's enrollment policy In 20 19 years, Nanning's policy of upgrading primary schools to junior high schools has undergone major reforms. The most important thing is that when the number of applicants in private schools exceeds the enrollment plan, students can only be selected by consulting student quality reports, interviewing or randomly allocating places by computer, and it is emphasized that unified written examinations cannot be organized in any form during enrollment. Therefore, parents should understand the local enrollment policies and processes, the enrollment policies and processes of target schools, and even understand the policies thoroughly. Only by mastering the rules in time can they improvise and choose the ideal school.
(2) Establish the target school according to the children's reality. Parents should master their children's actual situation and understand their learning ability, comprehensive quality, ability and specialty. Then choose the target school as soon as possible according to the actual situation of the child. If you are not sure in the early stage, you can have several alternative plans, and then rule them out one by one according to your child's ability and intention in the later stage, leaving one or two best plans. The establishment of target schools should take children's actual ability as the main reference, and generally there should be guaranteed target schools and sprint target schools.
(3) Prepare for the exam as soon as possible! After Nanning primary school to junior high school private enrollment is exempted from the test, the method of "winning or losing by one test" is no longer feasible. Don't wait for the last shot! Private enrollment can only be carried out by consulting students' quality report, interview or computer allocation. A, there is nothing to say about computer distribution. Good luck. The emphasis here is on student quality report and interview. B, students' quality report, is a manual to record students' learning at all stages of primary school and the results of mid-term and final exams. Although the enrollment of schools will not start from grade one or two, most schools will focus on the grades of students in grades four, five and six. Therefore, students in grades four, five and six should perform well in each midterm and final exam to accumulate advantages for further study! C. Interview is a major reform of private enrollment in Nanning this year. The forms and contents of interviews in different schools are different, but they all assess students' comprehensive quality and ability, which requires students not only to have solid subject knowledge, but also to have excellent comprehensive abilities such as psychological quality, reaction ability, expression ability, civilization and etiquette, and these qualities and abilities need to be accumulated bit by bit in peacetime. Few people go on stage to answer questions without training. Therefore, in the preparation stage, parents should pay attention to this aspect of training and training in daily counseling.
3. What should I look at when choosing a school? (1) The quality of school students is the decisive factor of a school's strength. An excellent school brings children not only a good learning atmosphere, but also self-cultivation and knowledge improvement.
(2) The result of the senior high school entrance examination is a major criterion for choosing a school. By referring to the number of freshmen enrolled in each school and the enrollment rate of senior high school entrance examination, we can scientifically grasp the teaching quality of this school. For example, a school enrolled 500 students in 20 17, and more than 400 students were enrolled in key high schools in 20 19. You can study in such a school. If you are not lazy, getting into a good high school is basically not a problem.
(3) The enrollment rate refers to the number of students enrolled and the admission rate in the first two years of the school. Then, according to the actual ability of the child, we can see at which stage the child's ability is, and then the success rate of choosing a school will be higher.
(4) Whether to stay or not depends on your actual situation, mainly on the distance between home and school.
(5) Whether there are junior high schools and senior high schools in our school is of high quality, and whether our school has been promoted from junior high schools to senior high schools is also a test of students' abilities and intentions.
(6) The comprehensive strength of the school is hearsay, so it is better to experience it personally. If the target school is determined, even for the children's future, parents can go to the field to find out. It's better to take children with you, so that children can learn more about the school and yearn for it, and increase their learning motivation.
4. Misunderstanding of school choice
(1) It's a good thing that non-key schools don't consider going to key schools, but the number of applicants in key schools is very large. It is understood that a popular private middle school in Nanning enrolled 600 students this year, but nearly 10,000 people signed up. The competition can be imagined. Moreover, the overall comprehensive strength of popular schools is high, and simply pursuing school fame may not really suit your children. If you are paranoid about choosing a prestigious school, you may miss the opportunity of other good schools.
(2) Going to school is only in the sixth grade. Generally, students' quality reports are concentrated in grades 456, so they should have a sense of preparation for further studies. In addition, choosing a school is getting earlier and earlier. If the sixth grade begins to prepare for further studies, most children obviously can't cope with the PK of choosing a school at this time, so they can only watch other children go ashore first.
(3) It is important to have excessive anxiety, dampen children's self-confidence and attach importance to further studies, but it is even more undesirable to be nervous all day. The competition for further education is fierce, and the pressure on children is even greater. Occasionally, parents don't have to worry, let alone beat their children. They should be good at guiding and creating a good preparation environment for children. Have a reasonable estimate of children, don't expect too much. In addition, prepare as early as possible, have more time to adjust and avoid anxiety.
Now that all the sixth-grade primary school graduates have graduated, parents are faced with the problem of choosing schools for their children.
How should parents choose schools for their children?
First of all, schools should be divided into private schools and public schools, because their enrollment methods are generally different. For public schools, it is generally dicing enrollment. The enrollment scope of which school your community belongs to can basically be found in the enrollment publicity materials of each school. If parents want their children to go to the school where the community is located, they just need to report at the specified time. Parents need to pay attention to preparing registration materials in advance.
For private schools, most of them enroll students through exams. This requires parents to make preparations very early-do their children's grades well, which is an important condition for entering private schools. Especially before the middle school entrance examination, let the children do more sets of questions to improve their grades.
But now some provinces or cities require private schools to recruit students by lottery. In this case, it's hard to say whether children can go to private schools. In this case, parents should consider what to do next if their children enroll in private schools by lottery. Parents need to plan ahead by themselves.
The second is to consider some situations of children. If private schools have to stay, can children adapt? Children can keep up with learning progress, etc. These situations require parents to prepare in advance.
Children's choice of school is related to learning. As parents, we must consider everything. Are you ready for school for your children?
In the face of choosing a school, a family of five people don't agree to choose a school that is too picky! Considering that the child is too far away from home, still young, and at the same time facing adolescence, middle school is rebellious. Moreover, the school he chose was only junior high school, and he had to choose high school after graduating from junior high school. It's really tangled. He is willing to discuss with his children. He is close to home, so he gave up choosing a school and went to a nearby public middle school!
Junior high school is a turning point in children's learning. If you can choose a better school, you can give your children a good learning environment and a good learning atmosphere, so that children can avoid detours. So what is a better school? First of all, schools should have good discipline, because discipline is the basis of learning. That depends on how the headmaster manages it. In other words, strong leaders have no weak soldiers, which is the reason. Secondly, the scale of the school should be larger, so that the hardware of the school can keep up and provide great convenience for teachers' teaching and children's learning. And teachers should be strong, because the quality of teachers determines the children's grades (except in a few cases). So, if you can choose a school for your children, that would be great.
We often hear that children should not lose at the starting line, so what kind of junior high school to choose for their children first has become a problem that parents must consider.
First, the economic base determines the superstructure, and the economy determines the consciousness.
On the premise of recognizing your own economic conditions, consider choosing public schools or private schools, day schools or boarding schools. Students in public schools pay relatively low fees, while day students spend relatively little during their study. Private schools or boarding schools basically implement a militarized management model, which helps children develop good habits of life and study. However, if you go to school, parents can carefully grasp the children's learning dynamics and grasp the details of their learning and growth.
In addition, children's opinions should be considered. After all, our parents can't help their children with their studies, but we can provide generous conditions and treatment. Books are for children to read by themselves.
After the implementation of balanced education, the distribution of educational resources is gradually balanced, so it is very important to understand the enrollment policy of junior high school students, which is also an external factor.
In rural towns, we basically adhere to the principle of "admission to the nearest school without examination according to the place of residence". In any case, a school suitable for children is the best school. In cities and towns, educational resources are basically allocated according to the principle of … "Admission to the nearest school without examination".
Third, know yourself and yourself.
Before choosing a school, we should recognize our own situation and our children. If the situation of children is taken into account, not only will a lot of school selection fees be paid, but the economic burden of families will inevitably increase. At the same time, we should also use our personal connections and relatives to help and support us in choosing a school.
Nine-year compulsory education is a very important stage. Parents must know their children's comprehensive level in primary education and the situation of various subjects, and choose schools with a little bias appropriately, so as to facilitate their all-round development and lay a solid foundation for receiving high school education in the future.
Fourth, general standards.
What is advocated now is quality education and balanced education. And how to measure the teaching quality of this school, there are other standards besides the standards of cultural courses. Therefore, it is necessary to make clear the school selection criteria as far as possible.
1, campus culture. The school spirit and style of study are intangible, but they are also tangible. To this end, we can go to school to observe the performance of students when they meet with teachers and principals, and whether they are integrated with the current cultural atmosphere of education management. We can also ask students who have graduated.
2. The head of the family-the headmaster.
3. Take a look at the school management model.
We can go to the school to see the overall layout of the school. Look at the classrooms, administrative offices, canteens, apartments, playgrounds and children's activity rooms in the school. Pay more attention to details, such as classroom layout, dormitory layout, whether children's bedding is neatly stacked and whether the ground is clean. You can also go to the toilet, which can best reflect the health status of a school.
Teachers' strength is directly related to students' grades, and different teaching methods have different effects. We should train students to be adults instead of working like machines. Children should be taught how to learn, what methods to learn independently, and give full play to students' initiative and main role.
Some schools have balanced classes, some schools have key classes and sub-key classes, and the best class is also called Pearl Class. In any case, you have to find out the general standards of these classes, and then you can simply sit in the right position according to your child's situation in order to determine your own direction of efforts.
6. Teaching achievements and development potential
At present, many private schools have achieved quite beautiful results in the junior high school level examination, which is not comparable to that of ordinary public schools, and their publicity efforts are also quite strong, which has attracted the attention of parents to varying degrees. As parents, we should identify them and identify false phenomena.
(1) We can ask their students which schools are their future high schools.
(2) What schools did the students from the bottom 1/5 attend in the end?
(3) Tracking the students who graduated from our school and went out to study in high school, which universities they were admitted to, and how many people were admitted to key undergraduate courses.
(4) How did these students who were admitted to famous or key universities do when they entered these private schools? At what level?
Verb (short for verb) internal policy.
In short, we should make choices in many aspects, so as to help children develop healthily and not lose at the starting line of life.