What kind of person can have such a noble character? It should be someone who wants nothing. If people really accomplish nothing, their personality will automatically improve. The greatness of personality lies in that he can transcend the needs of desire and pursue the perfection of moral character. Therefore, we can do something and not do something according to the requirements of personality. "Don't lower your ambition and humiliate your body." Do nothing, do everything, and only ask for nothing in return can you pursue something. This is the highest state of "nothing". This state is also a kind of mind, a kind of belief, a kind of character and a kind of mentality. It's hard to have such a mentality. This kind of mentality needs time to hone, and it also needs the tempering of bumpy life. It also needs an open mind and a indifferent attitude like water. This indifferent state of mind is the ordinary without seeking, which breeds the greatness without seeking and is full of eternal worries. People are "coming and going naked". Such indifference is a lofty realm and mentality, and it is also a deep-seated orientation for the pursuit of life.
People do not seek quality, but perfection. Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of Shu, said, "Indifference leads to no ambition, while quietness leads to no distance." Nothing is an indifference. In the face of a complicated life, what is needed is indifference without asking for anything in return. Life, looking down on the impermanence of the world and watching the flowers bloom and fall, needs to experience the ups and downs of life, the confusion of setbacks, the unpredictable prosperity, and the ebb and flow of life, so that there will be a state of mind of "indifferent ambition, quiet and far-reaching". After experiencing the hardships of life, you can gradually sublimate your mind in the realm of "people get something for nothing".
People are self-satisfied, and they benefit from merit and cannot be greedy; You don't have to worry about fame and fortune. Although they are all good things, you don't have to take them all. Just like a song says, "What is fame and fortune? Not if you are alive, not if you are dead. " . It is difficult for people to change their inherent ideas. The precipitation of years and the accumulation of life experience make it more and more difficult for people to look back and see if their stuck ideas are correct. When a person wants nothing, he gives up the distractions in his heart and empties the dead branches and leaves accumulated in his secular life. Only by emptying your mind can you live freely and independently to the maximum extent; In order to harvest the future glory and glory; Only in this way can we make life travel again and again. When one day, I suddenly realize something and dust off my soul, I may find that life can be another scene.
People do not seek quality, but self-satisfaction, which is a kind of detachment, indifference and courage. Beyond things, like magnolia, she stands out from the crowd, spotless, with some aloof and reserved, above the secular. I have read the book Reading Life, which contains dozens of famous philosophers, thinkers, writers and artists' essays and essays about life, such as Lu Xun, Liang Shiqiu, Zhu Ziqing, Ba Jin and Xu Zhimo. Masters have made detailed comments on life and human nature from two aspects of life experience and philosophy, which has benefited me a lot. From it, I realized a kind of quiet mind, a wisp of quiet book fragrance and a bottle of sweet wine, all of which are the characters of people who have no desire or desire.
After living for more than 40 years, I told myself that I could stop begging and taking anything, even if I had nothing. Because I understand the true meaning of self-improvement and not seeking quality. Tao Yuanming's untruthfulness is "under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums, leisurely seeing Nanshan"; Fan Zhongyan's untruthfulness is "relaxed and happy, forgetting all insults." Yang Shen's untruthfulness is that "white hair is fishing on the river to watch the autumn moon spring breeze". Lin Zexu's untruthfulness is "all rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance;" The wall stands thousands of miles, and there is no desire. "Qi Baishi's unreality" is praised and makes people laugh; "People laugh when they are destroyed." A realm of nothingness, a noble character and a valuable song of life. In this eternal poetry, I learned to be indifferent, bright and beautiful, calm and far-reaching, tolerant and generous, appreciate the towering walls, and be just and without desire. ...
People are self-satisfied when they don't ask for money, and they don't ask for anything. It is a person's wisdom to look down on everything. "The gains and losses follow the fate, and the heart does not increase or decrease." Everything in the world belongs to the word "light", which is light and bright, elegant and simple, and plain. If you live with fate, you won't like it or worry about it. Knowing the aspirations of our ancestors, I remembered the famous saying "things can be satisfied, and people are complacent without ambitions." With a transcendental meditation, I gradually realized the "complacent" realm of "people are complacent if they don't want anything". Sitting and watching Yun Qi and laughing at the vicissitudes of life, my life will be colorful!
People can only live once! This is common sense that is often forgotten by people. Since you can only live once, you should pay attention to the "living method". Why live too tired and torture yourself?
Living too tired is actually mental fatigue. There is no need to be sad when things are bad. Where can life always be smooth sailing? Why can't you breathe for five minutes when you give the boss an dissatisfied look? In the rest of your life, you will have a lot of performance opportunities, not to mention "iron officials have flowing water", which is an eternal fact. Think about this and you will become calm; Seeing other people's excellent performance, you don't have to be jealous, jealousy is harmful to your health. Do your best.
Since people can only live once, they should live comfortably, happily and smartly. If the work pace is too fast, the mental pressure is too great, the competitive psychology is too strong, the life is too irregular and the time is not long, the spirit and physical strength will collapse. I was originally forty years old, and I am almost old psychologically and physically. What's the use of more money Shakespeare once cursed gold: gold, gold, you are a whore of mankind! You can make beauty ugly or ugly; You can turn a mistake into a right, or you can turn a right into a mistake; Can turn the living into the dead, can also turn the dead into the living! In order to get this golden gold, a good woman is a prostitute, kind, and a guy is a robber! I curse you, damn gold! Marx once predicted that one day people would use gold to build toilets! Of course, a penny can beat a hero, but it is not without money. However, as long as there is a guaranteed salary, why fight for more accumulation!
If you want to live comfortably, happily and smartly, you must learn to be contented. Contentment, contentment is happiness. We are all people like rich and powerful people. Because they are all people, there is no need to look up and smile for help! After all, life is not acting, you don't need to wear too much powder, and you don't need to wear a mask to "take part in accidental amusement"! Laugh happily, sing whenever you want, earn more and earn less, and live a simple and natural life. This is comfort, this is happiness, this is chic!
How much "energy" you have and how much you can achieve should be self-aware. Of course, when you are dull, you should strive for glory; In the glorious times, we should also be soberly aware that there are mountains beyond the mountains, rather than "Laozi is the best in the world." In this way, impetuousness and mistakes are avoided. It is gratifying to be able to create brilliance, but miracles are often caused by many factors. The weather, geographical location and people are just successful. This is the so-called "Man proposes, God disposes"!
Therefore, as long as we are down-to-earth all our lives, even if we can't create any brilliance, we can feel the truth of life and the pursuit of happiness, and we can also "be happy without fish"! Life can't bear too much trouble and sadness! Only when you are calm and calm can you be happy. If we can keep a normal mind and sit and watch the clouds fall and the flowers bloom in Yun Qi, we can get a good mood of endless clouds and water. Do ordinary things, be ordinary people, keep a peaceful mind and a balanced mind. If we can treat every day with this most beautiful mood, then every day will be full of sunshine and hope.
People can only live once! Don't live too tired!
Only by sharing can happiness be doubled. A good life should be full of expectations, surprises and gratitude.