After reading the analysis, I suddenly remembered something in high school. At that time, there were four people in our dormitory, all in the same class. There is a girl who is ugly and tall and often laughs at her. Later, when I came to this dormitory, I bullied her with them, saying that bullying was not true, that is, sometimes I corrected some wrong statements when she was talking, and she interrupted her when she was talking about cartoons. It is always reasonable to be on duty. Later, when I was a sophomore, I was divided into classes, and I went home to live. The accident just happened.
There was a sudden news that day. I told the Chinese teacher what the content was. Xiao Zhang, who lives in our house, hasn't studied since he came back from self-study at night!
Was denounced by others at that time. Afterwards, I went to find out how it happened. The reason is that the Chinese teacher is Xiao Zhang's class teacher, and I know Xiao Zhang is our tenant. Seeing her grades slipping, I made up an excuse to encourage her to study hard. Just say I told the teacher!
As a result, my former roommate was Xiao Zhang's class and took the lead in scolding me. I asked her on qq: "What, don't you know what kind of person I am?"
She replied, "I don't know."
My lungs were about to explode, and she didn't even move her head to think about it. Xiao Zhang rented one of our rooms. Should I lie on her door and watch her study? What is my relationship with her? I was so concerned about her that I took the initiative to report my study to the teacher. I'm not that kind!
If you think about it carefully, it may be the contradiction left by the dormitory at that time, but it didn't show up at that time, and I generally belong to the type that I didn't find out.
From this perspective, the relationship between girls' dormitories is really complicated, but why am I not excluded in the dormitory? I also carefully analyzed the reasons. First of all, I am kind and not aggressive.
Secondly, I follow the crowd, that is, follow the crowd. It's not that I don't have my own opinions. I just think some things don't matter. Asking too much will only make me have too many things to do.
The third is not to take the initiative to contradict the people in the dormitory and be yourself. Some people really have no quality. When watching TV, they speak so loudly that they can't wait for the whole dormitory to hear them. It is hard for such a person not to let others hate her.