Because superficial things come together and feelings are unreliable. You can't just entrust your life without going through some storms, otherwise it will be bad for you and him. There is a saying that "the road is long, and Xiu Yuan knows the horsepower, and people will see it for a long time." Only after experiencing some storms can we know each other, what they need and whether they need you. So it's better to be conservative, not too impulsive, just keep the current relationship, and don't go any further to avoid unnecessary harm.
Disturbed.
Your feelings will make you uneasy, whether you take a step forward or a step back. You are afraid that your feelings will fade and your future will be bad, so keep the status quo. When we are together, we also need to consider the issue of family harmony, including both sides, elders and the next generation.
Seeking leisure is not idle.
You originally wanted to have romantic and carefree love, but you are eager to pursue it, which is the reason that makes you upset and sad.
Desire and fame.
Impulse and obsession are often the reasons for blindness in love, but it is often difficult for people who have moved their hearts to let go.
Old-fashioned and safe.
Emphasize the status quo again.
Personally, reason is very important, and impulse is the devil.