Most relationships in student days don't need "bread", as long as you like each other or feel that each other looks in line with your own aesthetic standards. However, after entering the society, love is mixed with many material factors. It is necessary to consider whether the other party has a stable job, whether to buy a house or a car, whether it is motivated enough, and so on. , and never just rely on the initial vision.
One of my college roommates is the most vivid example. He and his girlfriend met in junior year, fell in love at first sight, and soon established a love relationship. The relationship between them remained very good until they graduated from college.
The girl's family is from Zhengzhou, and her parents are both employees, while my roommate's parents are ordinary part-time workers with low income, and there is also a younger brother who is studying in high school. When falling in love in college, the girl's parents didn't show much opposition, but after graduation, they bluntly hoped that their daughter would end this relationship.
Girls have been reluctant to share a room because they like me as a roommate, but I hope boys can buy a house in Zhengzhou (the house is down payment, more than 500 thousand). In fact, some people may take this request for granted, but it is still very difficult for my roommate. Two people finally broke up for a series of reasons. When they broke up, they didn't make any noise and gave each other heartfelt good wishes.
It is a pity that such a beautiful love has fallen to this point, but the love of "the door is not right" is doomed to be blessed, and it has always been. I feel the same way about it. "It will be very sad to meet someone you like at a helpless age."
College and girlfriend fell in love for nearly three years, and finally broke up because of work and family. I hate people who say, "If you love enough, nothing will be an obstacle". Because the love after work itself contains a kind of "Excellence" that you long for, and this kind of "Excellence" includes material, appearance, family background, work and many other components.
Ninety-nine percent of people don't want to find someone much worse than themselves, and most of them are evenly matched. When we were students, our vision was limited and our love was pure. But after entering the society, temptations emerge one after another, and that kind of pure love is not worth mentioning in front of temptation.
In a word, good and bad are all part of our life. Whether it's love or work, as long as you have a clear conscience.