Lyric prose (1) I can't use the word wonderful in my life, but I want to record it and keep it in a folder, and I am willing to communicate with you. Everyone's life footprint is different and has its own characteristics, but everyone will encounter surprises, wanderings, melancholy, loss and choices in the journey of life. The only difference is the composition of these situations.
My earliest memory is that one day, my mother took me to the barber shop for a haircut. I showed reluctance. My mother held me down and I kept breaking free. The barber spent a long time cutting my hair. I was only about three years old. When I was a child, my mother worked in a company and had to deal with the affairs of a large family, so she had little time to look after us. When I was very young, I spent most of my time with my grandmother, who loved me very much. If there is anything delicious, she keeps it for me and takes it out for me when I go home alone. My mother beat me if I didn't listen, so I ran after my grandmother. At this time, grandma will stand up to help me without principle, and I will be spared the pain of flesh and blood.
What impressed me most in my childhood was enjoying the cool outdoors in summer. When the summer night comes, we children lie on an old bamboo bed together, listening to adults chatting, watching the stars in the sky, and sometimes counting stupidly. Grandma will tell us the story of Cowherd and Weaver Girl. I always thought I was happy at that time. When I was older, I ran out to play with my neighbors, played by the pond, ran on the ridge of the field, played games in the alley and so on. So at that time, children were basically free-range, and every time I ate, adults would come to us to go home. I think this is also very good. Unlike today's children, if they can talk, they have to study, and if they can walk, they have to be sent to kindergartens and interest classes, whether they like it or not. My memoir is divided into four parts, namely, childhood memories, the life of educated youth students and my work experience. Childhood is also worth remembering. I remember that the lucky money that adults gave us at that time was 5 1 yuan, and some of them were given to 20 yuan. Our family is a big family, which adds up to 4 to 5 yuan. I seldom melt it, so I put the brand-new lucky money in the book to avoid wrinkling. When school starts, I will take it out to pay the tuition, and the rest will continue to be hidden in the book. There are many delicious foods during the Spring Festival. Things, the most eaten are sweet potato chips and peanuts. Dragon Boat Festival is also what we children expect. Every time after the Spring Festival, we all look forward to the arrival of the Dragon Boat Festival, because the Dragon Boat Festival in our hometown is the most distinctive. We don't wrap brown seeds, but we eat delicious burritos. I am good at catching dragonflies by the pond. I have to catch at least forty or fifty dragonflies a day. Every day, I reap fruitful results. The urchin often has a smile on his face.
When I was a student, my favorite was sports. Volleyball and basketball have always been with me, and I joined the volleyball team in junior high school. I have been depressed, frustrated and hesitant during my work. To tell the truth, sometimes I feel very sad and have the heart to drill into the earth's crust and jump into the sea. There was also a brief beauty, but I didn't grasp it well and said I didn't regret it at all. It must be fake. Now it's all over. Retire at home, write some words for recreation, and write some memories of the past years first. I don't have much personal experience to share with you. Here I want to tell you that the previous setbacks may become your wealth in the future; Previous experience may be used in the future. Repetition, overlap, and perhaps a part of life. Well, I won't waste everyone's time here. If you have free time, please pay attention to my memories.
Lyric Prose (2) In life, it is difficult to find two people who are completely compatible. Even a very loving couple, even a loving mother and son, there are always some things and practices that the other party can't accept. One party loves the other deeply. Love is shallow, or life is noisy, or it takes a long time to drift away.
But in any case, it is always painful to endure, and it is always more difficult to expect to change each other. As underage children, parents may have the ability and responsibility to change and guide, but as two adults, don't expect anyone to change who, especially between husband and wife.
Different people, different individuals and different families are bound to form different personalities and habits. When we come together, we don't endure, but accept.
In life, coming together is fate, whether it is working, studying or living together, it is fate. Therefore, regardless of their own situation, we must first understand how to accept this fate psychologically, and then accept it with an inclusive attitude. Tolerance means not simply suppressing yourself and accommodating each other, but knowing how to understand each other's actions from another angle, let yourself feel relieved and let both sides live in peace.
I've seen two such people. No matter what they do, one person is quick but careless. A person likes to fool around, but whatever he does, he tries to be perfect. When two people first get together, of course, they dislike each other and are extremely uncomfortable. But in fact, everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. If one of them wants to change the other and doesn't like the other, it's a constant quarrel; If one party simply tolerates his dissatisfaction and discomfort out of emotion, life is always not so happy.
Accepting with an open mind is the best way to deal with it. Don't dwell on each other's shortcomings, and focus more on yourself. Isn't there a word called "complementarity"? To know how to better match your strengths and weaknesses, this feeling is not pain, but happiness. It is better to change yourself than to expect to change others. The most harmonious relationship between people is not to endure, but to accept.
Lyric prose just after New Year's Day (3). The cold March 9 weather has arrived. A few days ago, the smog was blown away by a snow, and the influenza virus was well controlled. People in a hurry in the street are rushing for their own lives, and the bus station is crowded with people waiting for work. The morning sunshine is all over the earth, and the cold wind is blowing, which is refreshing and a brand-new day has begun.
After New Year's Day, all departments are making year-end summaries and making new plans at the beginning of the year. With the deepening of business, X Bureau is carrying out personnel reform and job rotation. It is said that the revolutionary ranks need a new blood night. That was not the case. The Personnel Section of X Bureau is drafting a notice on the election of cadres at the metre level.
Chaochao is a veteran in 2009. According to the examination placement of the civil affairs department, he was assigned to the official motorcade of the X Bureau, responsible for the logistics work of the organs, such as eating, drinking and scattering. He is also very serious about his work. Being a soldier for four years, after all, his education has influenced Chaochao's life. Won't it fade when he retires? This is a super motto.
The campaign plan is different from previous years. Primary registration, written examination, interview and other organizational links are carried out step by step. The preliminary test was held in the auditorium, and the deputy director in charge of personnel made a speech. In short, it is open, fair, just and merit-based admission. The exam is about real talent, learning, level and material. The level of speech is just the same as that of the national civil service examination. Everything has to be tested for a long time.
* * * There are 7 positions for department-level cadres, and the number of applicants exceeds 100. There are many young people who want to make progress, most of whom are undergraduates. The exam is only one day, and there are 2 1 person on the preliminary list. After all, it is much more convenient, fast, fast and fair to change the answer sheet now.
In the interview stage, in order to select talents in an open, fair, just and merit-based manner, the Party Committee of the Bureau decided to invite the leaders of the Organization Department and the Discipline Inspection and Supervision Department to be interview experts.
The meeting was held in the conference room on the first floor. All the staff conducted a democratic test to evaluate the interviewer. After the meeting, the conference room next to the venue was full of people who were looking forward to entering the interview range. Some people are still reading. This is called getting cold feet. Is it too soon?
In the order of drawing lots, the personnel section chief entered the interview room in turn. Five people, including the deputy director of the Organization Department, the deputy director of the Supervision Bureau of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, the chief of personnel and the director in charge, sat in the conference room as the interview team, and the deputy director of the Organization Department served as the interview team leader. The scene was tense and serious. The meeting was presided over by the director of the office. There are three pieces of paper on the desk, namely A, B and C, which are selected by the interviewer. The interview time should not exceed 10.
In the other room, some people are happy and some people are worried? There are seven red flowers and many green leaves. Whose flowers will fall? Uneasy mood ...
After a fierce interview, a list of seven people was produced. In the eyes of the masses, Chaochao is definitely a green leaf, because there are too many undergraduates, most of whom have just graduated for two or three years. But it's on the publicity list.
After the interview of all personnel, the deputy director of the organization will arrange the collective resolution of the Standing Committee of the unit to carry out the publicity stage before taking office.
In the evening, the interview team had a group dinner, and each person received the evaluation fee of the evaluation team 1 0,000 yuan. During the period, the leaders of the organization department went to the toilet and were accompanied by the personnel section chief. During the period, the minister handed four 5,000-yuan shopping cards to the personnel chief and whispered for a while.
After dinner, the personnel section chief saw me off, shook hands and sent the card to the individual, shook hands and laughed, said thank you, tacitly.
In the past, subordinates always visited their superiors. Is the leader of the superior department stupid?
It turned out that the vice minister arranged personnel to publicize, and there were relatives on the list, fearing that others would tell lies, and took money to block others' mouths.
The short message of the personnel section chief also came. You paid 2000 yuan in the self-service telephone on X and X, and laughed after reading it. Quickly delete messages.
Drink a little wine every day and get drunk. When I get home at night, there is a knock at the door, which is more than a visit with golden wine. Uncle, what happened? Not a big problem? After that, I put the golden wine under the table and put the envelope in the drawer … ..
It was publicized for three days and posted at the elevator door when I got off work on Friday. Someone complained, and so on. The crowd shook their heads after reading it. The signature is Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and it ends on Monday. Everyone is very happy. Is it useful for the masses to complain? All this is arranged.
A year later, the chief of personnel was promoted to deputy director of the unit, and he was transferred to the chief of personnel. He sits at his desk and signs papers every day. His little life is very beautiful.
After the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, Chaochao's uncle was finally reported to be imprisoned for his intervention.
New year's rotation began, and the new director adjusted his post. Chaochao finally moved out of the section chief's single room and was adjusted to metre treatment. The desk moved to a big house, and the staff concentrated on office, which was also very low-key.
Is it true that only officials have the right to compete for posts? Power is a double-edged sword, and if you are not careful, you will commit suicide ... only the eyes of the masses are discerning. People who want to make progress, don't forget your initiative, remember your mission, and the last chance is to favor those who are prepared. Are you ready?
Lyric Prose (4) On the day of winter solstice, when I got up early in the morning, my mother-in-law set out to buy food and sell meat, and prepared to pack jiaozi at noon. I interjected: "If you go to work today, don't hire jiaozi. It is troublesome and hard for you to package yourself. " Mother-in-law stressed: "Today's winter solstice, eating jiaozi does not freeze your ears, and you must eat melon stuffing, eat melon and eat melon, and it is spontaneous." After that, my mother-in-law added: "The old saying is right." My husband and I smiled at each other, but seeing my mother-in-law's persistence and piety, we couldn't say anything more. We just told her husband that we must go home for dinner at noon, and we should not let her mother-in-law be disappointed with the winter solstice in jiaozi.
My family has never been a "foreign festival". I don't pay attention to Valentine's Day, Christmas Day and April Fool's Day. My husband doesn't like it, and neither does my mother-in-law. But every China people's own festival, her mother-in-law will never forget it. Even on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, her mother-in-law will cook a delicious meal for her family with great care, and at the same time, she will tell us: "Today, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl will meet at the Queqiao Bridge, and we will have a reunion dinner." My mother-in-law insisted on making jiaozi for the Dragon Boat Festival and never allowed us to buy it in the supermarket. My mother-in-law doesn't care much about her birthday and doesn't allow us to celebrate it for her. But every National Day, a big family will be called to a hotel for a party. We all joked that my mother-in-law would spend her birthday with her motherland. Mother-in-law smiled and looked very useful. Every year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, on the first day of the tenth lunar month, my mother-in-law will go back to her mother's house to pay homage. My mother-in-law said that this is not superstition, but our younger generation's nostalgia for their elders. Only when people have filial piety can they live up to their conscience, otherwise even their neighbors will look down upon them.
My mother-in-law only studied for a few years and never talked about anything, but she integrated the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation into her simple daily life, which ran through her optimistic and positive life journey and gave us a lot of intangible spiritual wealth.
Lyric prose (5) has nowhere to go. In front of me, there is a Wang Yang, ups and downs in the sea, I can't find my home. With the ups and downs of the waves, I seem to see an island in a trance, and I pray that it is not a mirage.
The only raft at sea suddenly broke, and you only caught a log, with your face against the sea, and the seawater stirred up microwaves and poured them into your ears. You struggled to lift your face and shake the seawater out of your hair. The sea breeze blows your face and blows a little hair to the tip of your nose. The friction itches a little. You want to catch it with your hands, but you can't catch it. Your hand is clinging to the wood. If you are not careful, you will fall into the bottom of the sea. Recalling why I was in such a situation, but that memory seems to have been deliberately erased. You are slightly surprised that the sea has become unusually calm. You hold your breath and dare not move. There seem to be thousands of pairs of eyes staring at you. You feel a deep sense of oppression, just like the calm before the storm, weird and frightening. You feel powerless and begin to imagine death. Suddenly, an island came into view. You know, this is your last hope.
I don't know what will happen if people lose faith. Maybe some people really live a life without faith and pursuit, and can enjoy it every day, but I have never met such a person. I only know that the appearance of an isolated island will give you hope for life, and you are eager for its appearance, although you are not afraid of death.
What is faith, even faith? I'm afraid you can't see clearly now. Some people regard the people they like as their beliefs, some people regard money as their beliefs, and some people regard work as their beliefs. It's not about people or things, it's just an obsession in your heart after all. Perhaps it is the last warmth in your heart when you feel lonely and helpless. It is like the last isolated island, which can give you hope.
How did you get to that desolate island when you were drifting at sea? Although the island is far away in your eyes, it is still separated by countless seas. You start to feel a little desperate, and you start to look for your faith. But now, the person you like is not around, and money means nothing to you at this time. Working for you is just a game when you are bored. Your heart begins to panic, and you don't know what you need to give yourself the courage to reach the island. You may have thought about giving up halfway. But suddenly you hear a voice, and it keeps calling you. You know, there are still people in this world who care about you. For this sound, you must swim hard.
Because of this sound, you created a miracle and swam to an isolated island in a fantastic way. Sitting on the beach breathing, you think back in your mind, what is supporting you? Is it your favorite person? Is it your pursuit of material things? Is it really that inexplicable voice? You scratch your head and you don't feel anything. You hear voices, but what you care about is the meaning of your existence after all.
Without the last island, you wouldn't really have such a situation, but if you really felt it yourself. Then I think, there will be no complaints in your life, and there will be no confusion in your life.